Tan
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@CBM_Cringe people do this weird thing where if you're "too dark" you're automatically black. they're also doing it with hermoine in the new harry potter series even though she's actually white
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@leaninmyfij1 @kiraistired @ikilledabel @doradaaureus i think it's a little weird and childish but i also think there's a difference between doing something childish and infantilizing yourself. and doing childish things isn't inherently bad
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@Tan14764166 @kiraistired @ikilledabel @doradaaureus nobody in this thread ever used the statement “i’m just a girl”, the QRT is of a sarcastic parody of where this entire discourse started. a woman who turned her bfs credit card into a magic wand for her BD was attacked for “infantilizing” herself
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heterosexual women r so irritating god forbid u criticize the self abuse they put themselvea thru or else thwy put tws like this on their posts
sleepy strawberry 🌙☁️@honeybunwife
tw capitalism, gifting, birthdays, infantilization my husband got me a pink ipad! 💕🌸🎀
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@leaninmyfij1 @kiraistired @ikilledabel @doradaaureus who's the lady with the credit card thing...i'm talking about the person i replied to and the "i'm just a girl" people
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@Tan14764166 @kiraistired @ikilledabel @doradaaureus i’m crying did the OP of this whole conversation ever say that once ?? or did you pull that out of your shitty booty, the lady who did the credit card thing never once referred to herself as a child 😂
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@scarytyla @ikilledabel @doradaaureus i'm not dictating or policing anything😭 you don't have to listen to me, no one is forcing you to be on here. you can log off right now if you don't like what people say one here!
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@Tan14764166 @ikilledabel @doradaaureus do you understand how this reads as you trying to dictate what a “grown adult woman” can or cannot refer to herself as? but we are infantilising ourselves apparently. i strongly suggest you stop policing vernacular and do something tangible for your cause.
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@leaninmyfij1 @kiraistired @ikilledabel @doradaaureus they do not call themselves boys though? they do not say "i'm just a boy" and talk about boyhood in the same way. they acknowledge they are grown men who like hobbies typically associated with children.
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@Tan14764166 @kiraistired @ikilledabel @doradaaureus no it is not, men can grow up, be into video games, anime, their favorite childhood sports, comics, etc (typically associated with boyhood), but when women do it we’re infantalizing ourselves? what happened to nostalgia? exploring your inner child? why does that have to be weird
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@leaninmyfij1 @kiraistired @ikilledabel @doradaaureus being a girl is not infantilizing, but being a grown women, calling yourself a girl, and being obsessed with girlhood is
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@afroanalytic believing that black men are inherently more masculine than other men #noticing
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@gowanusofficial You're right, that is a very Connecticut thing to say that nobody likes!
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@Tan14764166 @ikilledabel @doradaaureus a lot of women experienced severe bullying & abuse and were influenced to be ashamed of being a girl growing up. A lot of us want to heal the internalised shame and misogyny by embracing what didn't feel safe. Yet we still get stigmatised & attacked for expressing ourselves
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@ikilledabel @doradaaureus "girlhood" "girl" yall are doing it again lol. you are grown adult women. stop infantilizing yourself
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@doradaaureus You need to unpack the conflict you have with girlhood and stop taking it out on strangers. You have internalized misogyny so deep you resent a girl loving her pink ipad she got as a gift because you associated girly stuff with women pretending to be dumb for a man
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@KaylebAlexander @joshfawx later in the clip he says the video actually was kind of good so he was probably just coping and then decided to be honest
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I literally had a random guy follow me onto a bus and off while touching me and telling me to go home with him like last week so sorry im more heightened to these things these days lol
Leo@drivebysolo
@broteinpancakes Can you get over yourself mama
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@boo_raegan @gl0ssyballs @ffe2ff haha no lol i thought that too till i was about 7, it's on the east coast between virginia and maryland. DC is actually Washington, District of Columbia
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@gl0ssyballs @Tan14764166 @ffe2ff I'm not American I always just assumed that Washington DC was in... Washington idk
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@AshFrmDaSip is there a reason California specifically is catching strays or are we just on your mind 24/7?
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More married blk women in Mississippi than California. We also aint gotta be bilingual to get a job in our own community.
Stoney@Stone_Marley
Y’all be arguing with niggas and bitches who live in Mississippi about parenting and they mommas is they big sisters.
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@monkieboy99 actually a lot of men as desperate to the point where they are thinking that lol. you just have self respect
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@ChaseEnCashe the only people who don't listen to rap are white supremacists and they definitely don't want her colored ass lol
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