HostageInAmerica

People unpleaser

@shrili_ Yes well for me I sorta always had malefic experiences in relationships/social situations. Even in my innocence, the drama finds me. Me not getting sucked into anything anyone says just makes me feel isolated. So sometimes I’d dance with their illusions to experience something .

@Reader623898115 I think I learnt early on to not be sucked in by what people say

Why are you, as a human, getting taken in by an air sign's pretence?

I never got officially diagnosed, but from a young age I always knew I was on the electromagnetic spectrum.

Soft launching that I want to get off the phone by saying “Alright well…”

People have exactly a two-week limit on their sympathy. When you first break down, everyone is supportive. But if your depression lasts longer than a fortnight, they get incredibly annoyed. ​You are not allowed to have long-term struggles. Society expects you to have a quick, cinematic breakdown, cry it out over the weekend, and bounce back to being productive by Monday. ​The exact second they realize your depression isn't just a temporary mood swing but a constant struggle, the "take all the time you need" energy completely vanishes. ​They stop checking in and start treating your mental state like a deliberate character flaw. You aren't struggling anymore; you are just "not trying hard enough" or "choosing to be miserable."

just divided something by zero btw. it’s actually super easy and they let you do it if you’re pure of heart

No single woman sees her ex years later and says, “Wow, I lost a great man.” It’s always, “Whew, what a bullet I dodged,” and that says more than enough.

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Checking in on Gen Z 🥲

I was just thinking this earlier. Sticking around playing the savior role does more harm than good for you and the other person cause it just enables them.

Creating natural light in a home without electricity

Older generationa want you to suffer so bad no I don't want to have a husband that drains the life out of me 😭😭🙏🏽

@JaimeS76679 @astou_jolie You’re a loser.

@astou_jolie I hate being in relationships, not enough variety... even of conversation, in my experience... just watching shows, which I don't like. "You're going online?" Yeah it's my career I'm trying to do. "You're probably talking to girls on there" Yes half the people I talk to possibly.

Why do cheaters LOVE being in relationships? Just be single and do what you gotta do.

@sharloola White times is a triple platinum hit that I’ll be using from now on thank you

we’re eradicating the use of darkness as negativity in our language 🙏🏾

Me saying idk tho when I do know tho

Actually loving, even when you didn’t win at love, does a whole lot more for you in terms of learning how to love; versus playing a game. You can still learn whilst playing a game, but at the expense of another person and your own integrity. Idk tho.

And it shows when you’re speaking with someone, and they’re unable to fully engage in what you’re talking about. They’re confused about the practical/basic boundaries you have surrounding relationships.

I’m really glad that I’ve always taken the matter of love and relationships seriously, even when they didn’t work out for me. People who get into relationships without legitimate intentions are under practiced in the art of love.