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[Musings on sexual exhibition] For some, the pleasure is self-driven… it’s a self-release from a ‘social cage’ they may feel over their lives. It’s an opportunity to *feel* and *work with* the stimuli of ‘radical freedom’ For some, the rush is from an awareness of OTHER’S reactions. They can sense or imagine the stimuli occurring in others & they delight in that, powerfully throughout their body For some, the pleasure is in the RELATIONAL TRUST; as fear is being transmuted into erotic trust —in the container of ANOTHER person’s PERMISSION & FRAME [Exhibition vs Inhibition] For profound pleasure rushes in exhibition, consider that it’s purpose is to to actively counter a CONSTRICTING inhibition in the mind {nervous system}. …So there is more than one way to work with the core driving force

@I_Devagni @myechtra One man I know is convinced that his vasectomy gave him a sexual boost & health benefits. He mentioned that his type of vasectomy is a type that releases his load back INTO his body. He is certain it has caused his beard to have more color & his orgasms to be stronger…

@myechtra Don't get that vasectomy, ruins your energy field

Ingo Swann's descriptions of the aura and its transformations based on his clairvoyance: Arousal creates auric rays and tendrils which autonomously seek connection with other auras The woman’s desire rays are often larger and more powerful than the man’s If these rays happened to pass through someone they would automatically feel the sexual energy In states of arousal a green probe snakes out from a woman's pelvic area and penetrates male bodies, “scanning” them If this probe rejects a man he will register it on some subconscious level and "pine away" In cases of attraction tendrils from her aura can envelop a man's body and wrap around his chakras, magnetising him to her These aura transformations are sexed but men can exhibit changes characteristic of the woman and vice versa. But no man has the green probing beam A woman's aura in desire states grows a form resembling scintillating wings. A man develops a red beam that rises vertically up and coils spark from his feet Beams project outwardly from breasts, eyes, fingertips, genitals Strong sexual desire can dim consciousness. He describes lovers overtaken by desire as virtually intoxicated Hair is an antenna that receives psychic impressions and attracts life force The chakras, which are non-physical, play a part in sensory pleasure and give off scents The sex impulse can be satisfied by combining auras, which can happen with holding hands or kissing The auric manifestation of sexual desire is a restlessness and agitation The erogenous zones of the body are covered in tiny white chakras which when enlivened make the body far more sensitive A woman’s aura is not attracted to sexually charged male auras Auras also exhibit platonic attraction. Even if people are not conscious of it. If this attraction isn’t satisfied auras can erratically vortex, creating an oppressive atmosphere. Symbols emerge and flash in and out of sight rapidly in combined auras A black aura is an indication the person will die soon, and if one has no aura then death can be imminent If a man is sterile his sexual chakra looks inactive A white light suffuses couples during orgasm The man's sexualised aura is similar to transformations that occur in states of anger, and his strength increases Auras are exceptionally beautiful. Dark purple and blue auras, coruscating and electric, reflect heightened spiritual states The brain, perceived as a subtle organ, permeates the whole of the body and even extends outwardly. So it’s not the case our minds are just in our heads. The aura is never static it seems to always be undergoing some change and transformation Plastic sucks in life force Auras always react to being looked at, even if their person is oblivious. Looking is an energy exchange. Swann could see auric transformations evincing strong levels of sexual desire just by observing ordinary people in their day to day lives

For #2. One common harm from male porn use is: that a man trains his sex response to ‘rush’ towards orgasm. The other day I flew to Australia & had a very long conversation about pleasure with the man next to me. After using porn for so long, he had noticed that sex with his wife was unsatisfying on levels he couldn’t explain, even though they were both orgasming. One of the core problems: He had taught his nervous system to gun STRAIGHT FOR ORGASM rather than to explore *shared orgasmic states* & to linger in them & ride those sweet waves… then to create more. 🌹 ✨

WOMEN ONLY: 1-What is the specific harm done by female promiscuity? 2-What is the specific harm done by male porn use? 3-Which of the two is more harmful, and why?

~~> Try this with your sexual desire &/or Love desire: “This is what wanting feels like when it moves thru me When u feel the impulse to do ur habit, u set a timer for 90s & observe the craving w the curiosity of a scientist What does this sensation feel like in my chest, throat, hands? How does it change from moment to moment? Does it have a color, texture, temperature?” Doing it too much (months/years without taking forward action) can create dysfunction, so watch for that & choose balance…🌿

Every habit you can't quit exists because you're trying to quit the wrong thing. In ancient Pali texts, there's a meditation practice called "vedana" that translates roughly to "feeling tone observation." Monks would sit in caves for days, watching how their minds created suffering by chasing pleasant sensations and avoiding unpleasant ones. When a monk noticed the impulse to step out of meditation and reach for food, comfort, or distraction, they learned to meet the sensation with careful, clear attention. The focus stayed on the craving state itself rather than its object. What does wanting feel like in the body? Where does it show up? How does its intensity shift when you observe it directly instead of immediately following it? The monks discovered that craving has a lifespan. Every urge follows the same arc: it emerges from nothing, builds to a peak, then naturally subsides back to nothing. The duration is remarkably consistent across different types of desires. Roughly ninety seconds from onset to dissolution. They called this the "wave nature of vedana" and built entire liberation practices around the simple act of riding the wave instead of swimming against it. Fast forward today, Dr. Judson Brewer at Brown University put longtime meditators and chronic smokers into fMRI machines and watched their brains during craving episodes. When smokers experienced nicotine cravings, their anterior cingulate cortex and precuneus lit up like christmas trees. These regions house the default mode network, the brain's "selfing" system that generates the experience of "I want this thing." When experienced meditators experienced the same cravings, something different happened. The default mode network activated identically, but additional regions came online: the posterior cingulate cortex and insula. These areas are associated with metacognitive awareness, the capacity to observe your own mental processes rather than being consumed by them. The meditators weren't suppressing the craving. They were adding a second layer of consciousness that could watch the first layer experience desire. The brain scans revealed something the ancient monks had intuited: the neural activity of craving peaks and subsides in precisely ninety seconds when left uninterrupted by behavioral response. The anterior cingulate fires intensely for about sixty seconds, plateaus briefly, then begins to quiet. If you perform the habitual behavior during this window, you interrupt the natural resolution cycle and train the brain to expect that external action is required to return to baseline comfort. But if you simply observe the neurochemical storm while it runs its course, the brain learns that cravings are temporary weather patterns, not permanent states requiring immediate correction. Brewer's team tested this with a smartphone app that taught people to "surf" their cravings using principles derived from Buddhist meditation. Smokers who used the app for three weeks were five times more likely to quit than those using traditional cessation methods. The success rate held at six month follow up. They weren't using willpower to fight urges. They were using attention to redirect their relationship with the urge experience itself. The ancient technique works because it targets something that modern habit research completely missed: the difference between craving content and craving process. Every addiction treatment program focuses on the content. Avoid triggers that make you want cigarettes. Replace smoking with healthier behaviors. Understand why you developed the habit. Change your environment to reduce temptation. All content-based strategies that try to eliminate the conditions that generate cravings. Buddhist psychology understood that craving content is infinite and uncontrollable. You cannot eliminate all possible triggers from your environment. There will always be stress, boredom, social situations, emotional states that activate habitual responses. But craving process is finite and observable. Every desire follows the same neurological sequence regardless of its object. The monks called this "samma sati" or "right mindfulness" and described it as the capacity to observe the arising and passing of mental formations without being swept away by them. Modern neuroscience calls it "metacognitive awareness" and measures it as increased activity in brain regions associated with executive control and self monitoring. Same phenomenon, different vocabulary. The practical technique involves what researchers now call "urge surfing." When you feel the impulse to perform your habitual behavior, you set a timer for ninety seconds and observe the craving with the curiosity of a scientist studying an interesting specimen. What does this sensation feel like in your chest, your throat, your hands? How does it change from moment to moment? Does it have a color, texture, temperature? The main takeaway is treating the craving as information rather than instruction. Most of us experience desire as a command from their nervous system: "You must do this thing now or continue feeling uncomfortable." The Buddhist approach treats desire as data: "This is what wanting feels like when it moves through consciousness." The difference in framing completely changes your response. Commands demand action. Data invites investigation.

I’m in a tropical part of Australia! The warmth here inspired me to write about nipples & sunlight… I feel that everyone can benefit from finding a safe space to practice feeling sunlight on their nipples!! It’s a subtle sensation practice that will reveal if your pleasure-neuro circuitry is active or shut down! If you feel nothing /or/ *no pleasure* from focusing on receiving the stimuli of sunlight on your nipples, did you know you can activate that ability? Perhaps the simplest option for everyone to do this is to gently keep breathing with your focus on your nipples, or broadly around your nipple area, till the brain-body connection yummily turns ON! [There are other techniques to activate this important part of our pleasure circuitry, also if help is needed] The nipples have a direct line of connection down to the gen.itals. However, when the nipples are in neuro-shutdown this direct line of pleasure circuitry misses out being able to add beauty to our lives…🍒💓

To add to your point, Kellog believed that the fibre in his cereal filled the colon; physically reducing the desire for sex… which as you point out, was considered ‘bad’ I guess he hadn’t heard of the tantric idea of transmuting sexual energy into creativity, or sublimating it throughout one’s Being for health & happiness

This recent trend of people saying porn is a health crisis reminds me of Puritans in the 17th century and Seventh Day Adventists in the early 20th century saying that masturbation was the root of all evil. Centuries ago people would wear chastity belts and codpieces cast of iron that would not allow an erection to occur. Kellogg actually created corn flakes because he blamed "rich" foods like eggs and bacon for people's excessive sexual appetites and made the blandest breakfast possible to help them overcome their sexual urges. Today, the new fad is "porn is ruining your life". The more things change...

Pornography is brainwashing you. Neurons that fire together wire together. Intense emotions and intense stimuli greatly strengthen memory formation and neural pathway formation. Orgasmic imprinting is among the most powerful ways to cement to a neural pathway and rewrite your perception of reality A few of the ways porn does this: -Porn leads to being cucked or a psychological disorder known as Social Defeat Stress (SDS), because watching other people have sex is very different to having sex. Your mind is fed imagery and angles you could never see having sex, only watching sex. You’re feeding your brain a hyper stimulated experience where your face in under another man’s sex organs imprinting to his success and subconsciously imprinting to your lack of success. Porn induces SDS in many men, who experience a chronic repeated physiological and physical stress from it, leading to symptoms like anxiety, depression and behavioral changes like social avoidance -Your body’s cellular physiology is tricked into thinking it has achieved sexual success, shutting down its mechanisms for finding a mate. Physiological level assumes life mission is complete, and it can now dull and wither it’s optimizations for creativity, charisma, productivity and sharpness to acquire a mate, leading to low motivation, a dulled mind and weakness of every kind -Porn tricks your brain into thinking you’re getting a bioenergetic exchange but instead of an exchange, energy is spent in an open loop. No oxytocin after, no vasopressin, no safety and physical connection, no pairing of consciousness, bonding only to the stimuli via dopamine to reenforce seeking it out again. Life force spent into a void with nothing in return. Like swapping steak to broccoli right before a dog bites, except more like his own vomit, because all bonding is to the thoughts leading up to orgasm, offering no nutrition and often leading to feelings of sickness ^Evidence of this: you do not get “post nut clarity” in a loving relationship with a loving spouse. You get feeling of love, safety and comfort, confidence and motivation from the exchange of energy. “Post nut clarity” happens when you bond to stimuli and thoughts that make you feel shame, guilt and disgust. Emotions of guilt and shame are intended as catalysts for change, similar to temporary inflammation in the body. Repeatedly bonding to and reinforcing thoughts that induce guilt, shame, defeat or disgust is like bonding your body to and reinforcing a pattern of chronic stress and inflammation -Porn is often a cycle of trauma, both generational and personal, inviting more and more participants to watch trauma and participate in traumatizing their own bodies and minds. As you continue to compulsively seek a fleeting dopamine release with increasingly extreme content, you bond to and imprint your mind with increasingly extreme stimuli and unnatural behavior. This can warp your sexuality in all kinds of horribly corrupted ways. Compulsive gooning to porn can lead to an addiction to a potent state of stress, to forced corruption of your own sexuality, creating an addiction to self abuse. Only when you quit for weeks or months, and begin the process of healing your mind, body and sexuality, do you realize you were literally TORMENTING YOURSELF. Abusing your body and mind, and making yourself physically and mentally sick To women: You are degrading yourself, reinforcing a lack of self worth. If you advertise on social media, you expose yourself to children. Do you believe in conscious entanglement, karma, cause and effect, energetic exchange, and yet think there’s zero spiritual implications to young children seeing sexually explicit content you put up in the town square? Even if you do not believe in God, please recognize this is not harmless I don’t preach this from self righteousness, but as a tormented victim of self abuse that cries out in agony over what I subjected myself to. Free yourself from this modern disease!

You might discover at some point that you are blessing yourself, also. 🌹🩷✨ 2/

If you’re ever REALLY attracted to someone & U see right no way of achieving intimacy & deeper connection together Admit it to yourself, inwardly Then say with your heart: “I really like that woman/man. Bless her/him I am really REALLY drawn to […]!! BLESS […]!!!” *Feel the release of blessing come out from your soul* 1/

@SOMAMadman 💯… it’s fascinating how certain touches & movements help create that dynamic... And what’s going on in those touches & movements… in the psyche & physiology!

@RosesUnfolding To me it's d/s. I mean moving a partner's chin

I was meditating on a body thing I noticed, & I received an image of propping up under the chin with a hand, riding crop, or stick. I know that when I’m in a therapeutic mindset these images always have a neurological/ body-mind restoring component… So now I’m questioning “what is THAT doing?” 🤔 My first guesses: •‘Chin up!’ physical-mental identity re-patterning? • sensual …cervical (neck) bone alignment? • Relational way to activate the acupoint under the chin? • Relational ‘trust’ portal? Hm…

@AlchemicalGrey Thank you very much! 🌿

@RosesUnfolding Fabulously stated! Bravo🔥

[The Orgasm Portal] That feeling of intense difficulty a person may have with orgasm [gen ital, heart, whole body etc] … is a lot like the struggle some people have in a hospice, unable to let go into their next phase. The same advice can apply: “You’re safe. I’m here to help you. Let’s support you in X ways. Take my hand (my physical & emotional support}. Expand into more of who you are. It’s ok to let go into that new way of being & feeling. Nice & slow. Ride the wave”

It’s often nervous system tension from survival mode. Eg Attempting to hold things together. Control control control in trying to not collapse because there’s a feeling of no support or cushion of reliable Love Choose for ‘Love’ & ‘expansion’ to meet you, this time. Finding them in new dimensions you couldn’t perceive before 2/

[Healing Touch] “As I move my touch, if it becomes erogenous for you, say “Not there” or instead, simply breathe with the activation you feel through your body”

Men can be all the good things mentioned here …plus respect & love their wives enough to gain their (her) thoughts & input before taking a course of action. It is a TEAM that’s operating, not a one person bulldozer. 🌿 It’s too easy to OVERCORRECT when there has been ‘masculine weakness’ …but that merely reignites feminism all over again… 😢 Wise, kind, powerful masculinity is sorely needed. ~ @GiffLasta teaches men this — if anyone is seeking a coach.

Attraction is a distance calculation. A woman's brain is measuring how far your "form" sits from hers. Wider shoulders, deeper voice, greater height. But she's also measuring the distance of your behavior. That gap has a name. Sexual dimorphism. Dimorphism means "two forms." Males and females of the same species developing distinct physical and behavioral traits. None of it is random. Every difference was forged by a specific ancestral contest. Males competed. Females selected the winners. The winning traits escalated over millions of years. 🧵

People trying to handle their sexual energy ‘properly’ often make the mistake of shutting it down!!! This is particularly true for Christians & ‘good people’ trying to be HONORING to a person they are attracted to. Imagine this: a world where people glow up in magnetism & have the ability to allow their sexual energy to stimulate them up through their center … if they reach overstimulation, they can ejac.ulate without touch, or laugh, or energy orgasm on some level! What would it be like if this were the accepted norm? Each person so accepting & in tune with their natural, love-informed, biological response?!!

Most women are sexually reflective. If they feel desired, they open up. But I want to point out to husbands that there is a difference between a) wanting to have sex, and b) wanting to have sex with your wife. If she feels that your desire is aimed only at sexual gratification, and that she just happens to be a convenient vessel for achieving that goal, she will not reflect passion back to you. On the other hand, if it is her that you desire, and you make that clear, and it is intimacy with her in particular that you seek, then she will feel wanted and desired, and she will reflect that back to you.

@leptokinesis Timing!!!! Omgoodness

YOURE NOT READY! Your body has a built in "radar" called neuroception that detects danger. If your body feels "icky" or "alert" around someone, and you override that feeling with a mental command to "just love them," you are gaslighting your own biology. This disconnect makes it harder to trust your gut instincts in the future.

@itsIFAD Direct to DMs please. 🙂🙏 I appreciate the follow up!

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I did sensual myofascial energy work with a man tonight. It’s one of my favorite ways to support someone’s trauma & tension release. ‘sensual’ because there was full body touch with clothes on, & erotic activation WHILE releasing his spine, jaw, sacrum & chest area etc!! At one point he said to me “who are you & where did you come from?” 💗🪽🥰 It also hit home when he said “You gave me a gift last time we met” Me: “the long hug?” “No” “The kiss on your neck in front of everyone?” “No… you gave me my center. I was falling for you & you placed your hand on my stomach & told me to reconnect with my center. I’ve been thinking about that for months & again just last week… & here you are!! You’re showing me how to love again without this [he puts his hands around his eyes like binoculars]. I used to get obsessed when i was in love & lose my way.” 🫶🩷 ~ It’s the craziest thing to be body to be body with someone, sparks flying, then moments later supporting them as they’re coughing out their trauma or almost yelling out the stuckness they’ve been carrying in their tummy since childhood! There was coughing, burping, farting… the body is going to do ‘body things’ during significant, powerful inner releases from the nervous system & inner parts!! I often acknowledge it to create safety that it’s all part of Life…& therefore it’s good, safe & ok. 🤲🙂 Overall, it was still hot though & my heart is happy & full! I did one of the things that I came here to do… 💖💝 Later he said: “You gave me my confidence back tonight. Thank you” 💙