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sehat dan bahagia selalu lancar segala urusa nya , juga ebook mas lapis mhehe ❤️🦖

HBD Edmin ❤️🦖 Katılım Aralık 2014
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ciwzzz@Trex_jinnie·
Yaallah tolonggggg
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pisces🕊️@kanjengratuuu__·
Postingan Dr. Ose ini bener-bener eye-opener soal dyspareunia, alias seks yang sakit, yang katanya common banget tapi sering diem-dieman karena malu atau dianggap hal tabu. sebenarnya seks nggak boleh bikin sakit itu harusnya enjoyable buat dua-duanya. Tapi nih, yang bikin pro kontra: Banyak kasus pain ini karena cowok yang buru-buru atau egois, nggak ngerti foreplay atau arousal cewek, sampe bikin cewek nggak siap dan akhirnya sakit. Malah ada yang bilang pain itu "normal" buat cewek, padahal itu bullshit dan bisa bikin trauma panjang, apalagi di budaya kita yang tabu bahas seks. Harusnya cowok lebih belajar tanggung jawab di ranjang, bukan cuma nyalahin "ceweknya kaku" atau apa. Kalau gini, pasti ada yang pro (bilang iya, edukasi penting) dan kontra (yang defensif bilang "nggak semua cowok gitu" atau "itu urusan pribadi").
Dr. Ose Etiobhio@osemagnum

DYSPAREUNIA (PAINFUL SEX) LETS TALK ABOUT PAINFUL SEX WITHOUT SHAME BECAUSE SEX IS NOT MEANT TO HURT IT IS MORE COMMON THAN YOU THINK. READ. SHARE. REPOST When Pleasure Hurts: A Woman’s Body Is Speaking, and We Must Listen There is a story many women carry quietly, and it begins in a bedroom and ends in silence. It is the story of pain where pleasure is expected, and of endurance where joy should live. Dyspareunia is the name medicine gives to painful sex, and yet the experience itself has existed long before we learned to label it. As a gynaecologist, I say this without apology and without whispering: sex is not meant to hurt, and when it does, the body is not being dramatic, it is being honest. According to the guidance of the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists(RCOG), painful sex should never be dismissed, because pain is often a message, and messages deserve interpreters, and interpreters deserve time. Sometimes the pain waits at the doorway of the vagina, like a guard refusing entry, and sometimes it hides deep inside the pelvis, like a secret with sharp edges. Superficial pain may come from dryness, from infections, from conditions of the vulva, and from the quiet hormonal changes of menopause or breastfeeding, when oestrogen slips away like a lover who forgot to say goodbye. Deep pain, however, may whisper the names of heavier things: endometriosis, pelvic infections, fibroids, ovarian cysts, or adhesions, and these are not small matters, even when they are spoken of in small voices. But the body does not live alone, it shares space with memory and fear and culture. And so pain is not always only physical. Anxiety tightens muscles. Past trauma writes itself into tissue. Relationship stress creeps into nerves. Cultural shame sits heavily on the pelvis. The muscles clench not because they are stubborn, but because they are afraid. This is why silence is dangerous, and why secrecy delays healing. Many women think, This is normal, and so they endure. And endurance becomes habit. And habit becomes harm. Painful sex erodes self-esteem, strains love, dulls desire, and leaves emotional bruises that cannot be seen on a scan, yet they are real, and they are heavy. It is also important to name things properly, because language shapes understanding. Dyspareunia means intercourse is possible, but painful, often because something medical can be found and treated. Vaginismus, on the other hand, is when the vaginal muscles tighten without permission, when the body says no even if the mind says yes. Dyspareunia says, 'Something hurts.' Vaginismus says, 'I am protecting you.' And sometimes, they walk together, hand in hand, pain and fear, feeding each other. Care, when it is done well, begins with listening, and continues with gentle examination, and then with tests when needed, and imaging when the pain lives deep. Treatment may look like lubricants or vaginal oestrogen for dryness, antibiotics for infections, hormonal therapy for endometriosis, physiotherapy for tense pelvic muscles, and counselling when fear or trauma is part of the story. This is not indulgence; it is medicine. This is not weakness; it is wisdom. So let us say it clearly, and say it loudly, and say it without embarrassment: painful sex is common, and medical, and treatable. You are not broken. You are not abnormal. You are not overreacting. Your body is speaking, and it is speaking in the language of pain, and pain is a language we must learn to understand. Because pleasure should not require suffering, and love should not demand endurance, and silence should never be the price a woman pays for intimacy.

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ciwzzz@Trex_jinnie·
@kring_pajak halo min selamat pagi, saya ingin bertanya, apabila kita lupa efin, sedangkan saya tidak pernah register email dan nomer hp itu gimana ya? Terimakasih
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Afia Dimple🦋@AfiaDimple_·
which one are you getting in 2026 ??
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ciwzzz@Trex_jinnie·
Kehidupan dewasa se darderdor ini
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dr. Gia Pratama
dr. Gia Pratama@GiaPratamaMD·
Menstruasi tiap bulan, kehamilan beberapa kali, lalu diakhiri menopause. Sementara kita laki-laki, secara biologi, ya hidup lurus-lurus aja. Ayo kita sadari sebentar. Perempuan itu setiap bulan berhadapan dengan biologinya sendiri. Dengan nyeri datang rutin sekali. Dengan emosi naik turun tanpa diingini. Dengan darah yang keluar, tanpa permisi. Lalu di satu fase hidup, perempuan mengandung. Menumbuhkan manusia hidup dalam dirinya. Membagi nutrisi tubuhnya, energinya, tidurnya, napasnya. Rahim membesar puluhan kali lipat. Organ-organ perutnya bergeser. Trus hormonnya loncat-loncat menari tanpa henti. Dan ketika semua itu selesai, di dekade ke 5 tubuh berkata, Haha belum selesai. Tiba-tiba Menopause datang. Badan rasa jadi tungku panas, lelah, gelisah, tubuh terasa asing, tapi tetap harus menjalani semua fungsi dan perannya sebagai Ibu. Sementara biologi kita laki-laki? Bangun tidur. Tarik napas. Minum air. Kerja seharian. Lalu merasa wah hari ini produktif sekali. Kadang kita demam tinggi sedikit saja, Nada bicara langsung melemah. Rasanya ingin nulis pidato perpisahan Setelah memahami ini, aku sering bertanya dalam hati, bagaimana bisa perempuan setangguh ini. Bayangkan kita laki-laki yang mengalami menstruasi. Mungkin sebulan sekali kantor akan tutup. Grup WhatsApp penuh keluhan. Rumah sakit penuh drama. Satu kram kecil, sudah minta dipijat se-RT. Kehamilan? Laki-laki lapar satu jam saja sudah gelisah. Jadi kalau hari ini kita melihat perempuan tetap tersenyum, tetap bekerja, tetap mengurus keluarga, tetap peduli orang lain, Kita menyadari kekuatan versi berbeda. Dan kita, para laki-laki, Sudah selayaknya lebih menghargai dan menyayanginya. 🩷
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TULISANKU ツ
TULISANKU ツ@kayyisa__·
THIS📌
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ciwzzz@Trex_jinnie·
Deymmmm
I_D@_ID_corp

@SosmedAnu prioritaskan pembagian dan perkalian lebih dulu.. jangan kayak pemerintah yg ga tau mana prioritas

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Firgiawan@seterahdeh·
sebenernya gaji 2jt udah cukup banget asal gajiannya sehari sekali
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gajadi satu sel gais 💚
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Catholic 𐕣@myshawti·
I hate my mind bruh
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ciwzzz@Trex_jinnie·
Ini yg bego tolol sebenernya siapa iyah? Masuk syurga jalur WNI 🙏
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