


Path of Men
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@PathOfMen_
Helping you level up in life | partner @InTheAssembly




You get love when you stop competing for it. -- Competence is good. It gets you things. Love is not one of them. Love is not a "thing" it's a resonance. Competence is for the things you don't have. If you don't have love, you can never have it. You're pressing the same piano note. If it sounds broken, it sounds broken. Love is not a reward that will validate your potential of what you could be if the piano note was not broken. It just resonates with the same exact sound. Broken. The precise reason why you want love is why you can't have it. It's beautiful it in it's simplicity. To have it, you must first have it. You're forced to drop your own bullshit and stop pretending anyone can give it to you. Stop pretending you can buy it by performing things. You know competence is not what gives you love. Because you yourself, you would never love anyone for their competence. Yes, admire, respect, pay, stuff. Not - love. Not that. You know. You can stop pretending and fucking it up and face it. You already have it. It's just painful to go through the layers of bullshit. Clean it up, and press the piano key. It multiplies.

If you use your height, your looks, your finances, or your status as reasons to avoid talking to the women you like, you unconsciously believe you are unworthy of love at your core And if you resent women for “only liking successful chads,” realize you will never attract a truly good woman until you heal your self-hatred, scarcity, and projection


