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Lagos today, Canada tomorrow Katılım Kasım 2019
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Apostle Selman has really changed my perspective on prayer.
He would always say locate scriptures that speak to your situation from the Bible and use it to pray.
The boundary of God's commitment to a believer is His Word. Connect what you want & what God has said in His word.
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As a woman I can categorically tell you that your cousin didn’t just develop any genuine feelings over night, she is just angry that the perks and benefits that comes with the “fooling” around of the man is no more…
And for guys, it’s very necessary for men to also have self awareness, once a woman doesn’t like you, it doesn’t take forever to know , you’ll burn your resources and gain a “bought” or material induced love that is if you’re lucky to hit 😔🙁
DEE ❤@Olami_deeEbony
There’s this guy that likes my cousin. Bro has been chasing her for over a year now, and I’m not even exaggerating when I say the guy is serious serious. He sends her lunch at work every day. He even paid her rent earlier this year. At some point, we all started begging her to just give him a chance because from everything we can see, the guy genuinely likes her. But my cousin refused. Her reason was that she’s a bit taller than him and, according to her, he doesn’t know how to dress well. Yesterday was her birthday, and she was lowkey expecting him to shut down Lagos for her. Omo, uncle posted engagement pictures on his status. He proposed to someone else 😭 Now my cousin has been crying since morning, saying she’s starting to develop feelings for him and that he should have tried harder. Women, our wahala is too much. 😂
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A clingy girlfriend needs an available boyfriend. Not just physically present, but emotionally available. She needs someone who does not see her need for connection as a burden. She needs reassurance, attention, and consistency.
A clingy woman needs a receptive man. A man who is attentive, present, and willing to meet her emotional needs. She does not need a man who calls her "too much" or tells her to calm down. She needs someone who understands that her clinginess is often a response to inconsistency. When she feels safe, she becomes secure.
The same applies to a clingy man. He needs a woman who does not shame him for wanting to be close. He needs a partner who sees his emotional expression as strength, not weakness. He needs someone who will not punish him for caring.
Let emotionally unavailable people find themselves. Let them date each other.
A.VICTOR@Lifeof_AG01
A clingy girlfriend needs an available boyfriend (emotionally available and physically). A nonchalant boyfriend isn’t a good fit for anyone except a nonchalant girlfriend.
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Yes, you should. Consistent communication builds connection, trust, and a sense of security. But I am also of the opinion that you should learn your partner. Some people need a day off to breathe. It does not mean they love you less. It does not mean they are losing interest. It simply means they need space to recharge. The key is them communicating it to you. A simple "I need a day to myself, I will talk to you tomorrow" changes everything. It turns silence from a threat into a reassurance.
Some people need a day or two just to recharge and come back stronger. That is not rejection. That is self care. Too much of everything is not good. If you demand constant contact, you may end up choking your partner. They will feel pressured. They will feel trapped. And eventually, they will pull away.
For me, I do not mind talking every day. In fact, I love that. But your partner might not be the same. And that is fine. The goal is not to make your partner a copy of you. The goal is to understand them, respect their needs, and find a rhythm that works for both of you.
Communicate your needs. Listen to theirs. Find a middle ground. That is how love survives.
Noorie@Nurapost
Is it necessary to talk to the person you're dating everyday?
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SILENT TREATMENT.
Silent treatment can take a toll on a person's mental and emotional health. Ignoring someone can be deeply damaging, especially for those who need closure to move forward.
Clear communication, even in difficult moments, is crucial. It's okay to say, "I don't want to talk to you," or "I no longer want this relationship." Statements like these, while painful, are far better than leaving someone in limbo and acting as if they owe you their submission.
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Pastor Nathaniel Bassey prophecy...I saw people careers shifting in the next 2 weeks
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If you cannot comfortably say "the Holy Spirit said" around your close friends,
Change your circle!
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Honestly you should attend the same church with your partner.
There was altar call for those seeking the fruit of the womb and our Pastor instructed both men & women to come out.
I thought to myself that nothing beats prayer of agreement in settings like that.
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My male bestie, who got married a few months ago, asked what he should give his woman as the 'first gift' in the marriage. I swung into action and gave him many options of gifts that would melt his wife's heart. He got back to me and said he had thought about it and that he would get her a 'washing machine' instead. (She has been admiring a specific type), and he thought she would appreciate it better.
I warned him against it because I believe it should be something personal. He went ahead with his silly plan. He bought a washing machine worth 1.2m and presented it to her.
She did not even argue with him. She sold the machine and used the money to buy a raw donor hair😭
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Rage baiting is what Proverbs 26 warns about.
Don’t get pulled into dumb arguments.
And don’t stay silent when truth matters.
Wisdom is knowing when to speak
& when to walk away.
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You can’t make this up 😭
Ugbede@ugbede_ugbede
Funny thing is, in the real world men don’t like pick mes😭
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Honestly, there’s a serious lack of good partners out here and it’s one of the reasons marriages feel harder these days. The ones who are genuine, consistent, emotionally available, and actually put in effort aren’t as common as people think. You really can’t afford to be careless with the ones who actually show up right.
Rene🧚🫧@sheisafairyyy
This is not the era to fumble a good partner bruh, you might not recover from it.
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