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I definitely think my time with findom turned me into a people pleaser. And really is that such a bad thing? Who doesn’t want to make people happy?

Today marks 4 months since I’ve been done with findom. Every so often I miss it but I think for the most part I’m much happier now!

Someone asked me a little while ago how much money I’ve wasted on findom. None? Like it was all for a reason. Just because I’m done with it doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth it lol

Is it just me or does anyone else not get the whole blackmail side of findom? If you are into it that’s awesome, I just wish i understood it hahaha

Another word findom ruined for me, “freedom.” Strange how hearing that word in context flips the whole concept on its head. Still want my normal brain back lol

The feet to findom to armpits pipeline needs to be studied for future generations.

Findom has completely warped my thoughts around socks and it’s not ok. I want my normal brain back lol

Is findom the gateway drug to feet or is it the other way around?

I think I’m going to make a list of words findom took from me. There’s no reason for anyone to struggle with the word wallet lol

I genuinely want to help someone move on from findom. I feel like if I can do it anyone can. Only problem is people who are into findom are notoriously bad at decision making

Random findom thought for the day. I don’t know if feet are actually that attractive. Socks and feet were a huge trigger but now that I’ve moved on, like what did I see before?

I kinda like the idea of leaving for a while and only coming back for my random thoughts on findom. I may very well keep it this way.

I never would have guessed that the most confusing thing about being done with findom is how the word “sent” is completely warped in your mind. I legitimately can not reply with just the word “sent” to anything ever again lol

Took a nice little break from here and from findom in general. Should do this more often!

I’m not really struggling one day without findom right? This urge is going to go away right??

Ok had a small findom relapse yesterday but now I should be ok. Day 1 of quitting findom starts today!

Was trying to be done with #findom but relapsed after a week… oh well… at least I know I’m a good boy

it’s so easy to make losers give in and relapse. all they need is a little more motivation to hit send

I swear it’s like I have 0 self control

I have such a love hate relationship with findom and my triggers. Makes it impossible to resist sometimes