
Teja
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Teja
@TalesOfTeja
Building @Meant_2_Bae All things dating, life and whatever comes to my brain
Bengaluru, India Katılım Aralık 2015
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Worst dating app profiles
1. Bio says versions of these:
Let’s talk and find out
Swipe right to know more
Just ask
Imagine a CV that says “shortlist me to know more”
Imagine an ad that says “Google the brand to know more”
Do you know how ridiculous that sounds??
This says either you don’t know enough about yourself or what makes you interesting. Get out of the apps and figure yourself out.
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Hot take: Dating in 20s and having a few relationships is actually healthy.
-it tells you what you want and don’t want in a partner or a relationship.
- it sets realistic expectations for a relationship
- understanding of your own patterns
- better at communication and boundaries
If you have never dated by 30’s, that’s actually a red flag.
- certain parts of emotional intelligence is built by being in relationships and dating different kinds of people
- sometimes avoidance hides under the guise of I’m not into dating
- relationship skills take a lot of work
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Things you can actually do on a first date without overwhelming your date:
- Flowers (a few not a whole big bouquet)
- A book (not what you like but what they enjoy reading) someone once got me a book on a first date
- Someone got treats for my cat
- Book their uber
Again, you don’t have to do any of it. But if you want to be kind, do something small. Something you would do without expecting anything in return.
Big gifts or gestures is a terrible idea on a first date. Nobody wants to feel like they owe a second date because of the mental debt. It should be because you enjoy spending time with them.
Blaine Anderson@datingbyblaine
Spoke with a late-30s girlfriend in Dallas who went on a date last night with a late-50s bachelor from NYC. They were introduced via another matchmaker. She said the vibe was great until the end, when he gave her a pair of diamond earrings. Fellas, no matter how rich you are, don’t do this. My girlfriend genuinely liked the guy, but she’s now questioning his motivations instead of feeling 100% excited about a second date.
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@vatsal_sanghvi Easier to maintain and cats do well in smaller homes.
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@divz_i_am Should call it “been there, done that and nothing changed this time around too”
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@sameexajamankar I used to do FD with different timelines of maturity. Some locked for long term, some super short term. Between 45 days to 3 years, so I can break only what’s necessary and not everything.
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