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Freda Donnelly⚓️
@ShesBasedBabe
Email Marketing Manager @theBlaze | Wife to @realWhiskeyBizz ❤️ | Daughter of the King ✝️ | Fellow @AFempowers | Jeremiah 29:11 | Blame my brain, not my boss
Texas, USA Katılım Ekim 2019
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@babyfeverbabe Phenomenal work by a brilliant and gracious woman.
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@coulterculture I love this so much. That's hilarious and adorable.
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Congratulations to @KeenanPeachy on the upcoming release of Supervillains — Architects of America's Decline! I cannot wait to dive in and read your latest tour de force.

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This is why we ask you to fill up our water bottles
Salma ⵣ@lallathurayya
The feminine urge to send men on missions
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@SenAdamSchiff Are you dumb, or do you just think that women are? 🤔
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At family dinner… and lil dude (who’s not a great joke/story teller) just hit us with a banger
Him “I went to a customer party dressed as a turtle and I was giving a piggy back ride to a girl… someone asked what I was dressed up as… I said a turtle of course… well then what’s the deal with the girl?… oh that’s Michelle”
Absolutely crushed. Even sister gave props…
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A rare miss from Shrier. Here’s the advice she should have given:
Dear Chase,
You write movingly about your mother. She showed up. She invested. She loved you in ways that were personal, attentive, and irreplaceable. You don’t speak about her as interchangeable with your father or anyone else. You speak about her as your mother—someone whose presence shaped you in a way no one else could.
That matters more than you seem to realize.
Because in the same letter, you position yourself as the one being denied: She wants grandchildren—but not from me. As if her hesitation is a rejection of you.
But that isn’t what you’ve described.
You’ve described a woman who loves her son, both as a child and as an adult, but who cannot celebrate a plan that would make her grandchild begin life without a mother.
Those are not the same thing.
Your mother is not withholding love from you. She is refusing to affirm what she knows would cost a child something you yourself clearly understand to be precious.
You didn’t write me about your “parent” in general terms. You asked about your "mother" specifically, and then recounted glowingly how you benefited from her presence, her attention, and her affection in your life.
And yet, you are asking her to bless a path that would intentionally deny that same relationship to her grandchild.
This is the inconsistency at the center of your letter—one you seem unwilling to confront.
You are defending, even fighting for, your relationship with your mother—while planning to create a child who will never have one.
That contradiction is the central moral tension you are trying to resolve by reframing yourself as the one being hurt. But your mother is not confused about what is at stake. She understands that what you experienced as a gift—a mother’s daily, embodied, relational presence—is exactly what your child would be cut off from intentionally.
You emphasize what you can offer: stability, commitment, love. Those are real goods. But your mother is focused on something different—not what you can give, but what the child will lose. And she is taking that loss seriously enough that she won’t pretend it doesn’t matter.
That isn’t a rejection of you. It is a recognition that your relationship status cannot do what opposite-sex relationships can—unite a child with both of the people who made them.
It is also a recognition that love, however sincere, does not erase loss. A second father does not become a mother simply because he is devoted. Some roles are not interchangeable, and some relationships cannot be replicated, no matter how much goodwill surrounds them.
And here is the part you need to face directly: your sexuality does not make you the victim in this scenario. No one is depriving you of your mother. You had one. You know what that relationship is worth—so much so that you are appealing to it now, trying to preserve it, protect it, and secure its approval. And yet you are prepared to deny that same relationship to your own child—not by tragedy, but by design.
Your choices make you the victimizer in this scenario. You are not the one being deprived. You are the one building deprivation into your child’s life from the start. 1/2
The Free Press@TheFP
‘I know having two dads is different from a dad and a mom,’ writes a 30-year-old reader, ‘but I’m confident in the life I could provide for my future children.’ The problem is his mother’s resistance, writes Abigail Shrier. thefp.com/p/tough-love-m…
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I had a lot of fun joining @kyleegriswold on The Kylee Cast today to talk @newguardpress, The Girl’s Guide, Gen Z and more! Link dropping soon!

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A woman’s destiny is to make a home for her family. 👧 👦 🐣🐣🐣🐣
God intended the woman to be in the home raising her children and encouraging her husband.
I said what I said. 🎤
Freda Donnelly⚓️@ShesBasedBabe
Exodus 21-22 and Proverbs 31:24 would like a word.
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@therealohioash Colorblindness is predominantly in men. It's very rare for women to be colorblind. Based on this, I think women largely see more and better color versus men.
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@ShesBasedBabe And then you have my husband… who is colorblind. lol
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