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@aildesol @cyr I thought this was you for a split second

lembrando aqui de quando eu me fantasiei de pica pra uma festa da empresa onde eu trabalhava e no outro dia fui demitido por conta disso

Lebron james just alley ooped it to his sperm this is so beyond the best player ever its not even funny

who would have predicted that being able to bet on literally anything that could ever occur might have unintended consequences?

At least we know what the line is now.

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@Meatdaddy84 I am encouraging the exact opposite of mind reading and suggesting you simply ask about boundaries and comfort before engaging. Holy fucking shit. I’m going to bed.

@wakewilder Men have to be mind readers, also women have zero agency to just say no. Very good take.

If this discourse has brought anything to light, it's the pitifully anemic understanding men seem to have of what explicit and enthusiastic consent looks like. Sex should require no convincing or active guess work. If you truly believe she wants you, just fucking ask.

@Y3y2f Ah, yes — the behavior I’m most known for. Do better.

@wakewilder Is this coming from the guy that always throws himself at every drunk streamer he can find in Austin Texas?! You’re unironically a predator with extra steps

@endotheremin @leou____ @J_S__L @luongas Yeah, word it like less of a “dude making a joke under a multi-thread tweet” for fucks sake

@wakewilder @leou____ @J_S__L @luongas Extremely unsexy things to say, ask any woman

My dawg, if a woman is touching your whole ass package, asking them if they’re comfortable having sex is not going to lessen your likelihood of it occurring — she is either comfortable doing it or not, you asking lucidly is probably only going to help? And if it causes her to decide otherwise, she wasn’t comfortable to begin with. Persisting in the absence of consent is exactly how the testimony you’re admonishing comes to be.

@wakewilder Also, a girl gives consent in more than one way; they can actually start kissing your neck while talking dirty in your ear or even place their hand on your genitals. If you ask them, "So you want to have sex?" you would now be further rolling the dice of not having sex.

The collective willingness to standardize the absence of non-consent as a veritable proxy for consent itself is EXACTLY the cultural failure I’m trying to address here. I don’t ascribe overt malice to this phenomenon — I see it rather as a gaping blind spot in our sexual discourse.

Is your response to their testimony not indicative of exactly why it is they would fear sharing it? Women often wait for corroborating narratives before risking coming forth, as it’s always bolstering against the onslaught of doubt to have strength in numbers. I don’t necessarily believe he’s a dangerous predator — I believe everything described about his behavior is actually painfully predictable and the outcomes of his actions devastatingly ordinary. We have mistakenly condemned transparent discussion of boundaries as an obstacle to intimacy rather than identifying it for the catalyst that it almost always is. While there are certainly an unending list of examples where there is blatant predation, it isn’t uncommon for men to be clumsily persisting in the face of uncertain response whole women are politely enduring these advances so as to not create unnecessary conflict. This is all very much rectifiable on a cultural level should we choose to see to such change. Sex is messy, and overwhelming and self confronting. The more we encourage openness in intimate contexts, the more everyone benefits from those contexts themselves.

@wakewilder If Sykkuno was such a "dangerous predator" (According to Wake anyway 🤷‍♂️), Why did they let him continue "predating" for years while they modded his chat and played games with him? This "moral" urgency only suddenly appeared years later? This was done on purpose for clout.

@infinitus98549 No. Flirt away, just ask if they’d like to be kissed and inquired about their boundaries before you start escalating. Also — you absolutely can coerce your wife — she isn’t properly upon marriage, king.

@wakewilder You are trying ur hardest to be reductive and abuse men into thinking they are evil for now flirting and using foreplay to garner the conditions for there to be sex. If that is now the standard, then you can even be considered to coerce your wife at this point.

@itatzki @cringechin The entire point of this thread is to encourage young dudes to be unafraid of asking in the right context.

@wakewilder @cringechin Yeah generally that is a nice practice that everyone should do I fully agree, but it doesn't always happen that way. That's why it's put in theoretical territory, because most people would probably rely on nonverbal cues to imply consent.

@Puertocuck77 @itatzki @cringechin As opposed to simply grabbing her pussy? The fuck is this logic? It’s obviously something you’d ask at the point of sufficient comfort and tension — likely after you’ve asked her if she’s be cool with you kissing her, and if there’s any contact she isn’t comfortable with.

@wakewilder @itatzki @cringechin Just flat out asking women if they want to have sex is a sure fire way to end up in a “has this creep messaged any other ladies like this” post

@wherecantigo @itatzki @cringechin Yeah, don’t be a nerd about it — ask her if she’s comfortable and how she actually cums.

@Arthur_Brown81 @itatzki @cringechin I do motherfucker.

@wakewilder @itatzki @cringechin "I really fail to see how offering a single clarifying inquiry is an action so unfathomable that it’s somehow relegated to “in a perfect world” discourse." who in the actually fuck talks like this normally?