Valentine

Bro to bro: If your finger touches this, Tomorrow will be your luckiest day.

Consent is always required but it's up to individuals in relationships to know what kind of consent works for them. I'm not married but I've never given or received verbal consent for kissing & have only used verbal consent during sex when ex girlfriend or I are requesting specific sex acts that can't be implied non-verbally. I find verbal consent to be a turn off & exclusively use non-verbal/implied consent. If either of us aren't in the mood or want to stop we can always say no.

Why does a husband need consent for sex from his wife?

Does marriage nullify people's rights as human beings?

This is true. People will do what they do. It's up to you to control your actions, decisions, and risk assessments. It’s important to look for the red flags, do they talk about their ex all the time? Do they get defensive when you respond? Are they quickly dating you even though their breakup was recent? Etc

@haalandgurl Please don’t date someone if you’re not over your ex. It does more harm than good in the long run. Don’t waste people’s time and take as much time as needed to fully heal, grown and learn from this. Don’t use them as your emotional crutch or back up option, it’s not fair.

If you know you’re not over your ex , you have no reason to be in a relationship .

@PharmVictorious @Elenabardyf Lol...my personal opinion bikonu ..your article no really concern me.

@Va4obi2027 @Elenabardyf According to Article 1 of the UN Convention on the right of the child, A child is any human under the age of 18. So you're wrong sir

Why are grown men in their 30s interested in girls who are only 18 or 19? It honestly doesn't sit right with me

Honestly? Because most men don’t get much physical affection unless they’re in a relationship. Compliments, hugs, small touches , they’re rare for guys. So when someone finally gives them warmth without expecting anything back, it hits different. Physical touch becomes a love language because it’s the one thing most men ’re starved of.

@Elenabardyf Why shouldn't they, if it is true for them?Don’t you like it when your partner puts their hand on your waist or legs? I adore it.  I touch her as much as I want to be touched which is all the time aha

Ask a man about his love language and somehow, physical touch is always the first answer. 😭

@Rapunzel_hnn Jealousy is a normal human emotion which stems from insecurity. But extreme of everything is bad so we should be more communicative in a relationship if we are feeling insecure or being jealous of someone.

Never confuse jealousy with love. One protects you, the other tries to control you.

@Nithya_Shrii You have to remember the number one rule, which is don't attempt to help anyone that is not asking for help or want your help. Number two would be don't try to impose your viewpoints upon the person you think you are helping.

Helping the wrong people can ruin your life.

@ceejay550 @Elenabardyf Lol ..that's my personal opinion.. I'm sure you have yours.

@Va4obi2027 @Elenabardyf Na old mama you dey look for? Age 25 Na old mama Na

Most times it's often insecurity that makes men date younger girls plus most young girls are naïve & easily manipulated.

Because women have the opportunity to cheat, even if they are average looking woman, or below average. A woman will always be able to find a man who will be willing to have s€x with them. The advantages of a woman cheating is that she can always blame her boyfriend for her actions. And they will always be stupid people out there who will make excuses for women cheating & saying that the guy either wasn’t taking care of her sexually or the woman could say, he wasn’t showing me enough attention, or, her man was abusive and that’s the reason why she cheated. But in fact, cheating is an individual act,& every woman can get out of a relationship before they decide to step outside of their relationship & cheat. When woman cheats, she can find every excuse in every softhearted person will feel sorry for her, even though she was the one that damaged her relationship relationship by cheating.

Many women cheat, get pregnant, & a substantial number of these women do not disclose to their betrayed husbands that a son or daughter they thought were theirs, is not actually theirs at all to begin with. Imagine being a man, giving his all to a child who he thought was his, going through one, two or even three jobs to make sure that his family gets all they need, and one fine day years later waking up to the terrible realisation that that child is not his. That is a blow whose force, effect and consequences thereof I cannot comprehend at all. Women who do this to their husbands are the absolute fucking worst. I hope they suffer. And I will say this: Parental DNA testing MUST be mandatory.

@MyHeartcode You care ooh! The wife cares too!!

@Va4obi2027 And who cares about the li fe of a cheating man?

The man who steps out on his wife & sees other women is every bit as morally reprehensible as the woman who cheats on her man… but the effects aren’t the same. Which is why, for a society, female infidelity may be worse. Because if it happens& things go wrong, it has the potential for more dramatic results, impacting more people. One decision may ruin not only her husband’s life, but that of her own child, too.

Because men are seen to want sex. The more they get, the better. Whereas women are seem to give sex. As in, the more they give away, the worse it is.People have lower expectations of men in that department. They assume women have less of a sex drive and better impulse control, so they should able to keep their pants on. Society also thinks women should be more moral and virtuous. Those ridiculous views mean that women adulterers are seen to be losing value.

Why do women get judged more harshly for cheating than men?

Nothing irritates me more than somebody thinking I give a fuck about something I don’t give a fuck about!

But a woman's attitude when her man does not have money is a yardstick to measure if she's truly a good woman.

@daniyel_Liv The truth is life will be boring without money & relationship is not an exception...but A good woman should not be a commodity that should be bought over with money.🤔

Dear men, lack of money will make you lose a good woman.