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Jisoo’s older brother’s wife exposed her husband’s domestic violence.
My spouse repeatedly violated my privacy and exercised coercive control over many aspects of my life.
1. Invasion of privacy and phone monitoring
He frequently checked my phone in secret while I was asleep.
He deleted and changed things on my phone without my permission.
Before 2025, he deleted my photos, changed profile pictures, changed names on KakaoTalk, Danggeun Market, and other apps, changed status messages, and checked my Safari/iCloud records, chat history, contact list, and blocked list.
He told me not to delete any conversations with my parents or friends because he would check them.
2. Social control and isolation
He told me not to exchange more than a few messages a day with female friends.
He forced me to use KakaoTalk profile photos with him and told me to upload at least three photos of us together.
He even made me quit/leave KakaoTalk.
3. Control over appearance and daily life
He banned nail art and only allowed pedicures.
He restricted my clothing and makeup.
While we were in Banpo, he ordered me to throw away my cosmetics, shorts, and skirts, and I actually had to throw them away.
He said I could not attend an academy if the teacher was male, and he came there himself to check.
He imposed rules about how I should wear my bag and what clothes I could wear because he said other men would look at me.
4. Restriction of movement and constant surveillance
He severely restricted where I could go, allowing only places such as the area near home, the grocery store, the OB-GYN, the dermatologist, and the academy.
Whenever I moved from place to place, I had to call him and report what I was doing every 10 to 30 minutes.
I also had to tell him what I was wearing whenever I went out.
He demanded that I get a tattoo with our names and anniversary date, and threatened consequences if I refused.
5. CCTV monitoring
There was CCTV in Banpo, and when we moved to Songdo, he installed CCTV in my home without my consent.
He was the only one who could access it, and it was used to monitor whether I left the house.
In December, after I strongly objected and a lawyer told him it was illegal, he finally gave me access, but that access was later revoked again.
6. Sexual coercion and physical harm
He repeatedly demanded sex by force.
He demanded sex more than twice a day.
Even when I resisted and clearly did not want to, he forcibly removed my clothes and had sex with me.
As a result, I repeatedly suffered from vaginitis and cystitis, and even after going to the hospital, I could not recover because the forced sex continued.
He also forced me to have anal sex.
