Jack Peach | Dynastic Dating

I went from a single alcoholic ready to give up on dating... ...to married with two kids. Here’s how:

@FWPlayboy And be a huge asset to her future husband.

Will be married by 25 never work another day in her life…

@LeonardoMitala Yep, no-one wants to be roommates with their wife.

@ThinkInPeach A sexless marriage is a roommate agreement with extra bills. Once the physical tether breaks, you’re just two people managing a household and waiting for an exit.

Sexless marriages don't start sexless. By the time sex disappears, the damage is already done. 5 signs it's dying before it dies:

You don't have a sex problem. You have a "she stopped feeling chosen" problem. Fix that. The rest follows.

5) She stopped bringing it up The key to being a good husband is to be just annoying enough to keep her engaged, without making her want to give up. When she goes quiet, she's given up.

Rules for the first 90 days of dating someone: 1. First dates are a vibe check, not a job interview. Keep them cheap. 2. You lead. Pick the place, the time, the next date. The second she's deciding, she's losing interest. 3. Touch her in the first 10 minutes or accept the friendzone. 4. Two drinks max. You're vetting her, not numbing yourself. 5. Burn the "kiss-by-date-3" timeline. The guy who pays attention beats the guy on a schedule. 6. Leave before she wants you to. 7. The way she treats the waiter is how she'll treat you in 5 years. 8. Values tell you what she wants. Character tells you who she is. Test for both before month two. 9. She's already giving you signs. The girl baking you cake at church is not "just being friendly." 10. Don't ask permission to be her boyfriend. Tell her where you stand. Ask her where she's at.

@Vakrof @WestsideLAGuy 39 in the last 12 months.

@ThinkInPeach @WestsideLAGuy How many clts did you have last year?

@taylorburrowes Too many women are told that they can come off birth control and immediately get pregnant, too. I mean, yes, technically that's true. For most women that's NOT the case.

At a certain age, birth control is not just a medical decision, it’s a life trajectory ultimatum. Especially if you are a woman over 35 who might want children. Your fertility, your relationship, your timeline, and your partner’s desire for children are not separate issues. They are one ecosystem. Defer that conversation too long, and your body may eventually make the decision for you. No shame. But absolutely no more denial.

@ThewrightP What in here is about performing?

@ThinkInPeach Exactly. Structure can help, but if you have to perform to keep someone interested, are they even your person? The right connection should still require effort, but it should not require you to act less like yourself to be chosen.

Went downstairs to ask my wife a question. She didn't see me. She was on the floor of the playroom playing "cooking" with our 3-year-old. Our 4-month-old asleep on her chest. I watched for 5 minutes. Couldn't remember what I came down to ask.

@WestsideLAGuy Strong sexual connection, yes. But sex too soon creates feelings of shame in women which leads to a decrease in attraction in the best quality women. Exceptions to the rule, but 9/10 when my clients sleep with a woman too soon it doesn’t end in a relationship.

@ThinkInPeach Disagree on that one. The girl holding off on sex means she’s either not genuinely attracted or looking for a provider. Strong sexual connection is the core foundation.

@ThewrightP I agree, but the right structure makes that easier.

@ThinkInPeach Too many rules and now you are performing instead of connecting. Good luck when the script runs out and you finally have to show who you actually are. Real dating is not a strategy deck. It is two people learning each other properly.

@WestsideLAGuy If you’re looking for a girlfriend I recommend holding off. 9/10 if you have sex that quick it fizzles out. Too much physical connection, before the emotional connection is there.

@ThinkInPeach This is pretty good list. Thoughts on dropping the girl if there’s no sex within 3 dates? That’s my hard rule.

Give me 60 seconds and I’ll show you how to fix your Hinge profile to get more matches:

@JasonPalmer1971 I like the idea, but I think the "hotel" element might introduce just enough friction for the first date that it might put some people off. Plus potential navigating hotel staff on a first date might be a bit awkward. Depends on layout. Would be a great 2nd date though.

@ThinkInPeach Afternoon tea in a posh hotel is a good first date

@ElCano4201 Crazy stat

@ThinkInPeach 50% of single men did not went on a single date during the past year