👑 Prince PHELAR🤴

I once applied for a volunteering position at a company in Lagos. I was very honest during the interview, but at the end, the interviewer said they wanted someone with at least one year of experience. I wondered if I already had that experience, why would I be applying for a volunteering position?

I pity Muslim daddies this month🥲😂 School fees Eid ram Eid clothes Family support Travels But responsible daddies you people are gonna be alright Insha Allah

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Deal of the day: You get $200 everyday. But you must read a book in any field for a minimum of 2 hours everyday. Are you taking the deal or not?

Just sat down listening to this guy rant away. He's getting married in a few months but his babe just texted him she's asking if he didn't mind her going on a date with a man asking her out. Saying it's just a casual outing. I told him to accept his L and move on immediately because she should normally reject the guy's date proposal immediately without even needing to ask him what he felt. He said I'm judging the situation too harshly. It's tough in the dunya.

Boss it’s Trauma imprint as well Bulk of the issue came from how an average male child was raised to swallow pain and smile because “A man is not a woman” Too many adults are traumatized and then social media didn’t help matters at all, it made it worse. He has probably heard people say “Women will insult you if they help you “and while that may be true for some men, lots of men that has never experienced it will allow that thinking to shape them. So, He has probably allowed that programming to change and shape his perception , a deeper wound is underneath and who ever he ends up with will bear the brunt sadly . This is true also , for anyone who also refuses help from people, it is Trauma that needs to be dealt with. I have been there.

We’re not offended that you don’t want children. That’s your choice, and no one is trying to take that away from you. What offends men is when that personal choice turns into pressure on other women to do the same. If feminism is truly about choice, then it should respect all choices…including women who want to have families. Constantly pushing negative stories, videos, and tweets to discourage younger women from having children doesn’t feel like empowerment; it feels like influence. There are plenty of men who don’t want kids either. For example, my colleague is 53 and chose not to have children. He doesn’t spend his time online trying to convince other men to follow his path.why can’t yall move on with your choice? Everyone should be free to decide what works for their own life…without pressure, fear, or messaging that suggests one path is superior to another.

Women have audacity

“Lamine Yamal advertises for Capri Sun.” Nigerians: Big move! Nice one… influence! “Davido advertises for Munch It.” Same Nigerians: He no get level. Na everything he dey promote? Leave these gigs for influencers na. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

“Men help another man” Father’s Day challenge 🫱🏾‍🫲🏿 Men only: Today is Father’s Day. Many men, especially family men, usually don’t receive their flowers Quote/comment below 1 thing that will bring you joy today. Men, let’s help one another. I will, too Happy Father's Day S.O 🖤

Yes I’ll admit That post about Caesarian section triggered me Because I’m a woman who was in labour for 40 hours I was given the maximum dose of oxytocin three times to induce labour and did not dilate beyond 2cm I was so mentally prepared to push out a human but my body just wouldn’t Which one should I talk about? The intense pain ripping through me every few minutes? Should I talk about how excruciating it is to have doctors check you for dilation while you’re actively in labour? Should I talk about the exhaustion? Should I talk about how that when those who have vaginal delivery have long forgotten CS moms are still grappling with wounds and pain and numbness and tingling from the anaesthetsia? I had my baby in Canada and the nurses kept asking me if I wanted a pain relief I did not want any drug to interfere I was ready to bear the pain and I did I think I have the most supportive husband in the world. He stood there every second with me. Holding my hand. Wincing as Pain coursed through me But he did not feel the pain. Not the physical one. I did. So has every woman who has gone through this When the doctors saw that my contractions were not the “good type”, they said I could get a uterine rupture, I had to be taken for a CS. And everyday I’m grateful to God for the miracle of a CS That a mother who has given her all can still have her baby and they both be fine So sir, when you have had contractions for 40 hours When you have had 7 layers of your body sliced open so you can bring forth children When you have gone months nursing a wound that is layers deep When you’ve been placed on a cold surgical table and cut 7 layers deep For some 4 times. Then come back and have this Conversation with me Thank God for your mother and the long line of women in your family that had vaginal deliveries. But no two women are the same. Don’t put that burden on the woman you would marry. A CS is not a shortcut A CS does not make a woman weak A CS does not happen because you did not pray enough or you’re unlucky A CS is a medical miracle so that women like me especially pre term moms, can come out alive from the mystery that is pregnancy and childbirth Blessings.

Nobody should be this foolish.

Your parents have been married for close to 30 years. You don’t see them as role models for marriage, but two social media couples who got married and divorced in less than two years are making you scared to get married. You see that you don’t have sense.