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Masculinity Monday 🔥 8 feminine habits that quietly destroy your manhood (Stop doing these if you want real respect from men and desire from women) 👇👇👇

Our Children Deserve Enhanced Learning Environments. Today, May 21st, I had the opportunity to visit Practising Primary School in Agulu, my hometown, which has been a cornerstone of education since its establishment in 1922. Unfortunately, the school suffered significant damage from a fire last year, resulting in the loss of a historical building that had educated generations. During a previous visit, I committed to supporting the school's reconstruction and to helping create a modern, supportive environment for the students. This morning, I was pleased to return and deliver an initial amount of 10 million Naira to help initiate the rebuilding process. Education is a crucial investment for any community, and restoring schools is essential for renewing hope and ensuring a brighter future. I also took the time to engage with the students, encouraging them to take their education seriously. Their future will be shaped by the discipline, effort, and dedication they demonstrate today. A New Nigeria is POssible. -PO

After speaking with Nigerians in Cape Town yesterday, I was able to have meaningful discussions this morning with three South African ministers and political party leaders regarding the ongoing challenges related to immigration, regional collaboration, and fostering peaceful coexistence between our nations. I had the pleasure of meeting with Mr Leon Schreiber, the South African Minister of Home Affairs and a prominent figure in the Democratic Alliance; Mr Velenkosini Hlabisa, the Minister of Cooperative Governance and Traditional Affairs and leader of the Inkatha Freedom Party (IFP); and Mr Gayton McKenzie, the Minister of Sports, Arts and Culture and leader of the Patriotic Alliance (PA). Our conversations were productive and candid, focusing on the current challenges that affect both countries—particularly those related to migration, economic strains, youth unemployment, security issues, and the rising tensions faced by African foreigners in South Africa. I firmly believe that Nigeria and South Africa, both prominent African nations, must enhance dialogue, bolster cooperation, and seek solutions based on justice, mutual respect, and adherence to the rule of law. In challenging times, leaders and citizens alike need to demonstrate responsible leadership, compassion, and restraint. We collectively stressed the importance of law-abiding behaviour, avoiding violence, resisting hate or provocation, and allowing lawful institutions to address grievances through democratic and constitutional processes, regardless of the challenges we face. The progress of Africa hinges on our ability to create unity, foster economic inclusivity, invest in our communities, and uphold the dignity of every African, no matter where they live. -PO

Yesterday in South Africa, after meeting with the ministers in the morning, I delivered a guest speech at the Spier Dialogue Event on “Policies for Growth in Africa” in Cape Town, where I reiterated that Africa has no reason to remain poor. Our continent is blessed with enormous natural and human resources. Africa holds huge mineral reserves, possesses over 60% of the world’s uncultivated arable land, and has the youngest population globally. These are not liabilities; they are strategic assets for economic transformation. Yet, despite these enormous advantages, Africa continues to lag due to poor leadership, corruption, weak institutions, and the high cost of governance. Africa must now look ahead and move forward with decisive action. We must shift our focus from politics and endless election cycles to productivity, development, and nation-building. The future of Africa lies in investing aggressively in Human Development Index (HDI) indicators, especially education, healthcare, and lifting people out of poverty. Today, many African countries still record low life expectancy, high infant mortality, widespread unemployment, and growing poverty levels. Small and medium-scale businesses, which should be the engine of growth, are collapsing under harsh economic conditions, poor infrastructure, and policy inconsistency. What Africa needs is competent leadership with the capacity, compassion, and commitment to prioritise production over consumption, and development over politics. If we invest in our people, strengthen institutions, reduce the cost of governance, combat corruption, and create an environment where businesses can thrive, we can build a more productive, secure, democratic, and prosperous Africa that works for all its people. A New Africa is Possible. -PO

My final engagement before leaving Capetown for Johannesburg yesterday, I had the privilege of meeting two distinguished former leaders, President Ian Khama of Botswana and President Thabo Mbeki of South Africa, before departing Cape Town for Johannesburg yesterday. This meeting was an opportunity for me to express my heartfelt appreciation for their positive comments on the recent immigration issues in the region and their continued advocacy for peace and unity among African nations. Both Mr Khama and Mr Mbeki continue to hold significant respect across the continent due to their remarkable contributions, both during and after their presidencies. During my audience with Mr Mbeki, I also reconnected with my good friend, former Ekiti State Governor Dr Kayode Fayemi, who delivered a keynote address at the Thabo Mbeki Africa Day lecture, focusing on the themes of rebuilding unity and revitalising institutions throughout the continent. This event was organised by the Thabo Mbeki Foundation. -PO

@KwankwasoRM @maheer005 Our President and his able vice

Last night, I received a courtesy visit from my brother, His Excellency Peter Obi, shortly after his successful screening as the presidential aspirant of our party, the NDC. The future is bright and full of promise. - RMK

@heismric Half of Nigeria will d!e in poverty, banditry and kidnapping. 2027 is a fight for all our lives

On no account must Tinubu win a reelection. I already have my PVC from the last election. I will fly in to vote for Peter Obi, like I did in the last election. Nigeria deserves competent leader, not every day “it saddens me, or I’m in shock” type of leaders.

You don’t maintain a marriage/relationship with transfers and gifts. You maintain it with presence, direction, and standards.

Quitting the relationship because she can’t cook is a very valid reason. Don’t let anybody gaslight you.

A retired civil servant died in my area in 2023. Within one month, his children sold the only house the man spent his entire life building. After sharing the money: The first son bought a korope bus. Less than 6 months later, the bus got involved in an accident and was impounded by the Lagos State government. The second son bought an iPhone 15 Pro and told people he wanted to start Yahoo. Today, the phone is gone and he’s usually at the bus stop begging people for money. The last daughter rented a shop for her fashion business. Bought sewing machines. Added a fridge to sell drinks alongside the business. People say she’s still managing the shop till today. This is why discipline, mindset, and financial intelligence matter more than sudden money. A man works for decades to create a foundation, only for undisciplined heirs to burn it down on liabilities in less than a year. So my questions are: How do you ensure your children develop the financial discipline to protect your legacy when you’re gone? Why do women usually manage limited resources more than men ??

You can’t hide behind “I’m a good guy” when you have nothing to show for it. Be dangerous and unpredictable. ☦️

Comfort is dangerous. It can keep you stuck for decades while you think you’re doing fine.

Some of your own parents built legacies exactly like this. Yet, instead of emulating their discipline and success in marriage, you come online every day to condemn the entire institution. Shame on you.

Confusion isn't a strategy, it's a red flag. High-value men don't have the time or the interest in suffering for 'usefulness.' We have empires to build

The same blood that keeps you alive can be the very thing spilled when a man lacks the discipline to guard his ears. Growing up, they were inseparable. Two brothers against the world, sharing dreams in the dirt of poverty. But as they grew, their trajectories split. The younger brother chose the path of extreme discipline, grinding until he broke the chains of lack. He built the houses, bought the cars, and established a kingdom. But a leader never leaves his own behind. He brought his older brother into the business, handing him a high-paying role and a two-bedroom flat. He didn't stop there. He told his elder: "Find a woman you want to marry. I will shoulder every kobo of the rites." The younger brother kept his word. He sponsored the entire marriage, and for a while, the family was whole. Everyone was smiling. Everyone was "happy." Then came the whispers. It started small, behind closed doors. The older brother’s new wife began to drip poison into his mind every night: "Why must you ask your junior for permission before you move?" "Is it not a taboo for the younger to pay the elder a salary?" "Don't you see? He is using your destiny to fuel his wealth. That’s why he is up and you are down." The older brother, lacking the leadership to check his household, let the poison seep in. Gratitude curdled into resentment. Resentment turned into a plot to dismantle everything his brother had built. Eventually, the whispers pushed him to the darkest edge: plotting to end the life of the very man who gave him a life. All because he allowed a woman to become the architect of his reality. The Hard Truth: Women are incredibly powerful beings. Their influence can build a dynasty or dismantle a brotherhood in a single season. As a disciplined man, if you do not recognize that power and put it in its proper place, you will find yourself destroying your own blood to satisfy a whisper. Protect your mission. Guard your ears. Lead your home, or your home will lead you to your ruin. ☦️

Most men aren't outcompeted; they just out-quit themselves. The 'gap' is where weak discipline is filtered out. Keep building man 💪🏽

LIAM ROSENIOR HAS LEFT MY CLUB!!!

@CFCMods If those sporting directors are still there, they will frustrate him out like Maresca

Chelsea fans, hear me out.