Psycho Dad

Okay, so I finally got around to creating a twitter account for my kinky side. Check out PsychodadComics for my vanilla posts. This one is for following and interacting with people involved in all sorts of kink, including BSDM and swinging.

@2ndRulesAA @REApp1212 @AshSinclairOF @CelesteFinally Calm down, snowflake

@SeriousSamAdam @REApp1212 @AshSinclairOF @CelesteFinally Stop acting like you know anything about reality. Biologists and sociologists are not in your side.

@AshSinclairOF @Ravian__W @REApp1212 @CelesteFinally

@AshSinclairOF @REApp1212 @CelesteFinally And there you go. Continuing to harass them. Your rhetoric is what results in their death. you don’t care about people. Stop pretending you do.

@AshSinclairOF @REApp1212 @CelesteFinally They absolutely are being harassed. And killed. By people like you. It takes zero energy to gender them appropriately.

@HeadstrongHW @SexTalkTuesday @swinger411 Also, don’t let your partner push you into “taking one for the team”. It’s okay to say no.

@SexTalkTuesday @swinger411 #SexTalkTuesday A5: be patient and know your comfort level. You will always have another opportunity. Better to want more than regret going too fast too soon.

Ok last but not least: Question #5 from @swinger411: "What are some general questions you have about #Swinging OR what advice do you have for curious newbies?" #SexTalkTuesday

@AshSinclairOF @REApp1212 @CelesteFinally “They’re free to live how they want to live without harassment”. There. Fixed it.

@AshSinclairOF @CelesteFinally “Don’t want that much”? Are you joking? You’re literally wanting to deny ethical treatment of those you deem less than worthy.

@SexTalkTuesday @swinger411 And unfortunately, I missed it! 😭.

Hey hey everyone!!! After a little hiatus due to some travels, #SexTalkTuesday returns tomorrow with @swinger411! 🥳 Join us at 8pm EST for a chat all about the lifestyle and more!

@SexTalkTuesday @swinger411 A5. Advice: be patient. Develop friendships first. Word will spread and you will become more popular. Nice and funny count a lot more than a good figure. #sextalktuesday

@SexTalkTuesday @swinger411 A4. I struggle with approaching women I don’t know. I have a hard time thinking they’d be interested in me. I do try to put that aside and just say “fuck it” and talk to them. Fake it until you make it. #sextalktuesday

Question #4 from @swinger411 - "The #Swinging community is very body positive. Has a negative self-image ever prevented you from exploring swinging or other sexual experiences? If this is something you've overcome feel free to share your experience." #SexTalkTuesday

@SexTalkTuesday @swinger411 A3. Several times. Went to a pool party a few weeks ago with one of my girlfriends. It was her first time. I fucked a woman numerous times in the pool and gave a spanking demonstration with my girlfriend. #sextalktuesday

Question #3 from @swinger411 - "Have you ever attended a #swingers party or partaken of the lifestyle (or do you want to)? If so, feel free to share your experience. #SexTalkTuesday

@SexTalkTuesday @swinger411 A2. That everybody is young and athletic and that it’s all just orgies with strangers! #sextalktuesday

Question #2 from @swinger411 - "What are some rumors or urban legends you have heard about the #Swinger lifestyle?" #SexTalkTuesday

@SexTalkTuesday @swinger411 A1. As long as all parties are aware and nobody pressured, absolutely. But I think there’s often problems with one party pressuring another. #sextalktuesday

Question #1 from @Swinger411 - "Do you consider swinging to be ethical? Why or why not?" #SexTalkTuesday

@TorontoBlonde We take forever to learn so it’s necessary for our survival….

@ChrisAlvino @EvieLupine I don’t feel like liking and commenting every tweet in this thread, but I read it all and have to say: very well said!

I'm a sex & dating coach but have mostly been silent about the Jonah Hill texts, choosing instead to amplify the female voices in this space who have said so much already. I didn't think I had much to add to the discourse... until now that is. An important thread:

@LoveKipani Let’s normalize not asking people what genitalia they were born with

@RamonaQuaxli I think it’s 14. But honestly, since I also swing, it’s hard to know where to stop counting.

How many people are in your Polycule? I don't mean how many people do you date. Add up your romantic partners, QPRs, datemates, close platonic connections, and everyone *THEY* have intimate connections with. What number do you get? For me it's about 29.

Retweeting so I can revisit this when I have time

@EvieLupine @HypnoHedonista And ultimately that’s why I posed the question. I don’t want to see a safe space for LGBTQ diluted, especially by toxic cis het folks just because they are poly.

@HypnoHedonista @PsychodadKink none of this is enough to make me say "no polyam at Pride!" or "polyamory is never ever queer", but it is enough to give me pause and wonder... if this becomes the norm, what are the potential negatives? how do we deal with it? how do we talk about it? :) hope this makes sense

Oh as always, the perennial "Kink at Pride" debate we've been having since 1990. And new for this year: "is polyamory LGBT?"