Soft-Ajebo™ PHD

I may not have what they have, but I will get what they will never get!! My El ROI is Capable🔥

Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men who are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self control.

Once you stand up for yourself as a woman in Nigeria, you are automatically labeled a difficult person.

You have to develop a strong opinion of yourself so you don't end up internalizing the beliefs others have of you.

How we are all pulling up at LUMI on 25th April 2026 !!! Don’t miss it !!!

Marrying for love is one thing, but marrying for kindness is everything. When I had an emergency on April 4th 2026, I saw a side of my wife I will never forget. The woman I call 'my baby' became my protector. While I was in surgery for two hours, she was outside waiting, refusing to leave. For four days, she didn’t sleep. She cleared her schedule and stayed by my hospital bed every single second. It’s easy to love someone when things are good, but it takes a truly kind heart to sacrifice everything to pull you through a crisis. I’m so grateful to have ended up with a partner who gives her all. ANIKE ME, forever. ❤️❤️

@BAMBAD___ I'm screaming 😱 Congratulations 🎉🥳🎈👏🎉🎉🎉🎉

Guysssssss, I have good news, so wifey and I became business partners , we are launching our Nigerian restaurant & standard beer parlour in Barnsley, suya sport and football screen dey too. It’s Official! LUMI Restaurant & Gardens Launch 🥂 Dear loved ones, The wait is over! Please join me and my baby as we open the doors to LUMI Restaurant & Gardens on Saturday, April 25th, 2026. It’s beyond the taste it’s an Experience. Please mark your calendars and help us start this journey with a bang! Address : 32, Hornby street, S70 4DA Barnsley Time 1pm I will love you all to come support us please 🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌

“If you love me, consider me in your choices not your apologies.”

I’ve always tweeted for passion. Hit 1M+ impressions and Elon Musk said “see your impression, come and monetise” with 50% discount. I said okay let me just test it, I’m not renewing anything. Two days later, mr bola abiodun crossed my path and that encounter upgraded my account. Three days later, I got paid. Now here we are

@olajideobe 😁😁😁😁😁 Thank youuu

@Softajebo See flexing and enjoyment. I want to be like you when I grow up o. 😁😁😁

The Sun is out and so am I 🥰

@tomisin_ms @chi_quiero In my opinion It'll be a disservice to not prepare ones kids for the realities they'll face outside daily. Teach them virtues, morals and principles , but back it up with self defense lessons. Not everybody out there is reasonable.

Don't make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that you overlook the fact that you’re being disrespected.

The older I grow as a woman, the more I'm learning to consider the concept of marriage as a strategic decision rather than a solely emotional one.

Someone who loves you will never be comfortable with watching you struggle just because they believe it’s your ‘duty’.

If you’re a father, everything you do for your child is NOT a favor to the mother, it’s YOUR responsibility.

If all of you understand how short life is, you will make sure you chase your dreams. Most times people are not worth sacrificing for because they won’t do the same for you.

Some people have zero desire to be seen. They just want a blessed and quiet life.

May whatever you’re saving money for, be given to you as a gift. 🥹

@chi_quiero @tomisin_ms I fit mad put 😅 I don't even want him to cook but Abeg just bring the soup out turn swallow for me.. and make dose children don wear nightwear ready to sleep at least or make one don sleep 😩 I'm just coming back from a lot outside to come and see some lot inside 😭🤣

@tomisin_ms Imagine getting back from shift 10pm and Oga(who got home since 5pm) and the kids are with for me to fix diner. Craze!

Anyways to have a flourishing and great marriage in Uk where both partner feels love and valued without getting burnt out. 100/100 no split, everyone brings their strength and weakness to the table. Everyone partners in every aspect of the home