Marry a man who is GROWN. Not just age grown, but emotionally Grown too. A man who is dominant & makes you submissive in the most masculine way. A handsome man is okay but having a man with problem solving ability, support, emotional intelligence & provider mindset is priceless.
Maybe hustle culture is not for me. Maybe all I want to do is take endless naps, watch 2000s romcoms, splurge on pretty blush, cook pasta, then go right back to watching romcoms.