Princess Grace Iye Adejoh
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Princess Grace Iye Adejoh
@RajisGrace
God above all, Concerned but hopeful Nigerian 🇳🇬 Advocating accountability, civic duty & inclusive governance
Abuja, Nigeria Katılım Temmuz 2018
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@RajisGrace @yabaleftonline God bless you
The problem with an eye for an eye is that everyone ends up blind
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@PraiseOkueze @AsakyGRN And you the wonder in the wonderful,Thank you. 😁🙏🏾
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Dear women, revenge through cheating is not healing and it is not dignity. Do not become what you once condemned. Pain is real, especially for many African women, but answering betrayal with betrayal only weakens the family and the values we teach the next generation. Choose dignity. Choose peace. Leave if you must.
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Again for the last time…
Nobody is saying women should stay in unhappy relationships.
Nobody is saying people shouldn’t leave when love, peace, respect, or emotional connection is gone.
But cheating is cheating.
And the scary part about the whole Chike, Frank Edoho and ex-wife conversation is seeing how many people are bending themselves into pretzels trying to defend obvious wrongdoing simply because a woman was involved.
“He was keeping malice with her”
“He wasn’t providing emotionally.” “She was unhappy.” “She felt lonely.” “She deserved better.”
Okay.
Then leave.
Walk away with dignity.
What exactly is empowering about betrayal and dishonesty?
A lot of people are not defending morality anymore. They’re defending whatever benefits their gender emotionally at that moment.
That is moral decay.
And men need to learn something from situations like this:
Never ignore repeated signs of disrespect because you’re in love. Never think sacrifice alone guarantees loyalty. And never stay where accountability is seen as oppression.
The moment someone constantly justifies wrong behavior instead of owning it, pay attention.
Because character always reveals itself eventually.


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Amazing write ✍️ up
Princess Grace Iye Adejoh@RajisGrace
@AsakyGRN African values still matter. Dear women, betrayal may hurt deeply, but never lose your dignity trying to get revenge. Choose peace, leave if you must, protect your crown, and teach the next generation that marriage is honorable. May God bless our homes with peace and wisdom.
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@Alexxandas @AsakyGRN And you too, we go dey try hear,😁😁
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@JethroShawpvnt @AsakyGRN Thank you and blessings of God multiplied to you too.
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@HYCENTH179 @AsakyGRN Amen and you too. Thank you.🙏🏾
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@RajisGrace @AsakyGRN You’re very correct Sis. No matter how we try to form to “woke”, I always tell ladies that cheating as a revenge for a man’s cheating is just like drinking poison and hoping it kills him. You must not know the value of our bodies. It’s way better to leave with your dignity intact
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@darkspota @AsakyGRN I am honoured to be in the number, thank you and God bless you.
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@RajisGrace @AsakyGRN You are one of the most sensible woman Nigeria have as at today
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It easy to say so dear if women are to speak from the level of pain suffered from time immemorial , but if we look deep, it is always best to add the word “ some” to it, or at worst “ most”. Some men or most men will be my recommendation for such statements.
May be if they understand heartbreak as investing ones all in a business and come out with zero, they will tread more emphatically. Regardless I respect you.
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@RajisGrace @AsakyGRN Thanks for this masterpiece. You are indeed one amongst the few responsible Women out there.
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@TonyPavel770 @AsakyGRN The message is ment for those who need to hear and be saved by it, not for those still enjoying their prodigal sojourn. Sorry you feel this way about it. Peace.
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Amen. God bless you to. Please let me add this, I have observed and I can say categorically that for me, the other pain than is worst than heart break is cancer, and if you should use that pain of heart break to revenge, not only will you indeed hurt/kill the one that caused you that pain but you yourself will be burnt one away or the other, it is either you are dead or you have blood in your hands by reason of your revenging.
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@RajisGrace @AsakyGRN You’re very reasonable, God bless your parents and God bless you too…
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Dear men, no human is perfect and without sin, but please, if you must be a “boo” to the “booless,” not the married booless ones.
A word they say is enough for the wise, so that the Nigeria saying, “ One day monkey go, go market, e no go come back,” will not happen to you.
Or like it is said, Just must go to the cross but cursed is he by whom Jesus goes to the cross,
Do not be the one that sends Jesus/ marriage to the cross.
God bless our men.
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“Very unlike me, I just finished listening to the 90+ minute recorded call between Sandra and Chike, and I noticed the tollowing:
Sandra never said Frank did anything wrong to her. Throughout the entire call, she never accused him of che@ting on her. Clearly, the chfating allegations she is now making appear to be an afterthought and mere propaganda.
She acknowledged in the call that she is the che@ter. Very clearly and unmistakably stated.
In fact, on more than two occasions, she admitted that it was not Frank's fault. She also acknowledged that he had every right to be angry.
Frank was willing to forgive her if she could stop talking to Chike - something she herself admitted would be difficult, even asking Chike whether he could do without her.
When the news first broke on social media, Frank even posted a picture of the two of them together in an attempt to manage the damage. The man genuinely wanted the relationship to work. He was prepared to forgive.
The so-called "malice" from Frank only began after he obtained evidence that Sandra was chfating on him. It was at that point that he started withdrawing and keeping to himself.
So, is anyone expecting a man who has raw evidence of his wife having sexual affairs with another man to be hugging the woman? I just don't understand what's going before our eyes.
Remember, this was a secretly recorded conversation, so it was as raw and genuine as it could possibly be.
Now tell me again — what exactly was Frank's offence?
My brother, I genuinely pity young people today. Things have deteriorated badly. I honestly fear for what marriage will look like in the next 15 years. At this rate, it may well be heading towards extinction.
—Bernard Obimma


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@EChineduVincent @AsakyGRN And even life/lives. I am please you found something in it. God bless you.
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@RajisGrace @AsakyGRN I like the part where you said, leave if you must. Better to leave than lose your dignity.
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