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Yawning at obalende is self harm

If you want to do IVF or you want to remove Fibroid but you don’t have money. Just go to the nearest Access bank in your area and reach the customer service. All you need is just letter from the Hospital and the invoice from the hospital. Retweet for wider audience

One abnormal thing that has been normalised in marriage is using substitutes for apology. If you offend your wife, buying her a gift is not an apology! If you offend your husband, seducing him, or even offering him s*x is not an apology. Apology is when you realise you hurt someone, acknowledge their right to be offended, and apologise, verbally, and sincerely. No buts or ifs, just plain, sincere apology. The gifts can come after. Those substitutes may work temporarily, but eventually, your spouse will get the point that you think their esteem has a price. I don't need you to give me the world, I need you to be genuinely sorry. Those men that hide under the excuse that they weren't groomed culturally to apologise to a woman should know that that is gutter talk. Nobody is ever too big to apologise, unless you are proud and arrogant. Similarly, I know your marriage skits online has made it commonplace that when a husband is angry at the wife, she can work her charms on him by making sexual overtures till he forgets his anger and takes what is given. I don't doubt there may be men like that, but just know that for many other men, their sexual appetite is tied to their self esteem. If he is unhappy with you, you can go nudé all you like, but not an iota of interest will be ignited. Don't carry all that dramatisation on social media into your marriage. Feel bad for what you did, then open your mouth and apologise, genuinely and sincerely. Some of you women are very stubborn in your marriage and you know it, but you are also here on facebook giving marital advice to console yourself over your marriage that wont work because of your stubbornness. You will sooner or later have to choose between your marriage and your stubbornness. Abu Imrān

There are topics on which I do not expect empathy nor compassion from men on as by virtue of their sex, they’d never be on the receiving end of. I find it however very annoying when women talk about it with same levity. None of us is above the program, if we can’t be more

If the wife of Thābit Ibn Qays had come to many of you today, you’ have forbidden her khul’, and patience-lize her feelings. The Prophet didn’t give any long talk, recognized the woman’s bearability and immediately negotiated & ordered a breakup. And THAABIT HAD ZERO FAULT, WAS A RELIGIOUS MAN WITH CHARACTER, in the very words of the woman. In a monogamy too. Again, this is not an encouragement of dissolution but a stance against shaming it & running psyops to unfairly admonish people (in contrast to others).

Infidelity annoys me so much!!!!! Respect your spouse!!!! Respect your union!!!! Have some dignity!!! Have some self respect!! Why is it so hard???!

sending me on an errand that needs constant communication, then the second i get there you suddenly stop picking up my calls.

She wore niqab for 13 years and removed it today. Some are celebrating. Some are calling it betrayal. But nobody is asking the real question, was it ever her choice to begin with? I have a sister who started wearing niqab in JS1. Not because anyone told her to. She came home, asked my mum, and my mum sat her down before saying yes. She told her, if you start, there is no going back. Stay away from anything that will bring shame to yourself and to Islam. People will generalize. My sister heard all of that. Started the next day. Still wearing it today as a 200L student. Never looked back. That's what informed choice looks like. The problem was never the niqab. The problem is parents who force it on children who don't understand what they're carrying, then act shocked when they remove it at 25. Niqab is not compulsory. If you wear it, wear it for Allah, not for your husband, not for your parents, not for society. And if you can't keep it, don't start it under pressure. Your behavior as a parent speaks louder than the cloth you put on your child's face. Some children grow up resenting what they were forced to wear because the person who forced them didn't even practice what it represented. This lady didn't remove her niqab overnight. She said it came after tears, fears and prayers. That tells you everything, someone somewhere placed something on her before she was ready. I'm proud of my mum for handling it right. I'm proud of my sister for choosing it herself. And I'm proud of women like @Cyberhijabitech who show that a niqab is not a limitation, it's an identity worn with purpose. Orientation matters more than obligation.

Sometimes you’re not helping the situation rather, you’re making it worse.

so this adulting thing, there's no like.. midterm? like it's everyday???????

yall I'm too young to experience two pandemics in my lifetime

I love seeing beautiful people.

i just want to be a wealthy fine girl.

My contribution to this name discourse is that women should stop referring to their last names as “their father’s name.” It is your name. Your identity has been built around it for years. Your certificates carry it. Your achievements are attached to it. Even if family relationships become strained or completely severed, nobody can take that name away from you. Na you get am.

I don’t have a private story but I love it when I am added to a private story. Sensible private storiessssss to be precise.

I will have to stop buying diffusers. 6k/8k and the bottle dries up in 5 days. Such a bad investment.

i’m still of the opinion that, even if you weren't raised properly, you’re an adult now, you’ve mixed with people.. learn from them at least.

Dear Airtel, Since there's shortage of people that sell akara on Saturday morning, why don't you look into that business and leave this telecom business? Best disregard, An unsatisfied customer.

This is crazy! When an employer brings up “husbands complaining” in an interview, they are not assessing your capability anymore. They are projecting assumptions about your personal life onto your career. That crosses into BIAS, and should fall under discrimination linked to sex or marital status in how decisions are made.

Those Adire prints ankaras. The colors and designs are pretty pretty.