Chris Lopez📸

Mood

I’m only interested in catering to one person. Y’all can have that sneaky link culture. My soul ain’t for sharing

Can we normalize fast replies because why you letting my message marinate for 2 hours?

Hurting someone and expecting them to move on like nothing has happened is emotional neglect.

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People pleasing isn’t about the other person, it’s about us. We’re not trying to please anyone. We’re trying to avoid the guilt of saying no. We’re trying to avoid being seen as selfish. We’re trying to avoid that difficult conversation. Pleasing behaviors are a form of avoidance.

The idea that men should be the rock that carries all of the emotional burden alone is why we have so many men silently suffering.

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Physical connection is the preferred form of closeness for emotionally unavailable people. When the physical excitement fizzles, they believe something is wrong with the relationship. What’s actually wrong is they depend on a single way to feel loved.

My relationships will always remain private, but I’ll never keep someone a secret. There’s a big difference between privacy and secrecy

I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to somebody with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others

i have so much to say, i just don’t know how to say it

Its Monday and guess what? They can all sniff your left nut....

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A picture speaks a thousand words.

"idk i’ll see" = i’m not coming, never was coming, never even considered it

I feel like im losing my bond with everybody, i feel so alone bro

A partner who has the courage to heal their childhood wounds, who can forgive themselves, and who can give you grace as you learn love beyond survival mode is one of life's greatest gifts.