Lost Girl

I hate these tweets. It is not as simple as this. If someone is suffering from severe depression, they will not be able to reach out to you, despite really wanting to. They self isolate and often don’t feel worthy of anyone’s time and attention. I am guilty of this all the time. My real friends and people who love me understand this. I’d be dead by now if everyone I knew took this stance. Not everything is about you. Sometimes it’s about the person on the other end struggling to survive.

Normalize NOT reaching out to someone who hasn’t responded to your text or called back in hours, or days. They know they haven't spoken to you. It’s not because they're busy. It’s because they don't want to. They know you’re a good person. They just don't care. If they wanted to be around, they WOULD. If they wanted to take you on a date, they WOULD. If they wanted to stay in contact, they WOULD. Leave them ALONE. Quit going the extra mile to make someone care, because no matter what you do, it won’t change anything.