PracticalFLR

What happens when a #FLR author starts learning graphic design? A book you live, not a book you read! This is a protocol workbook and journal, not a book you read! PRACTICAL FLR PRESENTS..... Practical FLR: Chastity Management Protocol is a complete 90-day system for your female-led relationship. With binding lock-up contracts, daily journal entries and daily checklists for her to structure each day with clarity, power exchange is taken to the next level! The included 90 day journal is for him to document his emotional journey, as well as 90 daily checklists for her to assign him tasks and chores and track his progress using a unique points system. To start it all off, is a chastity lock-up contract that signs away all negotiation ability and makes her rule his law. Once signed there will be no compromise, and the protocol will hold him accountable for every action. The best thing about the protocol is that it is fully customizable for her to create the exact FLR she wants. The protocol includes many more tools for her to utilize for complete dominance such as: Lock-Up Points Cards: Every lock-up can be customized with a clearly defined points and demerits system. Infraction Trackers: Designed as optional cut-outs to give to him, clearly expressing the infraction and the punishment to come! Reward and Punishment Cards: These cards will have him striving to earn or struggling to avoid! Reward and Punishment Menu: This is a custom list of rewards and punishments to choose when needed. Unlock and Release Trackers: Every unlock and its reason is recorded, as well as the conditions of release! Weekly Plan and Review: Every week, she can review his quality of service and obedience, and determine his privileges for the week. Monthly Plan and Notes: Here she can plot out the goals for the month and his minimum requirements. Each week is reviewed here to provide a total performance rating to track each month! Master Record: Everything is recorded, and written in stone! He gets away with nothing, ever! Daily Points Record: Every day his point performance is recorded, track his improvements each month! His FLR Wish List: Here he can express his fantasies, and she can decide if she's interested in it or not. Her FLR Vision: This is where she can lay it all out, exactly what she wants, and he can weigh in on his comfort level. This helps create discussions about the future and where the FLR is ultimately heading! FLR Notes: The perfect place to write down all thoughts, reflections, inspirations and anything else. The Chastity Management Protocol gives her all of the power and him none of it. He gets away with nothing from the moment that lock-up contract is signed! It's the perfect control and obedience protocol that every FLR needs to turn power exchange into a structured and undeniable reality! For dominant women who desire total control, and submissive men who crave true submission, The Chastity Management Protocol is for you!

@spoil_sam That's because older men understand their place far better.

older men are always the most obedient, they’ll do anything without question 😋

@scorpioniceyes That's why FLR's work so well.

submissive men are direct, organized, clean, responsible, generous, and sweet. you don’t have to spoon feed them because they are already competent. they are like knights defending their princess at all costs. don’t confuse/ conflate pathetic fetishizers with true submission.

Both dominance and submission are earned. One is not better than the other. The whole point of a FLR is to unlock that level of intimacy with each other. To connect with each other so deeply that neither of you are afraid to express your deepest desires. There's a lot of focus on subs earning her dominance and being " worthy" of her. But few focus on whether or not she's worthy of his submission. Some women don't deserve a man submitting to her. Just like many men don't deserve a woman's dominance. Abusive, manipulative and non-consensual mindsets are unhealthy, and damaging. A #FLR is meant to be healing for both, not destructive. You can't build a life together if one is constantly beating the other down. Be worthy of each other.

"The best thing about chastity is that there really are no rules. You can choose exactly what you want it to be, and choose what suits you both best in your FLR." #FLR

@Missyisaqueenx Even if she was a 9 or 8.....1....... it doesn't matter she should still be requiring a cage.

She's a 10 but forces you to wear a cage

@worshipladycoco Absolutely.

Men simply do better when they’re caged!

The best part of being a submissive male, is giving her an orgasm without receiving one. The moment she is satisfied and he knows the cage isn't coming off is a moment of deep sub-space. #FLR

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Asking her to extend your time in chastity prove your loyalty and dedication to serving her. Smart subs stop begging to be unlocked and start begging to be locked longer for her. #FLR

Long lock-ups are much better and more intense with the use of a waist strap. #FLR

Are you ready to make chastity your lifestyle? #FLR

Men don't need to be in a #FLR to be in chastity. It's perfect for mental discipline while waiting for a FLR. It also helps understand the mindset required to submit, so that there's total mental clarity when committing to a FLR. This mental clarity is important, because many men think they want to submit and end up agreeing to things simply because they're horny.

Using a chastity cage is like a life hack. It stops masturbation but increases libido. It redirects attention from things that don't matter to things that do matter. Like from porn, to her. It increases motivation, not just to be unlocked, but in general. There's simply more energy to get things done. High libido means, feeling emotions better. With a high libido, the experience of life is just simply better. There's passion in everything. With a low libido, life lacks passion. It enhances the ability to listen. When in chastity, you realize there's no rush. Giving you space to take your time and work through the high intensity of arousal and associated emotions, meaning, it gives him time to listen. To listen to her, to listen to his body, to listen in every life situation. It's no longer about knee jerk reactions and instant gratification. Its about quality and enjoyment of the journey not the destination, because in chastity, there really is no destination. It teaches self-discipline. A few days or weeks in chastity really does change the mindset to be more resilient, which has cascading effects on everything else he does in life. A more disciplined mind, means a higher quality experience and understanding at all times. Chastity is a life hack, and it can be very empowering if it's used that way. For both him and her. That's why #FLR's work so well.

Exclusive Article to Substack! Being Submissive: The Core Calling "The interesting thing about men’s submissive urge is that it’s only for the right woman. They don’t feel the desire to submit to men, or anyone other than the right woman. Fantasy might tell them otherwise, and the desires born of fantasy are often best not made into reality. The truth is, one woman is enough. The right woman will be showered with attention and cherished every moment of the day."

"As masturbation ends, he must learn to shift from selfish driven desires to a service oriented mindset that feels infinitely better than masturbation ever could. While it may be difficult to give up the tried and true method of sexual gratification that masturbation provided, there is a far larger ocean of sexual gratification, bliss, and fulfillment found in giving it up and surrendering to her." Read the rest here: practicalflr.substack.com/p/why-male-mas…

Subs learn how to massage! Massage is important because it helps you learn how to make your touch feel amazing. This is very beneficial for when she has a stressed day, you will know exactly what to do to release all of her tension and she will crave your touch. #FLR

It becomes very obvious, shortly after a #FLR begins, that he's best kept denied. But with the possibility of release with good behavior and obedience. Just keep it obscure, so he never really knows if or when he will be released. He thrives best when he doesn't expect.

No Stroking Ever (without permission)! One of the most important things that many submissive men tend to not realize until after the fact, is no longer stroking their cock. Once in a FLR, all self stimulation tends to be removed and is only granted upon her permissions. However, men are so used to touching themselves, that giving this up can be a challenge. At first it will make him more aroused. Refraining as best as he can, it will be erotic, and the surrender will be intoxicating. However, as the days tick by, the urge to touch will only grow with intensity. The chastity cage will prevent any direct stimulation, but it shouldn't be just the cage preventing the stimulation. It's about training his mind to let go of that behavior entirely. After a week or so, most men will really miss any kind of stimulation, but it's the satisfying feeling of self-stroking that he will miss the most. They are so used to reaching down to play when aroused and this is where the real tease and denial comes into play. To be a good submissive, and to really feel obedience to her they must realize self stimulation is no longer for them. This often sends some of the more desperate men into pillow humping frenzies trying to get any kind of stimulation through their cage. Even if they are successful in their endeavor, they will realize their mistake after they've cum in their cage. They will realize they let her down, and they will instantly regret it. When enhanced by her own punishments and disappointments, it doesn't take long for submissive men to realize that they actually must surrender themselves to her. That their sex life really is, no longer something they can control. It's for her to control. There really will be no stroking without permission, ever again. This is when real behavior change occurs. This is when true submission happens. When a sub no longer tries to " get off" without explicit permission from her. That's when his focus can entirely be on serving her, providing her pleasure, and obeying her commands without selfish needs getting in the way. That he will never stroke himself again. That he will never cum without permission again. That her pleasure is always a much greater priority than his own. That he gets to give her orgasms without having any of his own. Life changes drastically once he is service oriented and focused on giving pleasure rather than taking it. That's when he can finally derive pleasure from hers and enjoy long term chastity rather than see it as a form of punishment. Then when she does stroke him, or allow him to stroke, it's that much more appreciated and with a much deeper meaning. Learn more with the Practical FLR book series! books2read.com/b/The-Submissi…