Benja White

Supporting your parents, siblings and relatives is a noble gesture. It is moral to offer help where needed. However, learn to say NO. Stick to your budget.

Yesterday, I wrote about homosexuality in political circles (Legislation, Judiciary and Government.) Today, closeted homosexuals came out to defend their fetish for scavenging on young men's rectums. The level of homosexuality in government is bad. By government I mean, Parliament, Judiciary and Executive. So bad. Politicians prey on young men because these young men are desperate for economic and career opportunities. Also, unlike young women, these young men can't get pregnant, and therefore, there will be no tangible, credible proof to scandalize gay politicians in the event the rectal ordeal goes sour. The young men are broke and the only thing they have is a smart-phone, witty fingers, untapped potential, academic certificates gathering dust at home and therefore politicians use their proximity to political influence to hoodwink and manipulate these young men. They sleep with these boys, tear their rectum, and leave them traumatized and in chronic mental anguish. Why are churches and mosques silent yet they know this uncouth behaviour is going on en masse? Homosexuality must be condemned strongly by all and sundry. We must protect our young men from these corrupt degenerates calling themselves leaders.

Men stop chasing sex when sex starts feeling like humiliation.

When a marriage treats female desire as sacred complexity but male desire as crude inconvenience, the relationship begins to tilt in a way that eventually damages both people.

Don't buy fruits from supermarkets, majority of them are "gay" fruits - seedless, nutrition less, tasteless, soulless. Think about this, fruits that micro organisms don't even want nothing to do with (those things can stay weeks without turning bad), but you're putting that in your stomach

With the mindset of many Gen Z men, I hope some of you will not divorce your future wives if they lose their jobs. I have said it many times: before you get married, have the 'I can do it alone' mindset. Do not decide to marry a woman mainly because she earns her own money. Remove your eyes from her money and plan your future with her with your own money. A woman's money is not sweet to taste. A woman doesn't have to work to make money, before she qualifies to be a wife and mother. If you're not ready to start thinking this way, please avoid marriage. The fact that women get up to 4 months maternity leave (in some countries, more), should tell you that a woman's place of recognition and strength is mostly from being a mother, a home maker, a nurturer and a wife. See her money as a bonus, or rather, an additional privilege to you. Not your right. Not your entitlement. Not your inheritance. Not your dependable source, but your reliable source. A wife that is playing her roles effectively and efficiently, is not a liability. I don't care what any of you wokist or "in saner" climes pundits want to say about this. This is Africa. And Africa remains the true foundation of family values. We educate women so that our society can be educated. We raise women so that we can have families, responsible children and a home. You cannot call your wife and mother of your children a liability, when you are hardly home, and she's there holding things down in your absence. That's an asset. You young men must start to recalibrate your mindsets and avoid severe depression or consequences in the future in your marriage. A woman will aways remain a woman. End.

Men, Good Morning, It is a chilly Saturday morning here. Welcome to #MasculinitySaturday This is an ASSEMBLY • Of MEN • By MEN • For MEN As a tradition, mark the class register. Where are you following from? Country/City/Town/Village.

Men, Be ruthless and unapologetic when executing your revenge against a cheating wife. Don't forget the disrespect. Walk with the lesson in your heart. #MasculinitySaturday

When a woman loses interest, she won't tell you. She'll just get busy, act distant, and slowly pull away until you leave first.

Men, Protect yourself from emotional blackmail, You see, In the event you discover that she is disloyal and disobedient, She will gaslight you, "I will pack and leave." "You will not find a better wife." This is emotional blackmail. Don't accept. #MasculinitySaturday

Women need to stop acting like sexual rejection inside marriage is a laughing matter. It breaks his spirit, damages the bond, and teaches him that the deepest part of him is unwelcome in his own home. That is not a small issue. That is marital negligence.

Unfollow her. Unfriend her. Stop checking her stories. Stop stalking who she’s with. She’s not coming back, and even if she does, it won’t be the same. Never chase a woman who is not interested in you. Never.

Men, The most secretive sign that she is cheating, • A hormonal implant in her arm. Once you see it, the red flag is up. If you ask her, she will get defensive, chaotic and dramatic. A BIG RED FLAG. Don't be ignorant. #MasculinitySaturday

Men, Where children are present, Be the sober one. Avoid drama when separating from a cheating wife. She will be chaotic using the children for emotional blackmail. Don't tell the public. It is not a company announcing its insolvency to shareholders. #MasculinitySaturday

A married woman bought underwears for her husband's younger brother who stays with them. Her husband is upset about it. She says she doesn't understand why he's overreacting. It's very simple: How would she react, if her husband buys underwears for her sister? End.

Men, You have the right to be bitter when she cheats. Let nobody gaslight you. You were convinced that if you are a nice man, she will be loyal. So, when she is disloyal, it is fine to be upset. Use that bitterness to become a beast of results. #MasculinitySaturday

As a man, the decisions you make when horny are the ones you'll regret the most

I hate sex, even if I get married I will not touch my wife, her duty is to cook and take care of our kids.

Men, Disrespect begins with simple signals, Like, Calling you the name on your ID card during a disagreement. Or, Reminding you that she met you when you were poor, haggard and unpleasant, "But I chose you instead." The pattern is always glaring. #MasculinitySaturday

Men, Always have a secret house that belongs to you, away from her, When shit happens, and you want to protect the children, and she wants a fight, Go to your secret house and stay there. Disengage. Your children will be fine. #MasculinitySaturday