Ravenlly

@zaynlovesgrapes @Lyledapreformer Fair. Thanks for being respectful btw lol

@TheRavenlly @Lyledapreformer Yea!

Bro called me a dictator because I dont wanna be friends with proshippers because they make me uncomfortable #howdatwork

@zaynlovesgrapes @Lyledapreformer True actually

@TheRavenlly @Lyledapreformer Well see yes and no, because ppl are generally complicated, but again if someone directly states it esp if its from the start of the friendship that they're uncomfy with you, you either leave or talk it out! And in this case you're online like you actively sought this person out.

@zaynlovesgrapes @Lyledapreformer It depends on the person. It's just that people shouldn't be surprised when people DO hide things about themselves, but want to keep friends. The world is just...like that. I just don't know what goes on in people's heads

@TheRavenlly @Lyledapreformer For some ppl things like this do matter when making friends and it may feel like a core value to them especially if y'all are both online and know abt these issues. Its a quality that matters

@zaynlovesgrapes @Lyledapreformer That's also core values. Not just hiding a small aspect about yourself

@zaynlovesgrapes @Lyledapreformer It'd be complicated. They clearly cared about me. I'm friends/have been friends with so many people that don't have the same values as me. They still care about me, and our friendship is still important. I did let some fade away, but "hate" is a strong word

@CANIDANXE what am I looking at 😭

“I get so sick of black people”

@zaynlovesgrapes @Lyledapreformer "Boundaries" just...idk. It seems to be an excuse to treat people who do a thing you dislike shittily. Boundaries used to be how you were treated by your friend back in the day

@zaynlovesgrapes @Lyledapreformer It would, I agree. I'm not like that personally (I can't imagine dropping friends over this), but I could see both sides. But it's not a betrayal either. It's just someone being scared of losing a friend, which I can empathize with.

@Lyledapreformer Why are you shocked people wouldn't open up to you and be honest?

@TheRavenlly Well yes crossing a stated boundary that's been repeated over and over is grounds for abandonment

@siciel27 I didn't give you permission to reply to this

@TheRavenlly i didn't give you a permission to reply to me

@zaynlovesgrapes @Lyledapreformer It wouldn't be wrong. I'd understand it. They wouldn't want me to hate them, and they'd hide it out of fear that I would. The reason they came out to me was because they felt the tiniest bit confident, at least, that I wouldn't despise them.

@TheRavenlly @Lyledapreformer The difference is that your friend came out and told you abt it, and you were able to make the decision to still be friends with them. But if that friend knew how you felt abt smth, did not speak up abt it and did it behind your back its wrong! That is Lyle's stance here

@Lyledapreformer More or less dictator in the sense that if a friend has something you don't like about them, they'll feel the need to hide it out of terror you'll abandon them lol

@TheRavenlly I mean no I just thought it was crazy that you called me a dictator for not wanting to be friends with someone.

@Lyledapreformer But instead you seem to, as I suspected, wish to incite harassment

@Lyledapreformer Lol. Weird. You could just debate with me on it or ask why I'd say that. Or block me, actually, even though Twitter's blocking sucks

@renfalling60 @Lyledapreformer Probably. Gosh. She is just so familiar and you're probably right that it's 90% likely that I saw her before. Oh my goodness. It's one of those things.

@TheRavenlly @Lyledapreformer Myabe she wa slike everywhere

@renfalling60 @Lyledapreformer OH EWWWW.

@TheRavenlly @Lyledapreformer So i actually found evidence she had posted csam

@Lyledapreformer I was mainly answering your question to begin with. Of course, people will hide that stuff when they wanna be your friend. Then you put me on blast for no reason so I kept responding lol

@TheRavenlly Ok and that's you I guess. I personally do not want the friendship of someone who makes me uncomfortable or crosses/disregards my boundaries. Why is that something you have a problem with

@Lyledapreformer And I mean that they knew this when befriending me, but they still wanted to befriend me.

@Lyledapreformer I do, and it happens. I have stated my stance on things and have had people shyly admit that they disagree with me on it, but they wish to still be friends. Try not to take it personally. It's not like cheating.

@Arubekind Me

What has EARS but does NOT listen?