Dee

This is the DRAMA I signed up for this very good Friday! Behind the scenes is now playing on Netflix! 🇳🇬🍿

Nobody breadcrumbs and strings along quite like a man of God. If you’ve spent enough time inside the church system, you already know how this story goes. She will hold on far longer than she should because he gives just enough to keep her steady. A small public gesture here, a soft affectionate word there, maybe even a few private moments that feel like something real and just enough public validation for her to feel special, then he wraps it all up in vague promises and spiritual language about “God’s timing,” and she convinces herself to wait a little more. So she stays, soaking up the cute nicknames like “selwoman,” enjoying the illusion of being seen as the first lady even though she isn’t. That heady feeling will hold her in place. She will keep hanging on because she believes that eventually, if she’s patient enough, she’ll become first lady. Even if it takes her 20 years. Or until he marries another.

Nobody breadcrumbs and strings along quite like a man of God. If you’ve spent enough time inside the church system, you already know how this story goes. She will hold on far longer than she should because he gives just enough to keep her steady. A small public gesture here, a soft affectionate word there, maybe even a few private moments that feel like something real and just enough public validation for her to feel special, then he wraps it all up in vague promises and spiritual language about “God’s timing,” and she convinces herself to wait a little more. So she stays, soaking up the cute nicknames like “selwoman,” enjoying the illusion of being seen as the first lady even though she isn’t. That heady feeling will hold her in place. She will keep hanging on because she believes that eventually, if she’s patient enough, she’ll become first lady. Even if it takes her 20 years. Or until he marries another.