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@Zamayworld @Thaandolwethu Thanks for sharing...it puts a lot into perspective.

@TeighMo @Thaandolwethu No sis no. The 1st wife is uNdlunkulu. Everything goes through her, even a plan to built a house for another wife. All needs to go through her. Not for approval but for transparency as somehow the neck of the household.

When will you guys actually acknowledge that MaCele is the first wife🤣

@Proudly012 @Thaandolwethu I'd love for someone who is knowledgeable about how Zulu polygamy works, would give us a comprehensive view, as perhaps some of us are shocked as we are of different cultures and perhaps customs are the same.

@TeighMo @Thaandolwethu Power dynamics are at play according to the ascending order of the wives in most polygamous marriages.

@wealthyhun @MrsGibsonn Private banking sana...

@MrsGibsonn Old money doesn't do SA Home Loans

Mzumbe is getting an upgrade, Earthly queen a new house. Makuthiwa old money is not loud, omunye uthe uzangena ngogandaganda emzumbe (New Money) kancane kancane we were reminded of her coins. Nithulile manje zinja #UthandoNesthembu

@MrsGibsonn Old money ekhalela ukufakwa kwiGEMS?

@NtoZintle_ Uhlezi afuna ukukhothamelwa kodwa she cannot return the same grace. In one of the previous seasons MaYeni said a speech at one of Bhikoz birthdays and she couldn't even pretend until a tiara was put on her head, and that's when she forged a smile.

She can’t even acknowledge Mayeni and Nombela congratulating her lol Yoh ungcolile uBricks wenu #Uthandonesthembu

@svz22vm8f5 Bab'Ndabe alluded to this "father wound" as the reason for the obsession with wanting a huge family.

Musa seems to be parenting from an unhealed father wound, and in the process may be passing that unresolved pain down to his children in amplified form. It’s telling that even MaCele revealed her own children once asked her why she didn’t leave Musa. #UthandoNesthembu

@kezro21 But isn't it her main reason for being pursued was because "Mzumbe is dying" which means she needs to stay there and also grow the family while at it.

If the MaKhwela staying in Sea Park rumours are true, yoh! Imagine blocking your sister wife from the rural home only for her to move to the suburbs so early in her marriage when you had to wait almost 20 years to move #uthandonesthembu

@GamsahabnidaL If you analyze how he's been portrayed using the 7 deadliest sins, you'll realise that he has all the sins under his belt. Even the rationale of 20kids... Envy, Pride, Greed, Lust, Wrath just to name a few.

I doubt that Mseleku will be able to bring his family back together. He's done a lot of damage to those relationships. The problem of someone who is never satisfied is that he might end up losing everything in pursuit of more.

@MazikodeThah Exactly. And since it took him so long he should expect that his wives will take time with Met, given that they view her conception as infidelity and betrayal.

@TeighMo Which means he should be more accepting of uSimphiwe by now but he still bashes him every chance he gets

Sisi, uMethuli is to MaNgwabe who Simphiwe is to Musa. I hope this helps. #UthandoNeSthembu

@Lalunaki27 @mandymatsinhe Uthi ubani?

@mandymatsinhe Not Norbit, Rasputia😂😭

Norbit has mastered how to get what SHE wants from Mseleku. Just pretend to be in agreement with his foul behavior and get rewarded for it financially. She doesn’t have to work… uzohlala kwakhe afuce amakheke no swidi, whilst her husband continues whoring about Mzumbe.

@Hope_Nemushiru No. It's easy to cut him off. She should keep him close so that every success and victory in her life, he witnesses it in real time, knowing how he tried to throw obstacles her way. That will give her greater satisfaction.

I'm saying it again, he has never loved uMpilo. If it wasn't MaK, that child would have never made it to that household 😞 it's painful to watch. If I were in Mpilo shoes, I'd cut him off... #UthandoNesthembu

@MsThatoM It's only a matter of time until he flips on Abongwe too. This man really is vindictive

Everything is about Abongwe. Abongwe this and that, you can tell the rift between Musa and Mpumelelo that’s why he is all of a sudden getting tight with Lwandle #UthandoNesthembu

@NomceboMasilel2 "You is a force to be reckoned with. You is the birthday!"

#uthandonesthembu “You is kind,You is smart,You is important”.💋

@_oaa_m @_FentseM He's alluded to it in a few episodes this season and in the Uncut spin off.

@TeighMo @_FentseM I’m seeing the intimacy denial twice now, did he say that?

i don't think Musa knows why he is fighting MaKhumalo so much #UthandoNesthembu

@_Thembalihle_ I don't get why they cannot call on the Duma/Mseleku men and proceed without Christopher. Is there no such provision in the Zulu culture? I know in the Sotho cultures that you can call on clansmen or uncles for procedures where dad is no more or dragging feet.

Mseleku is a horrible father!!!! He is dividing the kids, why other will get ceremonies yet Mpilo is being sidelined! MaNgwabe is right, Mpilo is deserving all of these things he will do for other kids. #UthandoNesthembu

@Lesedi__Larona Has it though? Look how lost she was the time he was hospitalized. Being fully dependent on another is never wise... uzozuza but in the long run you end up not knowing how to fend for yourself.

I’m afraid being a man’s fool paid off for MaCele… All her kids are catered for,she got a mansion without having a 9-5. The best part? That man doesn’t even have touch her😂😂 #UthandoNesthembu

@MrsNoma Don't you think that MaKhumalo has stayed because of her love for Mpilo. The way Christopher seems vindictive, I fear that the day MaKhumalo may decide to leave, he'll take Mpilo away and force them to cut ties, since she's not biologically hers.

"You've got to learn to leave the table when love's no longer being served" My heart breaks for MaKhumalo & Mpilo 💔 #UthandoNesthembu

@PhutiPela Karma is going to fetch Christopher one day... I just hope Mpilo has her popcorn ready to watch it all play out.

Musa doesn’t like Mpilo. It’s beyond Thobile. He doesn’t like his own child and only he knows why. It’s so unfortunate because she’s such a good child. #UthandoNesthembu