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Tutu
@Shobabs32
Accountant, Chartered Economist, Sports Analyst on Classic FM,Naija FM and the Beat FM. Security/Admin Consultant. Ex-Banker. Team Jesus.
Nigeria Katılım Aralık 2010
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@Ruky_Baby27 Im betwixt two.
The Second Guy appears 'Intentional',knows what he wants,bla bla bla.
The First Guy appears to be a 'Time Waster'believing he can eat his cake and have it.
Its a tough one.
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Imagine you’re 29 years old, and you’ve been in a relationship with someone since you were 25.
Now, you meet another man who is ready to marry you within a few months. You take your time, you pray, you make your findings, you do your research, and you become convinced he’s the right choice. So you make up your mind to marry him.
Suddenly, the man you’ve been with for years shows up and says,
“Oh, so you want to leave me for someone you just met? Fine, let’s go and see your family immediately!”
Now I ask you… what would you do?
Will you cancel your plans with the new man and go back to the old one?
Or will you move on and continue with the man who is ready to commit?
Don’t forget you had already begged the first man several times to come and see your family because you knew you weren’t getting any younger… but he never did.
So, what’s your decision?
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@HeartMattaz I laugh in Swahili.
Women dont love Men.
Dont kill yourself it aint worth it.
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@OtunbaWheelguru @ArcSadam I just hope his wife sees him as a Hero forever,no be tommorrow she go begin dey do skun skun.
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@ArcSadam Well, everyone is entitled to his or her opinion but i think you did exactly what a man in his right senses should do regardless of the consequence. What is the essence of staying alive as a coward who can't protect his wife?
May God grant you a quick recovery baba, you did well
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"Just a few days ago, my life almost ended. Armed róbbers came into our house. My wife was with me. I was so scared.
I thought it was all over. They collected money and a lot of valuables. I surrendered everything to them so they wouldn't hurt any of us. But even after all that, it still seemed not enough for them. One of them started haràssing my wife, wanting to sleep with her.
I knew this could bring a stigma to my wife for the rest of her life; she might never be happy again. I could not just stand and watch him. I knew I had to protect my wife. I used all my courage and jumped on him to protect my wife. Then, I felt a sharp pàin. Then everything went dark. He shot me in the chest, & they all ran away after that. But look at God! Look at the miracle He did for me.
He did not let the bullet hit any important part. By His grace, I survived. I woke up in the hospital, and they told me everything. As I'm here talking to you, my wife, my family is safe. I'm happy . It is not by my power. It is only God's grace. He kept us save
He saved me for a reason. He showed that He is the greatest protector. I am so happy. I am thanking God with all my heart. My life is a true testimony. Never forget to thank God, no matter what happens. He is always with us. I'm grateful."

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I still don't get how a woman will disrespect a man when he's down. Deny him sex too. Then he gets back on his feet and suddenly she's warm again, romantic again, acting like none of that happened.
And the man just... accepts it. Falls back in like the score is settled.
I don't have that in me.
What you showed me in the dark is who you are.
I'm not pretending I didn't see it.
You're leaving.
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I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He’s 36. From day one, he promised me marriage and said I’m the one who will mother his children.
Because of that, I gave him everything. For 4 years, I’ve basically become his house help. I spend weekends (and some weekdays) at his place washing his heavy clothes by hand, scrubbing floors, and cooking soups to stock his freezer.
I even travel to his village every planting and harvest season to work on his mother’s farm under the hot sun, just to prove I’m “wife material.”
Yesterday broke me 💔. After washing a mountain of clothes and cooking until my body ached, my mum called needing urgent help. I told him I’d return the next day to iron, but he got angry and called me lazy. He said I’m not ready for marriage because I couldn’t iron after everything I’d done. He showed no concern for my tiredness or my mum’s needs.
Now planting season is here again. I told him I can’t travel because I have a professional exam I’ve already paid for, my future is on the line. He said if I don’t go, I should forget the relationship. He called me weak, disrespectful, and not “submissive” enough to be a wife.
I’m tired. I feel like a servant, not a partner. But I’m 28 and have given him 5 years of my life. Starting over scares me. How do I make him change, or is it time to walk away after everything I’ve invested? 😔

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