Rob Seliskar

Just got a Cameo from Eric Mabius (@Eric_Mabius) #cameofameo cameo.com/v/611e5ae91e3e… via @bookcameo #POstables @SDunkule @Elianesabia @AppezzatoPenny @LudmillaGeiszne @LoaderNancy @DorothyEubank16 @feebs1907 @Skippie87 @ChicadeeB I know I promised this on Saturday, but could get

@archi_tradition Yes

Would you consider living in England?

@kittell_jeanna thanks Jeanna

@RSeliskar Rob, I'm so sorry to hear this. Thoughts and prayers are with you as you're dealing with a lot right now.

OK my ex-partner died 3/14. I had to go up to VA & deal w/ things. I found out he was a hoarder. If anyone has ever dealt w/ it, you know what I have been through. I will have to go back up at least 2 more times. While that ends a chapter, closing the book will be a chore

@Pamela__J Pam I wish there was something that could be salvaged, but it has been so bad that most has just been tossed or donated. When I go back up I will likely donate more. the tools will be a much harder thing to deal with.

@RSeliskar My situation was much the same without it being a holding situation. When my mom died, my husband and I had to move out of the house owned by my mom, that had been her mom's. In our family since 1912! Lots of antiques and stored items !

@MitchelleLinde1 finding what I did so far was a miracle. I hope that I did not through anything away. Things were squirreled away anywhere and everywhere.

@Pamela__J Thanks Pam. While I know it will end, I am glad to be back home in a clean environment. I will deal with it when I get back up there

@RSeliskar So sorry to hear this Rob. Been there, done that. It's not fun.

@PatriciaBuckwa3 thanks Patricia

@RSeliskar Prayers and love honey ❤️💙❤️

@BehsVoices think I could have dealt a little better w/ it if he had been neat but that was not the case. It was just awful.

@Bevwarr1 I understand, Prayers for giving me the strength to get through it will be enough. I am reminded that we are not asked to do anything we can't get through. Thankfully I had a 14 hour hymn playlist for the way up & back. Don't know what I would have done w/o the neighbor.

@RSeliskar Rob, I am so sorry. There’s nothing I can do from afar, but I will pray that everything goes smoothly. Please keep us up to date about how things are going.

@Celya723 The last time his nephews talked w/ him was in the late 80s or possibly 1990 at the latest. There was a viewing / service none of them were there despite the obit running in the Richmond T/D. I will hire a dumpster when I go up next in possibly June

@RSeliskar Consider contacting area resale shops & Crime Scene Cleanup businesses to see who has a good price or free pickups for emptying out his abode once you've removed important paperwork and momentos any of his family members/friends might want. TY for helping in his memory 🕊💛

@Elianesabia thank you Eli.

@RSeliskar Enviando força e amor meu querido amigo!

@TalkstoselfinME thanks Laura

@bklyn2baypoet I take all the prayers I can get Bev

@RSeliskar 🙏❤️

@DorothyEubank16 Thanks Jane. I just want to get the mess cleaned up. I have the attic to get through as well as 3 out buildings and all of the stuff just outside.

@RSeliskar Even though you know it’s coming, it still is so very hard when it arrives. Sending strength and hope to get you through this.

@KylieFonacier thanks Kylie. It has been taxing to say the least

@RSeliskar I’m so, so sorry for your loss 😞🩵

@BroersenKatinka even when a chapter closes, you still have connections. I was with him for 21 years. We talked every 2 to 3 months. I just was not prepared for what I walked into. I had a viewing / service. Now waiting on the death certificates. Then need to find a probate attorney

@RSeliskar That is doubly hard. I’m so sorry - whatever happened losing someone who was a part of your life is always hard. Sending you love and strength at this difficult time 💕

@MitchelleLinde1 when I go back up, I will be calling in a dumpster & the neighbors grandson has said he would take time off to help. He has done this before. I have asked for him to look for someone else to help. There are 3 out building to go through.

@ChicadeeB I need it. It is good to come back home. I will deal with the mess again in June

@RSeliskar Sending you strength Rob…((((🩷))))

@heartie_jan It truly is. Being over 800 miles away makes it even harder.

@RSeliskar So sorry Rob - a lot to sort through physically and emotionally. 😢

@Debs76204900 It really is. I had no idea he was living like this. He never finished redoing the bedrooms. He has shut the power to the pump, so there was no running water. The cover was off the breaker box so I didn't know what to turn on.

@RSeliskar I’m sorry. That is sad. #POstables

@fehd_dolly I haven'[t even contacted a probate attorney yet. I spent all of last week getting rid of trash. I took 21 contractor bags of clothes to good will and threw out 7. there is maybe 1 bag left. I had a service, 4 other people showed up. None of his nephews & i did run an obit

@RSeliskar Oh, I am so sorry to hear this! Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help. I know that sounds pretty lame, as I am in Georgia, but I know people who know stuff in many arenas. You are a very special and cherished guy!