Real Lover Girl Shit || Hira

yeah sure go ahead and observe during + after pregnancy 😂

Speedy got OFFENDED after Angel Reese VIOLATED him for not being as wholesome as he acts and having his dating standards too high 💀🤣👀 “I don’t want my friends or anyone I know with a quality of a man like you sometimes”

Not to continue the discourse but honestly if you just don’t enjoy sex or haven’t had pleasurable experiences, that’s ok. Trying to tell EVERYONE else that they only enjoy sex/kink because they have no true autonomy or that’s it’s some reaction to trauma is… interesting

And no one has been able to articulate how saying anal sex is abusive and degrading and blowjobs are coercive helps women or feminism. If your issue is that women are being pressured into painful sex, then isn’t the conversation supposed to be about coercion or sexual assault? Is vaginal intercourse particularly immune to coercion or pain or abuse? You haven’t pushed for autonomy, self-advocacy, boundaries, informed consent, safety/protection, mutual comfort, reporting abuse, etc — things that’ll actually help women… just jumped straight to “anal sex is abusive” and “blowjobs are coercive.” How exactly does it help women to collapse sexual coercion/violence with consensual sex by branding some forms of sex as abusive/degrading simply because you personally can’t relate to the pleasure people find from them or some people’s experiences are tainted by coercion? We are in a precision crisis. Your concerns about harm in sexual contexts are valid but that doesn’t automatically make those acts inherently abusive. The only thing that overgeneralising anal sex as abusive achieves is weaken the meaning of abuse and obscure real sexual violence. If we label consensual acts as inherently abusive, we blur the line between sex and coercion and make it harder for women to identify and report actual violations. We want women to be able to identify and report when they have been sexually violated. We don’t want them to think that any form of sex is inherently abusive or coercive so when they have been coerced, then it’s just the sex since it’s the nature of it by definition. Women used to describe sex as “painful pleasure” because they thought that was just the way it was and no one ever told them that the pain was not an inherent part of the pleasure. We’ve come a long way from dismantling this misconception only for you guys to drag us back again. And you all need to unpack your homophobia chineke. Many of you were sounding dangerously close to agreeing with the criminalisation of “carnal knowledge of any person against the order of nature” in the criminal code act. Do better. This conversation has been incredibly jarring and unbearable to be honest.

Fathers in the home lowkey the funniest shit Christian Walker has ever said

They dropped this and never confirmed their relationship until the marriage lmfaooo watching all this in real time was so tea 😭

y’all don’t understand how we GAGGED when she switched her hair up.

hit me with the harshest reality truth

has anyone written about the phantom POC (parent of color) trope? diversity in tv/film (esp reboots/adaptations) being limited to an actor of color cast as the mixed race child of a white character and a dead/absent POC, all to avoid casting a Black/Brown actor in a lead role

Nicki just don’t have that hunger or energy for music anymore and it’s okay as long as she replace it with a very lucrative and successful business and just focus on her business empire instead of music 🤷🏽‍♀️

the gag is JT never disrespects her fans