
Peter
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I have one piece to share. I hope all these TL conversations do not poison your heart. I hope you're not training your mindspace to start choosing partners from a place of fear, or lowered likelihood to cheat. Ask Israel Juju. These are faulty compasses. Churchgoers cheat. Atheists cheat. Hijab wielders cheat. Virgins cheat. Adelebos cheat. 20s cheat. 30s cheat. 40s cheat. I hope the factors that calibrate your values, are not from Twitter thinkpieces but are strengthened offline. Else, you will end up as a box of ruin. My safest predicators for relationships are: - brackets, - reciprocity. If you're doing well financially, box within potentials like you doing well financially. Don't be a 7fig earning techie & you'll be hunting smallies struggling with 200L carryover in Laspotech. Mental brackets. Intellectual brackets. Financial brackets. Exposure brackets. One of my theories as to why, people (read men) scale way below these brackets is because they're scripting scenarios for control. They're hunting "bendable" women. Chief, she won't be naive forever - but I'll expand on this, some other time. Be big on reciprocity. As you're doing for your partner in the early weeks, if they like you they would be doing as much. Using the filters of brackets and reciprocity, are safer predicators than fear and paranoia.



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