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Imagine hating me while I analyze the sociocultural context you grew up in to understand why you're such a horrible person

When I was 19, I had my e-nikkah done in a Discord VC so I could islamically e-date this white girl I had converted. She ended up cheating on me with the Discord server owner, like 3 weeks later. He was also the one who acted as her wali and as the prime witness

There are women who will talk for hours without gossiping even once about other people. They talk about their goals, their interests, their fears, their routines, their past, their desires, but not a single moment do they talk about others. I did not think this was possible. I did not know healthy women who avoided gossip existed, but they do. It truly is so refreshing to talk to someone for hours about life & not once need to mention others in the conversation.

Why did we 🇵🇰 adopt mostly Arabic names? Many non-Arab Muslim countries (e.g., 🇹🇷 , Indonesia 🇮🇩 , and Bangladesh 🇧🇩 ) retained strong local naming traditions, using only few Arabic names. How we ended up being so Arabi-fied in naming kids, leaving our own culture behind.