Susan Storm

On Wednesday night at 7 PM EST/6 PM CST, @ESTPDaniel and I will be exploring the difference between FJs and TPs and how they can both clash & grow from each other! Join us and bring your questions! youtube.com/watch?v=Up5vwX…

@TypingPractical Yeah, I definitely think IxTJs having Te in the "parent" role means that they/we jump into fix it mode so quickly, sometimes without stopping to think whether the other person just wants to be heard or get emotional support.

@SusanStorm984 From what I've seen, TJs have a default "fix it" instinct, which matches what you're saying. I'm married to an ISTJ. To be fair, we both suck at emotional expression, but I'm not that quick to go into a "fix it" mode for other people.

There's something I've been trying to explain, but often struggle to explain adequately. Te/Fi types might seem distant, cold, insensitive to Fe/Ti types, even when they are trying to do their best to seem caring. This is especially true for IxTJs. We tend to take all our caring

@TundraVision That is so interesting! I'm glad he's working at making those adjustments. It's not easy, but it's so worth it. It just takes a lot of conscious effort.

@SusanStorm984 This really sums up the relationship I've had my with father (INTJ) over our lifetime. It's really taken him until his mid-life (at least) to even really recognize how his interactions impacted me, and made exactly those kinds of adjustments to try and meet me where I'm at.

of our feelings, even if it can feel like getting a root canal at times.

Anyway, long story short: TJs may not be aware that their deeper feelings of affection aren't obvious to others, and it may be more obvious if you look at their actions and choices and the time they make to simply "be" with you. And TJs, we have to work at actually saying some

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@pray_for_adura I'm sorry to hear that! Honestly, been a pretty rocky month, but still hanging in there!

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Join me and @ESTPDaniel tonight as we talk about Ne-Doms and Si-Doms and how they clash & help each other at the same time! The live stream starts at 8 PM EST/7 PM CST youtube.com/watch?v=A7A8hT…

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