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@animeposts while mahito isnt a month yet

With only 6 months of experience

Gue punya temen, sebut aja namanya agnes. Dia ini dari kecil hidupnya cukup banget bahkan bisa dibilang berkecukupan. Dari kecil: -Gak pernah pegang dapur -Masak paling jauh cuma Indomie sama telur -Makanan selalu tersedia -SD, SMP, SMA dia juga tinggal di asrama, dan semuanya sudah disiapin: -Makan tinggal makan -Gak pernah mikir soal dapur sama sekali Singkat cerita, Amira ini akhirnya nikah. Suaminya juga: Kerja di perusahaan swasta Gaji oke Udah mapan (rumah, mobil, motor ada) Jadi secara finansial? Aman banget. Suatu hari dia cerita ke gue: Gue dulu gak bisa masak sama sekali… tapi pas nikah, gue baru sadar satu hal. Biaya makan itu GILA. Dia hitung: Sekali makan berdua bisa Rp200–300 ribu Kalau hemat: Nasi padang 20 ribu → berdua jadi 40–50 ribu Dalam sebulan: Bisa habis 3–4 juta cuma buat makan doang. Dan itu belum lifestyle lain. Akhirnya dia kepikiran: Emang lebih murah masak di rumah gak sih? Dan dari situ… dia mulai belajar masak. Awalnya? Masakan keasinan Kadang hambar Kadang gagal total Tapi yang keren: Suaminya support banget. Gak ngejudge, gak komplain berlebihan Malah ikut nemenin prosesnya walau sering ujung2nya go food juga karna keasinan atau hambar Setelah jalan beberapa waktu, dia sadar: Masak itu privilege. Bukan karena: Harus Atau tuntutan Tapi karena: Bisa hemat besar banget. Perbandingan: Makan luar: 3–4 juta/bulan Masak sendiri: bisa 1–2 juta/bulan Selisihnya bisa 1–2 juta tiap bulan. Dan ini yang paling menarik: Mereka bukan hemat karena gak mampu Tapi karena mereka pintar ngatur uang Hasilnya: Bisa liburan ke luar negeri Bisa ngejar wishlist lain Entah itu ketempat yang mereka pengen Atau tempat2 yang lagi viral Finansial lebih longgar Dia bilang ke gw kalo elu nikah ntar usahain dehh elu atau istri lu bisa masak itu asli sebuah lifehack Ini bukan soal: Cewek harus bisa masak Cowo juga di tekenin kalo bisa Tapi soal: Partnership dalam rumah tangga Karena: Mereka belajar bareng Mereka bangun kebiasaan bareng Mereka nikmatin prosesnya bareng Gak bisa masak itu bukan masalah Tapi gak mau belajar + boros = masalah Dan yang sering orang gak sadar: Skill sederhana kayak masak bisa jadi leverage finansial.

@wasawho keliling naik taksi ci

aku mau ke vietnam bntr lgi guys rekomen tempat bagus di viet selatan (baju, makanan)

apakah benar semprot parfum di leher dpt menyebabkan kanker tiroid? @tirta_cipeng

MICROCHIMERISM: Why Virginity Is Important The sperm is more than just a fluid, it is a container of genetic information. Meaning when a man ejaculates in a woman, he leaves behind DNA that is stored inside the woman and shared if she gets pregnant. If she aborts..

Aku tiap kali lihat berita jelek pemerintah:

@osemagnum @grok apa maksud tweet ini dan jelaskan

DYSPAREUNIA (PAINFUL SEX) LETS TALK ABOUT PAINFUL SEX WITHOUT SHAME BECAUSE SEX IS NOT MEANT TO HURT IT IS MORE COMMON THAN YOU THINK. READ. SHARE. REPOST When Pleasure Hurts: A Woman’s Body Is Speaking, and We Must Listen There is a story many women carry quietly, and it begins in a bedroom and ends in silence. It is the story of pain where pleasure is expected, and of endurance where joy should live. Dyspareunia is the name medicine gives to painful sex, and yet the experience itself has existed long before we learned to label it. As a gynaecologist, I say this without apology and without whispering: sex is not meant to hurt, and when it does, the body is not being dramatic, it is being honest. According to the guidance of the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists(RCOG), painful sex should never be dismissed, because pain is often a message, and messages deserve interpreters, and interpreters deserve time. Sometimes the pain waits at the doorway of the vagina, like a guard refusing entry, and sometimes it hides deep inside the pelvis, like a secret with sharp edges. Superficial pain may come from dryness, from infections, from conditions of the vulva, and from the quiet hormonal changes of menopause or breastfeeding, when oestrogen slips away like a lover who forgot to say goodbye. Deep pain, however, may whisper the names of heavier things: endometriosis, pelvic infections, fibroids, ovarian cysts, or adhesions, and these are not small matters, even when they are spoken of in small voices. But the body does not live alone, it shares space with memory and fear and culture. And so pain is not always only physical. Anxiety tightens muscles. Past trauma writes itself into tissue. Relationship stress creeps into nerves. Cultural shame sits heavily on the pelvis. The muscles clench not because they are stubborn, but because they are afraid. This is why silence is dangerous, and why secrecy delays healing. Many women think, This is normal, and so they endure. And endurance becomes habit. And habit becomes harm. Painful sex erodes self-esteem, strains love, dulls desire, and leaves emotional bruises that cannot be seen on a scan, yet they are real, and they are heavy. It is also important to name things properly, because language shapes understanding. Dyspareunia means intercourse is possible, but painful, often because something medical can be found and treated. Vaginismus, on the other hand, is when the vaginal muscles tighten without permission, when the body says no even if the mind says yes. Dyspareunia says, 'Something hurts.' Vaginismus says, 'I am protecting you.' And sometimes, they walk together, hand in hand, pain and fear, feeding each other. Care, when it is done well, begins with listening, and continues with gentle examination, and then with tests when needed, and imaging when the pain lives deep. Treatment may look like lubricants or vaginal oestrogen for dryness, antibiotics for infections, hormonal therapy for endometriosis, physiotherapy for tense pelvic muscles, and counselling when fear or trauma is part of the story. This is not indulgence; it is medicine. This is not weakness; it is wisdom. So let us say it clearly, and say it loudly, and say it without embarrassment: painful sex is common, and medical, and treatable. You are not broken. You are not abnormal. You are not overreacting. Your body is speaking, and it is speaking in the language of pain, and pain is a language we must learn to understand. Because pleasure should not require suffering, and love should not demand endurance, and silence should never be the price a woman pays for intimacy.

Pacaran dah 7 tahun lalu tunangan. Ceweknya kena leukemia. Cowok drop karirnya di Valorant pas lagi peak. Cover medical bills, rent, household cost, nemenin cemo, pemulihan sampe donorin bone marrow. Eh diputusin 🥲 cc: @JetVeetlev @hanmula

@skyholicc88 @timothyronald22 @Kalimasada97 @grok apa sebenernya inti awal permasalahan ini

Karena tidak ada tanggapan apapun dari @timothyronald22 @Kalimasada97 Akhirnya gue mengawal beberapa korban untuk membuat laporan dengan kerugian awal (3 Miliar Rupiah). Total kerugian korban panguyuban diestimasi mencapai 3.500 orang ++ dengan nilai fantastis 200 Miliar ++. The WAR HAS BEGUN‼️ Gue udah kasih kesempatan ya dek, DM gue terbuka loe kaga pernah respon dan DM gue sekalipun, jadi ya kita gas aja kalau gitu. Baju kaos loe warna apa boss? ORANGE wkwkkw

@wasawho emg se rekomended itu ya koding pake mac 🤔

dropping some of unreleased selfies on Trakteer! grab it here trakteer.id/wasawho/showca…

@wasawho @swansage11 bawang merah dan bawang putih 😭😭😭

@swansage11 manisnya nembus layar💘💘

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@wasawho kayak tifa jir

oke kah rambut lurus?😕

@wasawho sakit maaag trs nanti dikasi obat sebelum makan trs minum obatnya yg skrg habis minum obat maag 👍

gamau makan apa-apa😔 gimana cara minum obat ya kalo gamakan

@_oversherin ayo sini lg subur ini sperma, km subur jg ga 😏

Pengen dientot ugal-ugalan 🥺

yall dont deserve normal worlds i guess 😭

no hate to all my black ppl fellows, kalian dikit2 pegang 🔫 tapi dibilang kriminal, dikucilkan, dihina gamau sampe bikin BLM, kek apalah anjg aku tau ga semua gt tp ya mostly gt mau apa anjg org fakta kok gaterima 🗿yang bikin ngeri sm klean ya tingkah terorist kalian bruh

@1776General_ it’s always the blacks carry the gun, if yall dont want to be mocked at some racist words dont act like criminal, yall be acting criminal but doesnt want to be called criminal, yall races are the closest race to a terrorist

@wasawho oiya wasa tau update terbaru kah katanya di singapore ada kasus covid lg, tp masih dibatas aman

oiya aku pilek guyss, apa harus check covid ya😭