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Self Regulation Institute

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Developing and disseminating knowledge about how to live and learn in self-regulation. 🌿 Follow @Self_Reg, @StuartShanker & @susanhopkins5 for more.

Katılım Mayıs 2016
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Stuart Shanker & Co.
Stuart Shanker & Co.@StuartShanker·
Raising a child isn’t like baking a cake. There is no recipe. Not just because every child is different, and will grow up to be is perfectly unique. Or because the world is constantly changing. But because the stresses they must learn to cope with are constantly shifting.
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Stuart Shanker & Co.
Stuart Shanker & Co.@StuartShanker·
It’s essential that we learn how to manage stress: our own first, before we can help others we care about—our #children and families, friends and co-workers— manage theirs. #SelfReg #ECE
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Stuart Shanker & Co.
Stuart Shanker & Co.@StuartShanker·
If you have a child that is thriving, despite the lockdown, despite the difficulties in #education, that "why?" is as important as the child for whom we're saying "why not?" #ParentingInAPandemic
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Stuart Shanker & Co.
Stuart Shanker & Co.@StuartShanker·
The development of the ego originates in two amorphous states: “pleasantness” and “unpleasantness.” The baby acquires an undifferentiated sense of “We” from which she constructs a mental representation of her caregiver as a distinct entity, a “You” and from there, a “Me.”
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Stuart Shanker & Co.
Stuart Shanker & Co.@StuartShanker·
The emotional core of a baby’s developing ego is shaped by early We-interactions: so much so that if a caregiver reacts to the baby’s angry outburst with anger of her own, or suddenly breaks off an interaction, the baby’s sense of self will be imprinted by these emotional tinges.
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Stuart Shanker & Co.
Stuart Shanker & Co.@StuartShanker·
It’s time to say something more about the major influence on my thinking. I began my training under Stanley in the year 2000. The first thing he had me work on was The Development of the Ego. Tap to read more. #CoronavirusConversations buff.ly/2TGNDvD
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Stuart Shanker & Co.
Stuart Shanker & Co.@StuartShanker·
A question for everyone today: how might you respond to children’s behaviour differently if you realized that they were in survival brain rather than social brain?
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Sally Ghaemi she/her@SallyGhaemi·
There is no “should” or shaming in morality. Like Self-Reg, morality is a whole brain phenomenon. How do we hold space for & nurture the tension between the opposites, the rationalizations of the blue brain and the emotional pull of the red brain, until something new is born?
Stuart Shanker & Co.@StuartShanker

Shame and guilt lose their power to affect the behaviour of someone who is in deep Red Brain. Change only comes when hyperarousal diminishes. The calming tone political leaders have conveyed about the importance of social distancing is critical. buff.ly/3cCEsnb

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Stuart Shanker & Co.
Stuart Shanker & Co.@StuartShanker·
Self-regulation is the foundation of healthy human development and it's our mission to ground learning and living in #SelfReg, no matter your age.
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Stuart Shanker & Co.
Stuart Shanker & Co.@StuartShanker·
In @Self_Reg, we are always asking Why: especially when we can feel a moralistic judgement just itching to come out. But #SelfReg isn’t just about distinguishing between misbehaviour & stress behaviour: the next step is to reduce the stresses that we can. buff.ly/3cCEsnb
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HaltonParents
HaltonParents@haltonparents·
This is powerful for all of us as adults. We can all find ourselves in various places on this chart on various days, but so important to be self-aware and get ourselves back to regulated. thx @Self_Reg ^tm
The MEHRIT Centre@Self_Reg

Regulated & Dysregulated Teaching States as illustrated in #SelfRegSchools: A Handbook for Educators. Much can be applied to #teaching from home, as many of you are doing. Where do you fit in on this chart? Learn more: bit.ly/345m96p #SelfReg #SelfRegSchools

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Shannon R
Shannon R@evily82·
My new quarantine read arrived! @Self_Reg learning continues for this Self-Reg Champion. Also, working through the Self-Reg School online book club.
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anne connolly@aconnolly39·
Self-Reg to the rescue💜🕊for all of us #SelfReg @Self_Reg @StuartShanker @SelfRegInst
Professor Carol Campbell@CarolCampbell4

Very concerning survey findings: “nearly 60% of Ontario parents have seen changes in their children’s behaviour since start of #COVID19 pandemic, inc outbursts, extreme irritability, drastic mood changes, difficulty sleeping & persistent sadness.” #OntEd thestar.com/news/gta/2020/…

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