King Pat👑

Lmao oh Mashobane!!

@tsholoboo @Norxee He must plug Samke ke.

@Norxee He is apparently very well connected and that's how Thobile has been able to get all her gigs.

What does he mean he’s gonna close income streams 😭😂😂 zika Makhumalo..it’s not the first time he’s sayin this #UthandoNesthembu

Watching episodes 17 and 18 of #Uthandonesthembu it becomes hard to ignore certain patterns in Musa Mseleku’s behavior. When situations don’t go the way he expects, he often shifts into a victim role rather than taking accountability. It comes across as a recurring tendency, not just a once-off reaction. There’s also a clear sense of division among the wives, and it doesn’t feel accidental. The dynamic suggests a “divide and conquer” approach, where keeping the women disconnected works in his favour. If they were fully united, it would be much harder for him to navigate each situation without being challenged or held accountable. Another key moment is his interpretation of submission. He seems to believe that being submissive to a wife means giving up leadership, which completely misses the point. The conversation was clearly about mutual respect and understanding, not surrendering authority. That misunderstanding highlights a deeper issue in how he views partnership. What stands out most is how consistent the wives’ concerns are. They point to him being self-centered, not fully honest, and at times manipulative. When multiple people echo the same experience, it starts to carry more weight. Overall, these episodes paint a picture of someone who struggles with accountability, maintains control through division, and often reframes situations to suit his narrative.

Let me give you a few iconic sounds from the great Mseleku matriarch Macele 🥹😂❤️ #UthandoNesthembu

@rondos462 @gee_niz No!! She is running the family businesses. And due to the exposure of those businesses, she got opportunities outside those businesses and ended up making more money than Babakhe.

@gee_niz Coz she can't make babies naturally so she need too compensate by providing financially "Mseleku's logic"

I am so slow when it comes to the agreement Makhumalo and Musa made.They made an agreement that she helps financially,why ?I need someone to explain to me like they would explain to a 5 year old. #UthandoNesthembu

@Mkabayi_lo They gossip about Mak and Mayeni

Why did her husband say the same thing, somebody tell me?

@tigerbrands_ @MaabuleM You are right.

@MaabuleM Shes just like her mom if u haven't realized

I hope Abongwe,as a graduate and someone who has emotional intelligence and wisdom, sits down with her mother and show her reason #UthandoNeSthembu

@Sanele_Nathi Lmao I hate you for this video.

This retreat was basically about Musa Mseleku and how his wives feel about him, he said that. It was never really about each wife finding healing from the hurt they have each suffered from this marriage 😔😔😔 #UthandoNeSthembu

@kay_mahapa Kay??? 😩

Eh eh phuthego? 😭

@xevekiah This is beautiful 😍

if you made it this far, thanks for reading <3

My sister called me at 2:00 AM. She was crying. "Come get me. Please. I think my husband is dead." I was already putting on my shoes. "Where are you?" "The closet. He's in the bedroom. He's been standing there for three hours. He hasn't moved." "Who hasn't moved?" "Tom. My husband. But it's not Tom." I drove to her house in fifteen minutes. She lives twenty minutes away. I didn't knock. She left the back door unlocked like she said. I found her in the bedroom closet. Kneeling behind her winter coats. Shaking. I pulled her out. "Where is he?" She pointed to the bed. No one was there. "He was here," she whispered. "Standing right there. Facing the wall. For three hours." I checked the whole house. Empty. Her car was in the driveway. His car was gone. "Claire. Where is Tom?" She looked at me. Her eyes were strange. Not scared. Confused. "Tom died," she said. "Three years ago. You were at the funeral." I stared at her. "Claire. I was at your wedding. Last year. I gave a toast. You cried." She shook her head. "That wasn't Tom. That was someone else. Someone wearing Tom." I sat down. My legs felt wrong. "Claire. You're scaring me." She grabbed my phone. Opened my photos. Scrolled to her wedding. "That's not Tom," she said, pointing at the groom. It was Tom. Same face. Same smile. Same suit. But she was right about something. His eyes were wrong. In every photo. Too dark. Too still. Like a photograph of a photograph. I looked at Claire. "Who did you marry?" She started crying again. "I don't know. I don't remember. I just remember waking up one day and he was there. Making coffee. Calling me honey. And I thought... I thought I was going crazy. Because I knew Tom was dead. But he looked like Tom. He sounded like Tom." She grabbed my arm. "So I pretended. For a year. I pretended he was Tom. I pretended everything was fine. But last night, I woke up. And he was standing at the foot of the bed. Facing the wall. Not moving." "What did he say?" "He didn't say anything. He just stood there. For hours. I watched him. And then I realized." "What?" "He wasn't breathing."

@_NokukhanyaN He said "Mseleku my hero"

Bab’Ndabe says MaCele is loving and honest??? I wonder how big his cheque is. Also, he’s not a real therapist🤦🏾‍♀️ #UthandoNesthembu

@_BNSL Lmao 😭😭😭

This statement is a bit vague. I meant you must never help them finish their sentences. Like, if you see a person who stutters hurt on the side of the road, help them. But if it's safe. Trust your gut. They could be a hijacker who stutters. You get what I mean 🤦🏾‍♂️

@_IkanyengM She did.

Thandeka really tried man 😔 #BBMzansiS6

@IyaziLuphe @AndyMadlala @Thuthukile29 @kat_senyolo Lmao okay.

@RichUnclePat @AndyMadlala @Thuthukile29 @kat_senyolo She doesn't

Thobile trying to help MaCele see that Musa is using her but she can’t be helped 😭 #UthandoNesthembu

@AndyMadlala @Thuthukile29 @kat_senyolo Lol she cares because she addressed that issue with the therapist.

@Thuthukile29 @kat_senyolo Using her how?🤣. MaCele doesn’t want to be liked by any of the wives I’m sure she couldn’t care less what they think of her

@MiMiIsKing @BPZNkabinde At the time of her meeting with Mbali she wasn't paid but ke I am not going to defend anyone.

@RichUnclePat @BPZNkabinde She knows he was repaid. She paid R100k only to be told she doesn't contribute 😂. Uyaphapha. She knows MaYeni repaid her. she was just gossiping as usual

MaKhumalo needs to apologise to Shibase regarding the hospital payments issue #UthandoNesthembu

@MiMiIsKing @BPZNkabinde Because she paid that R100k and the wives had to pay her. Please watch that episode with Thobile and Mbali.

@RichUnclePat @BPZNkabinde Why was she repeating it?

@_Noma_S 😂😂😂 you are right.

Ufuna uGems, umuntu waseMzumbe wazi ukuthi uGems iyona medical aid eright

@Ngimuhlez I will vote for her.

Thandeka you are not touching that 2M baby! That we will make sure. #BBMzansiS6