Rowan

Good Afternoon all :). Hi, I’m Rowan. I’m the solely sfw account for @squishylynxie . This is solely for rambling, talking, enjoying life. Also some other stuff maybe eventually. Who knows. Anyways love yall.

Ngl just having this account to be weird and funky fresh on will be nice ;)

Pool water is not conducive for healthy hair

Here’s a PSA for the girlies, I found out from threads that apparently some men like to purposely ragebait women because they can’t afford an actual dominatrix to service their wants. Stop giving these dudes free attention in your replies babes

Look, I don’t make the most money, I don’t have the most subs. I’ve never had a 5 digit day or week, I’m not an authorized user on anyone’s card. I’ve never broken top 2%. But. I have some of the coolest dynamics in town. My guys uplift me, they support my endeavors, they make me proud. I enjoy watching them grow, being their muse, nourishing their creativity and aspirations. I am honored to hold their intimate insides. I am honored to be the keeper of their secrets. I am honored to be a safe space. Also, I think they’re freakin cool as hell. These things are priceless. Worth more than a 4 digit drain, a wishlist clearance or silent send. Symbiotic harmony. Abundance. So no, I may not be the most paid, but I am cherished. I am adored. I am respected. I am blessed.

Just enjoying the smoke :3

Stop trying to villainize findom. First of all: subs are grown adults who choose to serve. Second of all, wonderful meaningful dynamics have been established through it. Most people find enjoyment in it and I’ve had so many subs tell me how our dynamic has mentally helped and motivated them to do better in life. So many find purpose in this. Stop babying grown men, I hate how people always try to act as if the women participating are “taking advantage”.. even if so, who gives a fuck? The ones being taken advantage of love it. They don’t have the same energy for failed ‘cashmasters’. I’ll continue being evil & robbing men 💕.

me seeing a girl with cancer getting her health insurance cut on tiktok and slamming the gofundme link faster than the speed of light.

@worshipaakari What happened leading up to it? It could have been POTS but could also be dehydration or lack of food.

I just fainted for the first time in my life and it was the weirdest experience EVER. Ladies, has this ever happened before your menstrual cycle?

a lot of girls get into findom or sw because they think it’s easy money. what they don’t see is the work. the hours spent creating content. the money spent on outfits, makeup, hair, equipment, and subscriptions. the pressure of constantly being visible, relevant, and active across multiple platforms every single day. they don’t see the messages telling you you’re charging too much. the people calling you names because they can’t have access to you. the ones who tell you you’re not pretty enough, not skinny enough, not popular enough, not good enough. they don’t see the mental toll that comes with turning yourself into a brand. and they definitely don’t see the quiet days. the days where you put everything you have into content, promotion, networking, and engagement only to make nothing. the days where you question yourself. the days where you wonder if all the effort is worth it. before anyone twists this into something it isn’t, i’m not saying i don’t do well. i’m incredibly spoiled. i’m financially taken care of in ways i’m grateful for every single day. i have devoted subs who support me, uplift me, and make this all worthwhile so i can live as soft as life i desire. but success doesn’t magically erase the difficult parts. it doesn’t stop the negativity. it doesn’t stop the burnout. it doesn’t stop the pressure, the criticism, the entitlement, or the emotional labor that comes with this work. some days are incredibly rewarding. some days are incredibly defeating. but anyone who’s been doing this successfully will tell you the same thing: it was never easy money. it’s work. real work.

fat shaming another domme bc u got called out is crazy btw take that mean girl shit somewhere else

My bedhead is horrendous today haha

he doesn’t talk much. I like that

Findumb is not just a side hustle for some quick cash, it is a lifestyle. I think it needs to be taken seriously. It’s a lot of work and people are opening themselves up to be completely vulnerable to you and that takes a high level of trust. This work is not for the weak.

My shorts keep riding up 🥲

💸 Some basic findom rules to follow if you're new: • Attention is a luxury, not a free trial. • A sub who wants everything before sending usually sends nothing. • "I'm about to send" is not a payment notification. • Stop counting promises. Count deposits. • Being available 24/7 won't make someone spend more. • You don't need to prove you're worth sending to. • The loudest subs are rarely the biggest spenders. • If he can write a novel in your DMs, he can send. • Not every conversation is an opportunity. Some are distractions. • Protect your energy like you protect your money. • Build a brand, not a dependency on one spender. • The best thing a sub can do is send. Everything else is just talking.