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Choose people who choose you.

Ne soyez jamais impressionnées par un homme « pieux ». Faites en sorte d’être plus élevées qu’eux et ne complexez pas. Certains s’en servent pour manipuler et faire croire qu’ils sont meilleurs pour vous. Nitt ande lene ak mom si Yallah mais pas ngir kheb sa bopp.

If you only wished to be happy, this could be easily accomplished; but we wish to be happier than other people, and this is always difficult, for we believe others to be happier than they are. Montesquieu

Notice how Allah gave the believer a raft without any labor

"Un grand homme n'est qu'une femme ordinaire"

A woman with money is a woman with options.

Chegar nesse filme sem saber nada sobre a trama foi a melhor escolha que eu fiz

adulting really humbles you. i finally understand why some people go quiet, stop posting, or just disappear from social media.

Pourquoi une femme qui fête son divorce choque plus que le silence d’une femme malheureuse dans son mariage depuis 10 ans ? Posez-vous la vraie question.

Le conseil que je donne a toutes mes amies qui se marient « so demei , nanga commencer lo meuna yégali »

comme c'est stupide de blâmer une femme d'avoir choisi le mauvais homme, mais ne jamais blâmer l'homme qui a simulé toute sa personnalité juste pour l'avoir

They put 17 people, married an average of 21 years, into a brain scanner and showed them a photo of their spouse. The same parts of the brain lit up that fire when a teenager has their first crush. Two decades together, and the chemistry was still going off like fireworks. The study ran at Stony Brook in 2011. What changes after 20 years is the anxiety. That panic of not knowing if they love you back, the wondering, the checking. All of that fades. The pull toward them stays. So that tells you what old love looks like in the brain. It doesn’t tell you how a couple gets there. A marriage researcher named John Gottman has spent 40 years on that question. He films couples arguing in his lab at the University of Washington and predicts whether they’ll divorce. He gets it right 93.6% of the time, from 15 minutes of footage. More than 3,000 couples now. He watches the two-second moments between sentences. The pauses. That’s where the prediction lives. The fights themselves matter less. His go-to example: your wife is staring out the window and says, look at that bird. You glance up and say, oh wow. Or you keep scrolling on your phone. That tiny choice, that little reach for your attention, is what he calls a bid. He watched newlyweds in his lab and followed them for six years. The couples who were still married had responded to each other’s bids 86 times out of 100. The couples who divorced had responded 33 out of 100. Same money fights. Same in-laws. Same dishes in the sink. The one thing that was different was the bird. This part stopped me. Gottman found that 69% of the things every couple fights about are problems that never get solved. The chores. The money. His mother. Whose family they spend Christmas with. The arguments repeat for 50 years. Happy couples and unhappy couples have roughly the same list of problems. The happy ones learned to argue about that list without contempt. The eye roll. The sigh. The little smile that says you are pathetic. Gottman calls contempt the sulfuric acid of relationships. He says it’s the single biggest sign that a marriage is over. When you see two old people asleep on each other on a plane, the forgiveness in that picture is real. They have absorbed thousands of small failures by now. There is something quieter underneath the forgiveness, though. Decades ago, one of them said look at that bird. The other one looked up.

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Maryam is not a number, she was a child with dreams.

lsraeI kiIIed little Maryam, a child, and wiped out her entire family in a strike in southern Lebanon.

Killing of 12 years old Muhammad al-Durrah with his dad in 2000 #IsraelisGenocidalEntity

Don't stop talking about Palestine...

Vous êtes maintenant africains ?

one of the healthiest habit anyone should learn is training yourself not to talk too much.