Selasi A. Kusorgbor

One of the cleaners at my former place of work, always with his Earpiece listening to music while he cleans, i greet everyone at the office like we're pals, hand shake and a "guy hug", eveyone, at the end of most months , i go around giving some of the cleaners 2k each or 1k depending on how much of my salary I've spent before e enter, including the security guys too, i do this because i know how much they earn, and i can tell you its not enough to survive in Lagos, Fast forward to about 6 years later, i had left the organization and i was part of a committee organizing an event for some executives for a retreat at a very nice resort here in Lagos, i never met the manager in person , but we spoke on the phone e few times and i was on the call most of the times with the concierge team. The day we brought the team, the concierge personel was introducing eveyone to the team, and a tall fine gentle man walked in and she said "oh here's our Manager, before i could even open my hand for a handshake, he screamed my name, hugged carried me off my feet, i was still trying to figure out who he was, and he said its me( called his name) , i couldn't believe it , he was the same cleaner guy at my former place of work, now a whole manager?!!!. I hugged him and carried him this time , i was super excited. Apparently while he was a cleaner he was also finishing at National open university, he told how he's always looking forward to the 2k from me every month.😁 . To cut the long story short, i got 70% discount on everything i did, the room, the food i paid almost nothing. 😁. God can lift anyone from anywhere, never look down on anyone , i treat eveyone with same respect.

You need to rid yourselves of jealousy, envy and pretence.

I hope every sensitive lover girl finds her reassuring lover boy who treats her like she's a gift from heaven

@ItisKwabenaJoey @__theSeyram Herrr😂😂😂

@__theSeyram 😂 we called it loom in 2019

Please no one should insult me, genuine question. Why do you people join susu groups to save with strangers you don’t know, like I want to understand, why can’t you do it yourself? And when they run with your money you come on here & be crying like seriously?🤦🏾‍♂️

I just have this crazy faith that this year is going to be one of the best years of my life.

Nothing really beats having money.

My biggest goal this year is to quit playing with my potential. I'm way too loaded upstairs to be making mediocre moves.

to the woman who takes care of everyone… I hope you meet someone who finally takes care of you.

Thank You God For Keeping Things Running Smoothly Even when Evidence is blurry

My only regret is not leaving people alone the first time they moved funny.

I hope we all find people who genuinely like us and want to build and grow with us. In friendships, in relationships, in life 🧬✨.

There is a woman out there right now who didn’t get to live a soft life. She was handed chaos, grief, and betrayal, and still had to learn how to bloom anyway. Wherever you are sis, you’re going to win.

@legxiss I’m well. How about you?

@PrincessSelasie Been a while Selsy. How be you and work?

Don't ever put me in a "The Boy is Mine" situation. The Man is yours.

when love visits again.. may it be God sent, safe, secure, genuine & reassuring.

This is one of my biggest fears about cheating partners, they don’t just betray you, they attract chaos to you. Psychos. Problems that go way beyond sex. Next thing, you’re minding your business and someone is stalking you or has it out for you. God abeg.

self sabotage is real af, don't let your mind destroy you.

this year i will try more. i will learn more. i will do more.

i will get that car, i will get the house, i will get that life i want. 🫶🏾- 2026

The only plans I have for 2026, is to become more disciplined than ever, rebuild my nervous system and get out of fight or flight mode, and to fully surrender to God.. everything else that God has for me will come to me once I do those things first. ✨