Tensei

Picked him up like a sack of potatoes 🥔

how to make friends in a new city: > say yes to everything for the first 3 months > ask locals what they like to do in the area - you can follow their recs for inspiration > when you vibe with someone, ask to hang. don't wait for them to initiate!! > try multiple communities & events to see what resonates - don't commit to just one > try to meet one new person at every event you go to > you can be direct & open - "I just moved here & want to meet more people, want to grab coffee?" > be specific about meeting up *at a specific day/time* not just some distant point in the future > don't take rejection personally - people may be busy or have different schedules > know that some amount of homesickness is normal - that doesn't mean you made the wrong decision > stay in touch with your community from home so you don't feel so alone > once you meet a few people, host small gatherings (even 4 people for dinner) - fastest way to build a friend group > you never know if *someone* will introduce you to *someone* who becomes your new best friend. the power of network effects is real!! > iterate over time - keep meeting new people, trying new things & have fun with it! > give it TIME - it takes time to find your rhythm NOW you can make friends wherever you go!! just be intentional about finding them!! your people are waiting to meet you!!! you got this!!!

The man is so evil, he's starting to rot.

nah bro this is genuinely nasty work