Violet

I wore my bee socks today. Socks with bees on them. Bees! 🐝 This isn't why I'm still single, is it? Surely not. Who doesn't love bees? #SaveTheBees

@my2ndsinglelife My memory is a lot worse and I have new ADHD symptoms cropping up. I chalk it up to collective trauma and insomnia/sleep deprivation. Maybe it's more than that.😅

So every woman in their 40s thinks they have early onset dementia, right? Our brains are so mean 😭

I'm too wise and settled to make poor drunk texting decisions out of loneliness. Sometimes I'm sad about that. 😂

Sometimes you just need a good shoulder to sink your teeth into. Best I can do right now is romantasy novels and Hozier.

@supermarkusa Forehead kisses are a precious currency.

Is this true ladies?👇I hope so because I love doing this

@absolutelyamyyy I used to but there isn't a need these days. I typically separate by hang-dry, dryer-friendly loads, sheets or cleaning cloths. I only separate by colour if it will run (rare these days!), are very dirty, or temp sensitive.

Just saying 🤷🏻‍♀️ Do you separate your lights, darks and colours when you do laundry?

After spending so long in functional freeze and finally *working towards specific things* and *take care of shit* again that second one is kind of a head turner.

2. Let go and forget about your timeline. Despite working towards hard goals for the first time in ages, and really working to push things along and make them happen, the universe is telling me to let go. I guess you can't hurry things along.

The universe is working on teaching me two lessons simultaneously at this time. 1. Seize opportunities. Specifically, grab the first opportunity that comes along. You snooze you lose, and there will be consequences.

@my2ndsinglelife I love high tea! Let's go~ 🫖

I went to a high tea on the weekend and it was so good and now I'm obsessed with high tea. I want every meal to be high tea. I've researched every high tea spot within 100kms of me. It's snacking and a meal at the same time!!!!

So many times!

I've been struggling with my mental health recently. If you see this, please stop and say hello.

Me: I live in perpetual burnout, I'm too tired and busy to properly take care of things, way too stressed out, and prefer solitude to interpersonal messes. Me: Buuuut I miss flirting. Maybe I need to hop on the dating apps to find people to flirt with. 🤷‍♀️

@my2ndsinglelife Sending hugs!

Today marks a new low for me. I'm starting to go off 1 of my antidepressants because I can no longer afford it ☹️ Wish me luck please because I am nervous #auspol

@my2ndsinglelife I've been 100% fine ever since I knew to lay down for them.

@VioletDates This was the first time I've lied down and I think that was the trick!

Well finally after 7 years I got a blood test today without fainting! Got myself a Macca's breakfast as a reward. How delightful.

After two days silence… number 3 has taken himself out. 4 out of 4 dates cancelled this week.

I strive to one day be the level of put-together where I have a designated day to bathe all my hair brushes and accessories.

Also I'm just way too tired to be social these days.