Do you think the malignant narcissist forgets that the person they are vilifying,scapegoating and accusing of being abusive is actually a really nice person and is completely innocent?
@Ryan_Daigler I have a restraining order in my possessions. I will have her served with it tomorrow. She did her sexual negotiations to keep me again tonight. Gross. Healing my brain is near
Narcissistic abuse doesn’t just hurt your feelings. It physically damages your brain.
Prolonged psychological abuse keeps your stress response in a constant state of activation. Your hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis — the system that governs your threat response — floods your body with cortisol on a loop. Not occasionally. Chronically.
And chronic excessive cortisol does this:
∙Shrinks hippocampal volume — the part of your brain responsible for memory and context
∙Overactivates the amygdala — locking you in a permanent state of threat detection
∙Degrades the prefrontal cortex — impairing your ability to think clearly, make decisions, regulate emotion
That’s not emotional fragility. That’s measurable, structural damage to brain tissue and neural networks. At the cellular level.
This is what narcissists do to people. They don’t just make you feel bad. They alter the physical architecture of your brain through sustained psychological assault.
Call it what it is: violence.
@tepri_x@MatrixPolice@UnacceptableN Does not match the time. Not the same line. From West of lake Superior on the border straight up north north east all inside one hour. No match with strikes.
@RayGrey18@MatrixPolice@UnacceptableN The video is a region northwest of lake superior, zoomed in on a region where the upper boundary is around lake nipigon. Thunder storms pass over every area with fire prior to the end time of the original timelapse.
@tepri_x@MatrixPolice@UnacceptableN Man made. At 1 pm there is not a long ne of lightning strikes corresponding to the fires all starting at the same time
Narcissistic abuse is psychological violence.
Don’t believe that?
Here’s the damage long-term gaslighting and narcissistic abuse typically leave behind.
Cognitive
- Chronic self-doubt (“Am I overreacting?”)
- Second-guessing memories and perceptions
- Difficulty making decisions without reassurance
- Mental fog, rumination, looping thoughts
Emotional
- Persistent anxiety and hypervigilance
- Shame without a clear source
- Emotional numbness or shutdown
- Sudden guilt when asserting needs
Behavioral
- Over-explaining, over-justifying
- Apologizing reflexively
- People-pleasing / fawning
- Avoidance of conflict at all costs
- Freezing or dissociating under pressure
Relational
- Expectation of bad intent from others
- Trouble trusting kindness
- Tolerance of boundary violations
- Feeling responsible for others’ emotions
Identity
- Eroded sense of self
- Loss of preferences, opinions, goals
- Feeling “hollow” or undefined
- Confusion about what’s normal vs abusive
- CPTSD symptoms
- Startle response
- Somatic symptoms (GI issues, headaches, fatigue)
- Trauma bonding and grief for the abuser
This isn’t weakness, this is trauma from long term psychological abuse
@karenmitchell__ In my second week after telling my Chinese psycho malignant narcissist ex wife we are separating. Interesting events! So much evil. Using all the good I have against me. I will now stop thinking she was a victim, just power and money hungry.
Predators (psychopaths/narcissists) are not wounded or lost or in pain or the product of abuse!
That’s a story we’ve been sold by human predator educators, advocates & academics.
Anyone who tries to sell you a victim story about dark personalities is almost certainly a predator, and there are many out there educating in this space. They have capitalized on people‘s confusion and pain.
Predators are dangerous, sadistic, entitled, & would throw their own children under a bus if it advanced their cause. To be successful, though they adopt meaningful platforms, professions, and advocacy positions.
They are not regretful though about who they are nor are they compassionate or empathetic.
They have brain differences so they are motivated differently but they make choices with total understanding of the implications. We do not need to feel sorry for them. They get huge satisfaction from pulling the puppet strings and harming others. They believe they are superior because of their lack of fear and shame.
It’s time to start recognizing the pain they cause others, and addressing it, not pandering to them.
There is nothing that can really cut your connection with your Higher Self. Without connection with your Higher Self, you would die. So there is always a certain amount of connection, and a tachyon chamber simply expands that connection, harmonizes yourself with that connection.
@NutriDetect 94F at work, hauling rubble in bins, shoveling rubble in bags, throwing cinder block around. Nice awesome detox day indeed. Nuts for breakfast , beef and salt for lunch.
Sweating is one of the easiest ways to start detoxing.
When was the last time the average person broke a sweat?
Exercise daily and hit the sauna.
Simple.
@Theholisticpsyc I told my wife she is my ex wife 12 days ago. She keeps refusing to separate and keeps begging to stay. I had to press charges. She will not accept any blame. She did not see this coming. Even if I warned her many time to talk to me nicely. Spicy!
They don't feel the loss of a person, they feel they gained their own narrative.
Have you experienced a highly narcissistic person?
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@ThorTorrens Thanks to you , and me preventing chest pain, I am lowering my dosage slowly and I am down to one third of a small cup of coffee 1 hour after getting up.
@homi3kh My soul is too big to fit inside my flesh body. My spirit twin or higher self fits just right. Once, I went into my soul, with my spirit and lied down in there. So big. A sphere. No thoughts just peace.
The nature of the soul is eternal light.
You are not a body with a soul.
You are an eternal soul temporarily wearing a body. When you remember this, fear of death and limitation naturally dissolves.
You are infinite.