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@girl_quboid Don't sweat it. We all get dysphoria at times. Men, women, NB, cis, trans, all in-between. Fact is, when you feel you aren't up to par. That's your self-doubt talking like a bad toothache trying to compare you to the others in your life. You're you and nobody can be you better.

i think my dysphoria has significantly worsened since i started transitioning

@crint_cool @BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 Holy shit, I didn't get the notification for this. I was just explaining the trans experience based off of what peers of mine who were GNC/Trans have grew up with and told me. What the fuck is this shit.

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @VinceDPolitan Please calm down we’re talking about a fucking video game you guys you’re talking about fictional characters, genders, and sexualities as if they impact our day-to-day lives

Idk does anybody find it weird that people call ralsei trans like I can’t be the only one who finds that weird and kind of offensive

@gator_enjoyer14 @BigBussy23 @crint_cool I'm going fucking insane. Did I actually just get disagreed with on the prospect that trans people growing up in Christian Conservative households can cause them to uphold potentially self destructive beliefs that are counter-intuitive to their own aspirations for gender identity

@BigBussy23 @VinceDPolitan @crint_cool sounds pretty ableist, not very woke of you friend

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool But if you think growing up all your life and hearing shit like, "Men aren't supposed to wear dresses" "Women aren't supposed to wear suits" "Pink is a girly color" "Blue is a man's color" so on so forth couldn't indirectly pavlov you into Gender Essentialism that's insane.

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool Like, I'm not gonna go literally grab you a random trans person's sentiments that echo this because that'd just be putting a random person on blast. However, to deny my argument is different is to either believe there aren't trans people who grow up in shit con/christian homes.

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool These are rhetorically identical arguments. You conflated one person's incompetent and irrational opinion with the entirety of those who disagree in a blanket term, and I posited how it's easy to do the same to your chain of logic with an incompetent/irrational opposite.

@VinceDPolitan @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool What?

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool I'm not, you are by trying to "wreck a transphobe" or whatever. Here, this is my point. First off, this is what I meant when I said "nutpicking" fallacy" I wasn't just pulling random bullshit out of my asshole for starters.

@VinceDPolitan @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool Yeah cuz you're just saying meaningless bullshit, trying to get the "le epic own" when there's nothing to own

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool And I agree they probably are. We're in the same boat here.

@VinceDPolitan @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool What are you even talking about? I just called someone transphobic

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool Do I need to make an image to explain this shit to you? I'm not trying to sound condescending, but this argument has multiple aspects to it, and I think you're genuinely missing what I'm trying to say to you right now.

@VinceDPolitan @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool Ok but i still didnt say any of that

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool The fact you're so pressed by me even indulging in the same behavior you did by picking this one specific person's statement and conflating it to everyone who disagrees with you, but me doing the same colnfuses you shows me you don't realize the rhetorical jiujitsu you're on.

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool No I didn't? The trans/queer experience is often really ubiquitous with bullshit like this because of how many countries have conservative/traditionalist values as an underbelly, and I didn't even say this was your side's case, I literally said, "It's like if I" as a hypothetical

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool Fucks sake man, I can indulge your rhetoric, but you're unwilling to even put another person on trial. You don't care about having a conversation, you only care about affirming your own opinions on everything. It's frustrating as shit, and I don't care for it.

@VinceDPolitan @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool It's obviously the first one duhhhhhh

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool I just get you're being bad faith now. Literally every queer person I've talked to has lived with or know someone who lived with a fundamentalist in some religious category that denies their identity off of bullshit non-secular beliefs. To act that has no influence is insane.

@VinceDPolitan @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool Brother I didn't even say anytbing and you started yapping about some random religious person?

@gator_enjoyer14 @BigBussy23 @crint_cool Listen, I can't tell if this is just a dogwhistle attempt at trans erasure, or if you acknowledge GNC masc people exist, but your point is correct. These are all teenagers who are questioning, we can't just hardline anything so far when the story isn't even finished yet.

@VinceDPolitan @BigBussy23 @crint_cool its literally just enforcing gender stereotypes but wokely, feminine men deserve to exist as themselves too

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool I'm genuinely trying not to be a dick, but like. If a woman doesn't care for girly clothing that doesn't make her transmasc, nor does Ralsei liking to dress in fem make them transfem. I literally said I can see the concept, but it doesn't make it like a canon fact, it's headcanon

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool I'm not trying to be obtuse. This game has a non-binary character in it. If you've ever heard the phrase, "NB people don't owe you androgyny" you should be able to parse that just because someone is GNC that they don't immediately fall under a trans umbrella, that's not evidence.

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool Eh? Gender essentialism can get pretty transphobic when you realize the queer person you're talking to was abused so much by a biblebashing Christian family that they can't visualize gender identity without a ubiquitous nuclear family stereotype. It is it's own form of toxic.

@VinceDPolitan @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool Except our strawman isn't transphobic lmao

@TheSashaExpress I would adore that being. It'd be like Cory Spazkid but without the actual goonerisms. I'd be stoked for the second coming of Christ like that.

Having pervert humor while not being a pervert is crazy tbh

@BigBussy23 @gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool I don't even disagree with the idea Ralsei could be transfem, but your rhetoric is just a nut-picking fallacy. That'd be like if I found the biggest existing strawman of a trans Ralsei theorist and blanketed you with that argument. It's not true, but there's nuance here.

@gator_enjoyer14 @crint_cool Ladies and gentlemen, I present the "woke side of the argument" you "people" agree with