✨Goddess Elle✨

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Saw a post about a guy licking mysterious Bee Booty excretions and I can’t stop laughing at the fact that he ate Bee Shit and expected it to be honey

I wanna do some CBT

How tf this sub gonna get mad at ME for calling them out on not paying 🤣 Babe thats ENTIRELY YOUR OWN FAULT

@goldfiregodking I hope she wasn’t spiked

14 shots in 9 hours and ur THAT turnt? grow the fuck up

@dsmists 👀

pleaaase i need a needy chubby girl in my dms ;)

@pigdalf Somebody just asked about how we know to stop when it comes to humiliation, and this was exactly what I said. When I know that their vanilla life is being affected and they are genuinely having low self worth that’s when I like to reflect on things.

Humiliation play can be hot in the moment, but don't let it bleed into believing you're actually worthless. Findom isn't inherently "bad" but when it escalates into financial ruin, isolation, or worsening anxiety/depression, it's time to pivot.

@Michaelxx84 No

Are cashmeets , cashdrops a thing of the past now? 🥺 #findom #cashmeet

@YourBearPrince @NullReprised Mhm

@ServeElle @NullReprised Agree. It can work for him, as idea

dear findom, I'm slow sometimes. But I'm beginning to realize that findom just isn't fun for me. I think it's better if you are a true submissive, a simp or a regular sub. And the idea of not me not being ownable just doesn't matter in the least to dommes. Because if you play with a domme a couple times and then play with someone else, dommes infer ownership, jealousies arise and it turns into bad feelings. The excuse that "I know it's a double standard but I'm just a possessive bitch", is total fvcking bullshit. I wanna reply, "I know it's bad that I slash people's tires but I'm just an angry MF'er". And then there's the budget and mental health. Literally EVERY domme says they will respect a budget and care about my mental health, consider my suicide attempt and how findom might affect that. Pose as mommy or soft dommes to garner affection. Make promises about safety nets and tell me if a send ever gets out of hand, they will refund. And then they break their promises. The intoxication of domme mode overrides any care, any promise, any consideration for my finances or mental health. Last night a caring, soft domme wanted me to send her $2k. So unlike the previous domme who promised a refund *BEFORE* we played and then mocked me on her timeline when I asked her to live up to her promise, last night was different. I blocked her *PRIOR* to sending. And maybe that's just a sign for me.

@GoddessKarina I honestly couldn’t care less about any of that. All of that is between them and their subs or whoever else engages with them.

This might be an unpopular opinion but I’m probably the only Domme who doesn’t care if another Domme lies about their sends, if they make up outlandish stories for engagement, if they use a filter on their photos, if they photoshop massive jugs on themselves. Not my bag, not my problem.

Girls, what’s our fave mascara right now! One that isn’t a B to wash off🤍

@NullReprised @YourBearPrince Maybe you would fit in better with Sugar Daddies or something.

@ServeElle @YourBearPrince Not a sub

@NullReprised @YourBearPrince Even if you don’t consider yourself one, technically in this space that’s the category you fall under. And nonetheless, I don’t do love with people I do Findom with.

@NullReprised Yeah that’s very different

@ServeElle Look, she promised a refund days before the event if things got out of hand. We were in love, it wasn't a domme sub thing. It was much deeper than that.

@NullReprised @YourBearPrince Oh, I don’t do love with subs lol

@ServeElle @YourBearPrince sounds good but it just doesn't work when you get past the domme/sub stuff and love enters the equation

@NullReprised @YourBearPrince Personally, I like setting limits for drains beforehand, and will “cut the session short” before we reach the limit in order to mimic me pushing for more, even though we’re still just reaching the discussed limit.

it's impossible in findom. If I'm in a session and sending, i'm too far gone to be rational and keep track of sends in a spreadsheet. Far more important is the smell test. If it smells bad, it is bad. Sadly, both parties are under the influence, so it makes it all tenuous and I think that's why it goes wrong so often. I have called the safeword a couple times way more times, i was so far out of it that I didn't know how much I had sent or was so aroused I sent $1000. When that happens, a domme needs to just issue the stop order but again, they are usually to far gone as well.

@NullReprised For some people it is.

Dear findom, Is saying you respect financial and mental health boundaries and limits just PR? Sure seems like it sometimes. Trying to learn from my mistakes and not give people 20 chances when they repeatedly violate this barrier.

@princesshaylss I only do video calls when they pay me a lot bc ew no I don’t wanna sit and stare at you

unpopular opinion: I miss out on a lot of money because I hate doing video calls like I genuinely cannot sit there and talk to you weirdos

@SkiesWhimpers 👀

I’m easily manipulated and very pathetic where are the evil women at

@sexworkceo I don’t use AI at all unless maybe it’s too blur a background or some simple artistic thing like that, but never to change my appearance or my person.

Real question for adult creators: Are you using AI in any part of your content creation right now? Even editing tools, filters or enhanced lighting count under the new OF rules. Did you know you are supposed to be labeling that?