Softcollar

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@Cmc383 I don't even feel like it has to be as sprited as that. But with most other things in my life i know what I'm working towards, but with this, while it doesn't feel impossible for good things to happen, they feel out of my control.

@Softcollar1 I feel this so much. I'm left feeling like there is so much I don't know about myself and there's just no way to interact with any of it.

I wish I knew how to be more constructive with all this. I want to put in time and effort into my CG self. I wish i could grow, slow and steady like. Instead i feel like i sit and wait for things to happen. FOMO but without anything to actually take part in.

@LeakyGirlLanie Got to start somewhere!

@Softcollar1 Ahhhh ofc I've got it now

I need to learn how to draw diaper girls

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@ABUDiapers Most unexpected collab of the century!

@Softcollar1 Well, that would certainly be some different branding 😅

Branding

Timeout

@FunLilBun Hell yeah! Really putting the a in abdl there!

which I wouldn't have if I felt like I could be okay being on my own. Of course I would love to have a CG again, but I feel like I can wait for the right person because I know I'll love myself in the meantime. You are worthy of genuine love. Don't ever forget that💜

!Real Bun Talk! Going from being in a nearly full time CGlg dynamic for several years to being single has been a really big adjustment to make over these last 7-8 months in lotsa ways, but one of the pieces of growth I'm most proud of and wanted to share my thoughts on is having

@PaciTwee In my experience the best way is to interact with the wider kink community. A a lot of abdls are less open about their specifik kinks but people can find each other given a bit of time.

idk if it makes sense but being so far away from community kinda makes you feel more lonely interacting with it than not interacting with it at all, been in this community almost 15yrs and in that time ive never even got to speak to someone from my own country v.v

@Pup_in_padding Tbf very few people have a natural resistance to being stuck

@Softcollar1 Ababa... Rope is my natural weakness

I know it's just flavor text, but the perpetual ecosystem of littles bullying other littles on here makes me want to make some red cheeks!

@Pup_in_padding I have rope

@Softcollar1 ..( covers my bottom ) eep

@LeakyGirlLanie That poor onesie!

I've been a good girl so I don't need diaper changes before playtime!! Hey why are we going over to the changing tableee >////< I sowwyy 🥺🥺

@ArchFisuto A round charcoal brush from one of the kyle packs

@Softcollar1 what type of brush do you use for the paint look?

Slosh

@FunLilBun That's right! very good!

Duckies go quack quack🐤

@Sunnywittledays I think it's the same for most CGs. Sex can be fun and goofy, but that gentle care, that's pure emotion, it can hit you like a tone of bricks!

More shy about the non sexual wants in ageplay than the sexual ones?