we need to start treating insecure people like villains like we do narcissists because they’re literally energy vampires and people infantilize them because they’re insecure ?
We can’t date casually. We can’t casually have sex. There’s nothing casual about being in my space. I’m a real lover. There is nothing casual about my intimacy. There is nothing casual about my heart.
what a privilege it is to be seen as an ambitious, smart, independent, strong minded, hard working, passionate, affectionate and resilient woman
rather than just pretty.
I hate when people piss me off or just rub me the wrong way because I be loving my people to the bone. Then it’s like I be more mad at the fact that I have to remove myself
I think ppl are genuinely scared to date & they should be. Bc we are living amongst demons, pathological liars, cheaters, manipulators, haters, ppl lying about their ethnicity !! And they’ll look you dead in the face & drain the last bit of goodness and trust you have in you.