@amanverma1714@_kumbhkaran I dont intend to watch it either.
Criminalising husbands for having sex with their spouse is a big NO. Period.
Dont want/ like / not ready for sex....dint get married!
@_kumbhkaran I have not watched the show and have no intention of watching it, but nothing should be done without mutual consent, married or not. Period.
One question to every feminist present here: If you fear sex so much then what is the point of marrying and ruining someone else's life? Why don't you choose a single life?
@Avinash73216022@Mayamaybesays@venom1s Outrage can be avoided by maintaining balance.... given existing avenues for women...legal too.
We must acknowledge difficult realities....mo one is denying "NO means NO" .... criminalizing it within marriage should be a BIG NO.
@Rudrum3@Mayamaybesays@venom1s Where the heck did I not outraged against other cases ? I even said you want other regressive practices come to light make a case for it nowhere did I deny those things !! What amnesia are you talking about ?
Keep trying can't help with logical solutions or arguments !!
They've started funding these kinds of movies and shows to break down Indian traditional family culture.
She said only those women leave who haven't been sexually harassed by their husbands.
Not one woman left. What is she implying?
That all women are raped by their husbands?
Also, look at how they are wearing sindoor and traditional Hindu clothes.
You won't see them making such movies and shows on Muslims.
Every single show and movie these days is an attack on Hinduism.
Also, yesterday I said that I don't believe that 82 percent of men are rapists. I was abused and targeted for that.
@Avinash73216022@Mayamaybesays@venom1s That what a manipulated person does.....selective outrage....only one sided.
When countered with arguments that are not so soothing to hear....then selective amnesia.
Carry on....keep trying!!
@Rudrum3@Mayamaybesays@venom1s I have said it earlier as well laws evolve based on historical instances . Stats of crime against women and their dignity is a proof that they are still vulnerable . If you believe otherwise maybe you are manipulated .
@Avinash73216022@Mayamaybesays@venom1s Yes, saying NO is a basic right!
But allowing women to file a case that my husband had sex/ touched inappropriately...as a marital..is a big NO.
If you agree, you have been manipulated, your words resonate it.
This show promotes propaganda, leading down a destructive path.
@Rudrum3@Mayamaybesays@venom1s The show explores the girl wanted a divorce but her family manipulates her into staying into the marriage . Divorce is a social stigma for middle class families . If you think saying NO is not a basic right then there is no point in arguing you need to introspect .
@PandaSahaab@Mayamaybesays@venom1s Totally agree!!
No one is advocating you should force someone for sex...i mean
I dont know how someone enjoys it when next person is not enjoying sex.
But...women filing cases that my husband had sex/ touched me inappropriately...is a BIG NO.
Dont want sex....dont get married!
@Avinash73216022@Mayamaybesays@venom1s That is the point...if you do not wish to get physical...or if you are forced for it...get out of marriage respectfully.
And again....
If you wish to normalise remote instances and turn them into norm....then only god can help you!
@Rudrum3@Mayamaybesays@venom1s Yes it is known but act of getting physical should be based on mutual consent . No one is bound to serve as sex slave to other individual . There is basic biology involved in this and concept of libido plays an important part as well . Please widen your understanding.
@the_watcher95@RitikaChandola At the same time....am not advocating you should force someone for sex...i mean
I dont know how someone enjoys it when next person is not enjoying sex.
But...women filing cases that my husband had sex/ touched me inappropriately....is a BIG NO.
Dont want sex...dont get married!
@Rudrum3@RitikaChandola It's not about ready or not.... It's about the timing , it's about the overcoming of fear !!!! Why to reveal that u are also a brainless cultureless BIMARU
Let’s talk about the series “Chiraiya”. Many people are calling it propaganda that’s their opinion, fair enough. But those who have actually watched the series will try to understand its real message.The core theme is “consent”, which is what’s creating all the controversy right now.
First of all, why do people start comparing fictional stories with real life in such a shallow way?
The series clearly shows a scene where the girl says she is not ready for sex on her first night. Yet people have started judging women talking about consent, no consent, rape, slut-shaming, and what not.
Arrey bhai/behen ek baar series dekh lo..dimaag khulega. Aur agar hurt jaldi hote ho toh paani bhi saath mein hi rakhna.
Even LGBTQ is mentioned briefly and importantly, the series does not rely on unnecessary sex scenes. It simply tells the story of a girl trying to cope with so called “modern” society. She gets married and experiences forced sex, where her husband completely ignores her refusal. The portrayal is clear her husband treats intimacy as something one sided, without any emotional or mutual understanding.
Honestly, men loudly debating this series without understanding it is quite ironic. If women were leading this discussion, it would have made more sense…..
Now coming to reality… the series claims that “82%” of women experience sex without proper consent, especially within marriage. That is a serious issue. In today’s time, a wife is not a sex machine. Consent must be mutual, respectful and ongoing.
Gone are the days when women were treated as objects kept at home, well that still continues in Islam.
Yes, the series may lack strong dialogues and has average songs, but its message is delivered almost perfectly.
People comparing women like objects are exposing their own mindset while pretending to be “concerned” for society.
The series itself didn’t gain much traction that shows the weak story buildup but people gave it unnecessary hype🤷🏼♀️ turning it into a bigger controversy than it actually is.
In the end, it didn’t land anywhere as a show….but the issue of consent is very real.
Both men and women need to learn and understand this in a truly educated society. And if people are still arguing over something so basic, it clearly proves that the problem of “no consent” still exists.
Watch. Learn. Educate. Not agitate.
@the_watcher95@RitikaChandola If its about timing....let the girl say No...let her get her timing right!
Sex is naturally expected in marriage...dont blame other for your lame understanding.
Would a girl, if options are ava, will ever marry a man whose timing in business is not good...and is struggling?
@Avinash73216022@Mayamaybesays@venom1s When you marry...its known that you will get physical...thats the base of any marriage.
If you are not ready.....dont marry....dont blame others for your lame understanding.
when its time to contribute...are we maids/ sex workers/ slaves etc etc...n ppl like you supporting it🤦
@Rudrum3@Mayamaybesays@venom1s You want regressive practices of other communities do make a case I am with you , there should be a representation of that as well . However just don't brush away the fact that marital rapes are not a genuine concerns for women .
Saying NO is a basic right any women should have.
BJP का भ्रष्टाचार देखो 🔥❗🔥
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@venom1s This is happening cas SC denied rape charges against husbands quoting this will destroy the social fabric that exists....
Hence this shit is being served.
And I guarantee you, these ppl dont have guts to point fingers towards tent-dhari womens....kyonki wahan STSJ ho jayega!
Both man and woman get married by consent.
If a woman doesn't want to marry, then simply say so.
Why do Indian girls always have a victim mindset?
You are getting married. Obviously, sex is expected.
If not, then don't marry or discuss it before marriage.
Also, feminist girls support sleeping around and increasing their body count before marriage.
But sleeping with a husband is wrong?
@Avinash73216022@Mayamaybesays@venom1s No community is innocent....but ppl wont have the guts to portray tent-dhari women like this.
STSJ is reality...and hindus are soft targets!
Once Dhurandhar has shown their reality and you can see their meltdown or strong objection..
And when it's hindus..we hindu support it.
@Rudrum3@Mayamaybesays@venom1s Try listening to grievances and concerns of women around you , you would find many such cases .
I don't care wether anyone is projecting them in saaree or burqa , my concern is only with voicing my opinion against forced sex .
No community is innocent wether hindu or muslim .
@RitikaChandola U said still Muslim women are facing the discrimination at home......then should not the characters be muslims here...after all its a social message.....
no u cant...u dont have guts...u wont say a word...STSJ ho jayega!
its characters are hindu and hence your feminism!!
@RitikaChandola If women are equal to men and consent is necessary for both individuals....
And if women have come a long way from being submissive at home...
then why the ho hulla of alimony, maintenance, fake cases etc etc etc...
@Avinash73216022@Mayamaybesays@venom1s If “just get a divorce” is the solution, it should apply equally to both sides.
If a woman is unhappy, she can leave and move on too. Equality also means accountability...not automatically expecting alimony or maintenance.
If the marriage isnt working, part ways respectfully.
@Rudrum3@Mayamaybesays@venom1s Yes precisely that mutual trust doesnot appear magically . It requires communication! if you watched the show you know that the girl tried to talk to the boy but he didn't listen and forced himself onto her
yes there are misuses but that is true for every law my guy .
@Avinash73216022@Mayamaybesays@venom1s That applies to women too....get out of marriage...thats it...but just dont blame your husband if he shared bed with you.
Dont take alimony...dont ask for maintenance!
Women r equal to men...hence live n let live...dont like your husband...get a divorce...dont file cases.
@Rudrum3@Mayamaybesays@venom1s Get a divorce man . As simple as that . Just don't force yourself onto another human being for getting your "desires fulfilled"(rape) . Basic decency