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Say me a prayer.. it’s my birthday

@neverelent Amen 🙏🏾

once you see this post, pray a sincere secret prayer in your heart and type "Amen" here.

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It’s my birthday 🎂 🥰💐 again guys… say a prayer for me…

She held her son close until his final breath after the attack. Now, his burial falling on her birthday deepens the heartbreak beyond words💔

If this happens to you when you should see your period, it is not normal. Please see a doctor.

Again, take it easy on yourself. Don’t over push yourself trying to appear valuable because you’re valuable.

Nigerians worship money and it shows in how we treat everything else. Once you have money, you can do and say anything and it will be right. We can never get to where we want to be as a society if we don't hold people accountable or criticize accurately because a person has money.

I’m in love with this sentence: “Discipline feels boring until you witness what it creates.”

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Michael Jackson on self belief...

“if you hang around people who act like you aren’t who you are, then you’ll forget who you are”

This is the reason why you don’t see or hear about healthy relationships on social media anymore.

@Wizarab10 Priorities & projection 😊.

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Yes, but not the way movies sell it. Prayer hasn’t magically erased problems for me. It’s worked by changing me: slowing my reactions, clarifying decisions, softening anger, strengthening patience, and giving me steadiness when outcomes were out of my control. Sometimes circumstances didn’t change. My posture toward them did, and that changed everything. Prayer isn’t a vending machine. It’s alignment. When you’re calmer, humbler, and clearer, you make better choices. And over time, those choices look a lot like “answered” prayers.

Imagine an over qualified therapist that you trust and feel safe with, without the fear of them ever betraying or judging you, with that in mind talk to them like a 5year old without filter, say the silliest and the most critical thing, ask questions, advice, solutions, protection and give gratitude for them listening.

For someone just starting out, what advice do you have regarding prayer?

This is how his wife reacts when he leaves without letting her pray for him.

@InibeheEffiong @legalbreed01 I’m so sorry for your loss, it’s an absolutely excruciating experience, I pray you get justice & I pray her soul finds peace & rest. Congratulations on the little one as well, May God comfort you&give you strength ❤️🥹. Wish I could ease you a little of this pain you carrying.

I shed tears of pain two weeks ago, the first time this year. I do not recall crying last year. My good friend and colleague, Justice John (@legalbreed01), lost his wife, Mrs. Akudo Lovelyn John, in a very questionable circumstance. I attended their civil wedding a year ago, precisely on Wednesday, 18th December, 2024. Justice and I have been good friends since we met in the Nigerian Law School, Lagos Campus. My friend, Justice, is seeking justice. Below is the personal account of the tragic death as written by Justice . THE AGONY OF LOSING MY BELOVED AND NEWLY WEDDED WIFE AT GYNESCOPE SPECIALIST HOSPITAL, LEKKI My wife went to Gynescope Specialist Hospital, Lekki for childbirth and died from mismanaged Primary Postpartum Hemorrhage (PPH). The same hospital where she registered and had her antenatal care without any underlying illness. In her third trimester, during one of the antenatal visits, the Consultant and attending doctor, Dr. Joseph Aliyu Yahaya, disclosed the considerable size of the baby. We raised concerns regarding safe delivery options and the possibility of an elective Cesarean Section (CS) owing to the fetal size. The Consultant dismissed CS and insisted on SVD. On Wednesday, 3rd December 2025, my wife went into labour. The Consultant performed episiotomy on my her, and our baby was delivered weighing 4.2KG. Immediately after delivery, the consultant left the labour ward and my wife’s episiorrhaphy was done by his subordinate. My wife complained of a dripping sensation inside her body. After observation, the Consultant noted that the vulva was unusually swollen and the sutures were too tight. The Consultant re-sutured her. After this second procedure, my wife looked lifeless, pale, and unconscious for hours, while the bleeding continued unabated. The Consultant confirmed she was bleeding internally yet took no active steps in referring or seeking specialist help outside the primary facility. There was a clear 15-hour window between the delivery of our baby and my wife’s eventual passing. Blood transfusion was done without first identifying and repairing the source of bleeding. At about 3:00 a.m. on Thursday, 4th December 2025, my wife complained of discomfort and began convulsing. It is important to note that at this critical moment, no medical personnel were in sight. Minutes after I screamed for help, doctors and nurses arrived from the ground floor. There was notably no oxygen in the ward where my wife was admitted. At this time, I requested for a transfer of my wife to another facility, but the Consultant said no facility would accept her without a pulse. Minutes later, the Consultant then agreed for her to be moved. MY OBSERVATIONS DURING THE EVACUATION OF MY WIFE Firstly, the Hospital brought a stretcher without side guards or straps to evacuate my wife. While moving her, she fell off the stretcher onto the hard floor of the tiled walkway on the 3rd floor. (I have challenged the Hospital to release the undoctored CCTV footage of the 3rd floor showing when my wife was being stretched out in the early hours of Thursday, 4th December 2025). I rushed to help lift her back up. The staff seemed confused about whether to use the stairs or elevator, thereby wasting valuable time during such an emergency. Secondly, upon reaching the ground floor, I expected the ambulance to be positioned at the entrance of the hospital door, ready to receive her. Sadly, the ambulance was stationed about 80 metres away, still covered in a tarpaulin showing no readiness. Only then was the cover removed. When I asked the driver to open the ambulance, I heard the most shocking thing - the keys were with Human Resources (HR) Manager. It took considerable time to retrieve the keys. When the driver finally opened the bus, he stated he needed to connect the battery. Throughout this chaos, my wife lay in the open on a stretcher, unattended and without oxygen.

I’m genuinely impressed by your ability to frame “pay for your own transportation” and buy your “own clothes” as internalized misogyny. The sheer audacity of calling me a pick-me when you’re literally out here with your hand out like a poorly dressed Oliver Twist is absolutely sending me. Let me break this down for your clearly struggling comprehension: asking a stranger to bankroll you for a first date is wrong. While you’re out here monetizing mediocrity and calling it feminism, some of us have jobs, self-respect, and the ability to call an Uber without starting a GoFundMe. But please, continue embarrassing yourself by pretending that financial independence is somehow patriarchal. I’d take you more seriously, but it’s hard to respect financial advice from someone who needs a sponsor just to leave her house.

God has a way of adding dramatic elements to your testimony!

@xKnowledgeBANK So it just becomes covered and useless? No penetration point, no urethra?

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