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@SixBrownChicks A6. U know the truth so u can either continue to act like it didn’t happen and let him continue to cheat or u can leave him and let him be the cheater that he is alone.

Q6. I met this sister at the gym. (I'm not a l3sbian). Her body was tea. She's serious about her work outs and she's cool AF. She helps me with my work outs and she created a menu for me. I begged my husband to work out with me but he refused. He would pick me up from the gym but would never come in. He saw my new friend, parked the car and came inside to work out. We're a one-car family and he goes to the gym twice as much as I do. February 23rd, my husband was in a car accident and I met him at the hospital. Not a scratch on the car, but his face was wrecked. He explained that the air bag exploded in his face when he slammed on the brakes to avoid the accident. I returned to the gym and found out that management banned him because he was too flirty with my friend-he groped her—and she beat him with the weights. I'm furious at him and too embarrassed to return to the gym. Meanwhile my husband is walking around like a unicorn with that big knot on his forehead and he refuses to tell me what really happened. What to do at this point? #SBCCHAT

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@SixBrownChicks A5. Y’all weren’t exclusive so she treated u as such. U got what u wanted now u mad cuz she won’t let u be a hobosexual

Q5. We've been in a relationship for 2 years, she thinks she’s my main, but she ain’t. I ALWAYS wanted boundaries. She had her place and I had mine, and I wanted to keep it like that. Two months ago I lost his job and that's when I decided we should move in together, that is, I should live with her. She said no. Some B.S. about she got her place exactly how she wants it. I think she’s seeing other n!ggas and I told her make room for me or I’m OUT. She said, “Take care,” and she blocked me from everything. What did I miss? What TF is she on? #SBCCHAT

@SixBrownChicks A4. Leave that man alone! He was deugfing u to get out of the house, used your car, and still hasn’t brought it back yet. That lady is going to stay with u forever while he lives his life. Move on!

Q4. No matter what goes on during the day, I wake up at 3:13 a.m. I fall asleep, hours later, something frightens me, my eyes snap open and it's exactly 3:13 a.m. My grandmother told me it's lottery numbers and I should play it. My fiancé, Jason, told me I needed medicine to help me sleep. I don't have health insurance to get a prescription, so Jason got me edibles and relaxation tea to knock me out. It worked well, until, one night, it didn't. On that night, I didn't eat the edible, but I drank the tea. I fell asleep with Jason beside me. Boom! 3:13 a.m., I woke up to muffled hip hop music. I follow the sound to the alley behind our apartment. I look out the window, where I see Jason laid back in the driver's seat of MY car while a woman was furiously giving him h3ad. I shouted his name out the window and he sped off. Jason didn't return that night, so I reported my car stolen. The next day, I took an Uber to visit his mom at the halfway house. I brought her flowers and edibles. His mom went crazy after the edibles and she s3xually assaulted several of the men in the home and was evicted. Jason called and said he wanted to return my car, and he needed a place for his mom to stay while he tried to get her back in a program. Should I let her stay or nah? I miss Jason and maybe keeping his addict mom will make us closer? #SBCCHAT

@SixBrownChicks A3. Unless he the owner then u can go above him…🤷🏽‍♀️

Q3. I'm the manager of a team of 4 employees. One of the girls, Erin, is really performative, like she races to her desk at 8 am so the boss will see her working, even though her shift starts at 8:30. The boss has noticed her hustle and he's given her assignments to do behind my back. I told her to report what she's working on but the boss says she doesn't have to. I feel like I'm getting squeezed out. Anyway we had a big presentation for a new client so I came to work on a Sunday to get the meeting room ready. I walked in the office and caught our manager bent over while Erin was behind him, with her face buried between his cheeks. 🍑Tiny, empty liquor bottles were on the table. When I walked in they didn't stop; so I took video of them as I backed out the room and left. We didn't get the new account so the boss made staff cuts; he fired Delores, the hardest worker and Rocky, the IT guy. He announced Erin was going to be in management and he told me I had two weeks to train her. I knew I was about to get fired. I need this job. I showed the boss my video and I told him, “I’m not getting fired and I want better pay.” Him: “That video don’t mean sh!t to me. If you can do THAT better than her, we can discuss your options. If not, prepare to be downsized.” Advice. #SBCCHAT

@SixBrownChicks A2. lol U JUST SHOULDNT BE MARRIED. Houston didn’t do it, u did it. U absolutely should sign and let her be with someone that actually wants her bc u still don’t sound like u want her, u just mad ur plan didn’t work lol

Q2. #Houston is not a safe place for established marriages. There is an undercurrent of freakiness that happens here and, no matter how you were raised, that urge to try something new will manifest. I demanded to my wife that we open our marriage to spice things up. I brought home a 25-year-old; my wife brought home my actual first cousin. Now he’s in love with her, they’re talking about moving in together, and he wants me to sign divorce papers so he can “do right by her.” I started this whole mess and other family members already know that part. Can I hit rewind, and get my wife back to myself, or am I stuck watching this nightmare play out? Help. #SBCCHAT

@SixBrownChicks A1. I mean u sound like u weren’t doing much for the child anyway so it’s your turn to be the parent. 🤷🏽‍♀️ saying she was deployed though is funny to me 😂😂😂😂😂

Q1. I love women and I’m not the faithful type. My fave woman is my babymomma, although we’re not close cuz she tries to pin me down. Anyway, she got deployed. My parents are making ME take care of our daughter while she’s overseas. 😒I did things I’m not proud of, with women I don’t like, to give my babymomma an epic going away party. I slept with crazy Sarah for some money, I slept with old Foxy to get the chicken wings and weed and I did things with two other women for some gift cards. Party was good, and babymomma wasn’t sad about leaving. Why? She wasn’t deployed. Her scamming ass dropped my daughter off and took her ass to Spring Break. Her friends posted pics of them stranded at the airport. How do I pay her messy, scamming, ass back? She’s still pretending to be at sea and won’t come get our toddler. This ain’t right. Help. #SBCCHAT

@HBCUfessions U putting more energy into a loyalty test than the relationship sounds like. 🤷🏽‍♀️

I sent my girl anonymous flowers at work as a loyalty test. If she doesnt mention them when I ask about her day, I am assuming she thinks they are from a side piece and she is getting dumped. Staying toxic is a full time job and I am the CEO. - Allen

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How Conservative Women in America act 😂🇺🇸

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@SixBrownChicks A6. Baby he’s community property. He’s not yours, you are not his. Seek therapy and move on.

Q6. Quan said he would love me thru thick and thin, but apparently not. I called him all day and he didn't respond, so I  went to his house to check on him. I looked in his window and saw him lying in bed, naked, with his babymomma. He's pissed at ME. He pressed charges on me because I tapped on the window with my blicky to wake him up and a stray bullet crashed through his bedroom window and landed in the bed frame. I had no idea the blicky safety wasn't on, and that a live round was in the chamber. He broke up with me. But if I can forgive him for lying in bed with that wh0re, shouldn't he forgive me for the stray bullet? I know he loves me. We’re soulmates. What to do to get him to drop the charges and let me back in? #SBCCHAT

@SixBrownChicks A5. U do know u will get bad karma for mistreating her after she apologized and continuously promising to help while watching her suffer. Let her go to find someone tha can help or to live her life free of you.

Q5. Last summer, my girlfriend of 2 years really left me after I paid for her BBL. She's was shaking that new ass everywhere online and I tried to pretend that we were still together because I didn't want to seem like a complete simp. She made fun of me online; and she posed with other men on her profile picture, these men ALWAYS had their hands on her ass. I removed our couple photo from my profile. She told everyone who would listen that I paid for her ass. I was furious. I stalked her page for a while and I noticed she looked different. She was having a hard time; her body reacted terribly to the surgery and she developed heart problems . She asked me for forgiveness and money to reverse her BBL. I made her publicly apologize online for disrespecting me. She posted our photo and told the world what a great man I am. I promised to cover her new medical bills, but I didn’t. A friend of hers slipped into my DMs and we’re dating. My ex is in bad shape, am I wrong to let her suffer? She could expire from that botched procedure. I STILL promise to pay the $12,000 but I’m not going to. 😈I just want to make sure my karma will be clean when I walk away from her for good. Advice. #SBCCHAT

@SixBrownChicks A4. What’s wrong with u? This is a lot, I don’t even know what to say 😂😂😂😂

Q4. The local strip club burned to the ground, so my girlfriend (a stripper) joined a Facebook lapdance club, where men pay a flat monthly fee for a lap dance delivery. It's a short ride from lap dancing to s3x for pay, so I purchased a lap dance package for my friend so he could tell me what's really going on. Well, my girlfriend is tricking; even worse, she slept with my friend and didn't bring any money home. It's her body and her body count, but the least she could do is bring me some of that money if she wants me to look the other way when she's cheating on me. Also, my friend has seen her twice, behind my back. It seems like everyone is getting paid and laid but me. What am I doing wrong? How do I manage her career? Or should I report the lap dance group to Facebook and shut it down? #SBCCHAT

@SixBrownChicks A3. That lady husband went home to be with his wife. He not thinking about u, ur cousin, or his wife just himself. U dodged a bullet so be happy. U can put ur cousin out and still be family 🤷🏽‍♀️.

Q3. I'm 22, and my boyfriend is 31 and separated from his wife. I let my 19-year-old cousin move in with me after her mother d!ed in a car accident. I came home with food only to catch my cousin in my bed with my boyfriend. He swore it was a “one-time mistake” and begged me not to leave him and I refused…He lied tho; he was cracking my cousin from day one, and she may be pregnant by him. He returned to his wife; meanwhile, my cousin is still in my house, throwing up and looking fat 😒. I partially blame myself for making everything too easy for him, and I wouldn't dare put my cousin out on the street; she's an orphan. I'm her only family. But obviously I miss my man. It hurts my soul that he's back with his wife, but I fear that if I invite him to come back to me, he may be coming back for my cousin instead. Cousin swears they are not talking anymore but I suspect they are. What to do? #SBCCHAT?

@SixBrownChicks A2. There’s no one playing games but you. She put her foot down after u played in her face so find u a street, a bush, a homeless shelter, family or friends to go stay with and get a job. U can do music and have a job at the same time u just lazy. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Q2. Women: Why can't you stand 10 toes down and support your man? I’m 29, I was unemployed for 2 years while living with my girlfriend and working on my music. I finally got a shot to record with an A-list rap artist. I had to move to LA, and I asked my girl to quit her job and move with me (she had the money). She took a short leave from her job, moved across the country, and paid every single moving expense. She was looking out until she got jealous of my success. I was paid to do a verse and the artist got jealous and removed the verse from the final song. I sent my girl back home because I needed to mix with the women in LA who knew the industry. Things didn’t work out. These LA 🥷 are mad jealous of me. I was too poor and this/close to selling my a$$ so I told my (ex) girl that I was moving back home and I needed to stay with her. She said NO. What? My name is still tatted on her neck and she refuses to look out for me? What game is she playing and how do I win? #TalentedButPoor #SBCCHAT

@SixBrownChicks A1. Girl what?! U have a husband jeopardized it all for some dude u work with who has someone now u mad at everyone but YOU?!?

Q1. My work husband and I finally crossed the line and we did the damn thing, at the end of his shift in the back of the delivery van. It was my birthday present. I’m 12 years older than him, his girlfriend is 8 months pregnant and I’ve been married for a decade. This was the best lay I’ve ever had, period. The next day I was in my new stylist’s chair, (I had been there for 3 hours, and I just paid my bill). I was taking selfies with my soft, bouncy $370 silk-pressed hair, when the door swung open and a woman threw a pail of water on me, soaking my hair and phone. She said three words: “Nasty old ho.” My stylist was in shock; but she did not refund my money or fix my hair because she had other clients. I was furious. It was my birthday; I went to dinner with my husband looking a mess. That Monday, my work husband and I were suspended because someone caught the work van bouncing on their Ring camera and it also captured us climbing out the back of it. This footage was making the rounds on social media and I thought my work husband’s girlfriend saw it, and had someone ruin my hair. Nope. My husband saw the footage and HE had someone ruin my hair. Husband also served me ChatGPT divorce papers at dinner. I want my marriage back. What can I do? #TheMailLady #SBCCHAT

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@SixBrownChicks A6. Is u dumb or is u stupid? Leave that man where he is…count the money as a loss…give your dad back his money and he a damn grip.

Q6. I work for my father's trucking company. I stole money from him to bail my boyfriend out of jail, and his first night out, he cheated on me with his babymomma. When I caught him at her house, he called me insecure and told me to stop competing with his kids. “Of course the first person I’m going to see is the mother of my kids,” he yelled. Here’s the thing, if she’s so important, why didn’t she bail him out? Doesn’t he owe me loyalty for looking out for him? I want to give him a baby to be on equal status with her, but I don’t know if it’s worth it or not. I love him, and I think he loves me, too. It’s just that they ALWAYS break up and he’s always RUNNING BACK to her. If I try to leave, he runs to me. Advice. #SBCCHAT

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@SixBrownChicks A5. Listen u raggedy b-word, women like y absolutely SHOULD DO better and stop calling people their friends and faking like they are friends when they actually want wha the have and are hidden haters. U got karma for doing tha and she didn’t have to tell u a damn thing!

Q5. Women, can we DO BETTER and look out for each other? Tracy left her man after two years of dating. Let's be clear, HE was the catch; Tracy had no business dating a fine man like that. He had a job and his family had money. I asked everyone why they broke up but no one knew; the general consensus was that the breakup was immediate and final. I didn't ask Tracy, because, why bother? I didn't want her to know I was interested in him. This man had herp3s and he gave it to me. She could've told me this man had herp3s.  Women need to do better by each other; if a man is on fire, the right thing to do is tell others. WE’RE ALL FRIENDS with Tracy. She could’ve warned me. I shouldn't have herp3s; and I wouldn't have it if she wouldv'e told the sisterhood why she left him. How do I confront her for not warning me about him--without letting her know HOW I found out her ex has herp3s? #SBCCHAT