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Women *OUTNUMBER* men in higher education = equality Men outnumber women at the doctoral level = important gaps need to be filled If you men like, keep sleeping or come and tell me it's not that deep when I highlight the cultural misandry that characterises the zeitgeist

Without trying to be funny, the Nigerian dream is to game the system to achieve a life free from want, worry, and the pressures of responsibility. It is about making money without effort and getting things for free without working for them. This is why you see people who travel to places with plenty of opportunity to achieve things with hard work still being caught up in crime and fraud. One could argue that it is the same for all humans, but in Nigeria, it is cultural. We praise and worship those whom we think achieved this by being "smart" and not those who did it through hard work and sheer effort. Even when we discover that people are rich, we never think it is from effort; it is likely because they gamed the system. The Nigerian dream is to game the system and do nothing. That is why corruption and fraud are commonplace. It never used to be like this, and not all Nigerians currently think this way, but a majority now do, thanks to the madness Nollywood has infected the society with, in the name of entertainment. Now, we are too far gone.

If you can behave properly in front of other people and in certain gatherings, you can behave properly in front of your man. Relationship is not a pretext for bad attitude. You know exactly what you're doing. Your hormone is valid, your bad behaviour is not.

Like 2 people just unfollowed. 😂 Okay, note to self: don't start keeping track of follower count. Unnecessary dopamine trigger.

I'll also say this as someone who grew up on the nice side of the barbed wire fences and high gates in the very nice part of town where the Nigerian 0.1% live - learn to touch grass and worry about yourself because rich people really do not care about you. Like, at all. The Nigerian rich don't even like each other. They barely tolerate one another and make practical alliances to preserve wealth and influence. And now that the economy is too small to support all the children of the Nigerian 0.1%, nearly everyone I grew up with in the nice, leafy part of town now lives in Toronto or London or wherever. You, Mr N250k/month Union Bank contract staff are not part of rich people's thinking at all. At. All. The rich have no plans for you. They have no plans to create opportunities for you. They have no plans to fix the things they broke on their way to building that N1bn townhouse in Parkview Estate. They have no plans to contribute towards making society better. If Satan came from Hell with a tail and horns growing out of his head and he ran for political office, the rich would all go make deals with him - because in the world of the rich, the only thing that matters is their own interests, and making sure that they never, EVER have to live like you or next to you. So all this simping and vicarious fawning over wealth and fame that you people do everyday is the most redundant thing in the world - the rich have no intention of expanding their circle to let you in, and they have no intention of enabling the conditions for you to create your own independent circle of wealth. The only thing the rich need from you is to be poor and obedient, so that your labour can be cheap, plentiful and replaceable. Statistically as a Nigerian, you will NEVER be rich or close to it. You will NEVER live in Maitama. 99.99% of Nigerians who have existed since 1960 have prayed and fantasised about becoming rich, and 99.99% of those prayers and fantasies never came true. That's just math. You will never be a rich and famous celebrity. You will never be a successful content creator. You will never make millions shilling crypto, trading Forex, sports betting, or whatever the fuck is the latest quick wealth fantasy in town. It's just not going to happen. That being the case, a much more constructive use of your time would be to fight for the material elevation of what you actually have, where you actually have it. Instead of daydreaming about the N300m house in Lekki that 3 generations of your family cannot buy, get involved in a local effort to give your own immediate neighbourhood a facelift, or a political campaign to pressure the state to build high quality social housing. If you hate being harassed without consequence online, instead of vicariously enjoying how a celebrity has used their wealth and influence to jail someone for making a horrid tweet, fight for a judiciary and legal system that is transparent and accessible to all, so that a singer living in the UK on a global talent visa doesn't get to have more access to your Nigerian justice system than you who lives in Nigeria 24/7. Instead of building your mental architecture around the false idea of being a "temporarily embarrassed millionaire" who will someday take your rightful place on Banana Island, touch grass tonight and accept that it will never happen, and what you need to do instead is fight for where you are to become a better, more liveable place that you no longer wish to escape from. Stop cosplaying as rich folk. Stop cooing and fawning over rich folk. Stop daydreaming about someday "blowing up" and buying a house next to Burna Boy. Rich people have no intention of sharing their world with you. Free yourself from the tyranny of living vicariously through people who don't care that you exist. Them no really send any part of your papa at all.

Again, if she thinks she's doing you a favour by being faithful, you have already lost. Her fidelity should benefit her and her alone so that when she contemplates infidelity, she will do so fully aware, that it is her who stands to lose the most - and it's not close. If you give her the impression that you too will suffer or worst, that you will suffer more, then you have lost whatever leverage you have and she will make you suffer. From that point, it becomes only a matter of time. Why? Because self interest is a much stronger driver of human behaviour than love, duty, promises, marital vows, morality, empathy, or any of all those other abstract ideals men delude themselves with. Especally when that human is the female variant - a being notorious for its selfishness and solipsism. The important question, then, is not whether or not your woman will cheat. That is a secondary consideration because at best, you can influence it, but you can never control it. It is what happens if she cheats? Specifically, who loses the most materially and psychologically, perceptually and in reality. And that is the part you can control provided you are sufficiently emotionally disciplined. So how do you engineer the dynamic of the relationship or marriage such that it is ALWAYS patently in her best interest to be faithful and NEVER yours? Because women are sore losers - and they are sore loses because they are spoilt narcissists who are not used to losing in romantic contexts. So the fear of losing has a far more compelling effect on their behaviour than meaningless, abstract sentiments like romantic love. So again, how do you stack the deck so thoroughly in your favour so that if she betrays you, she alone bears the bulk of the material, psychological, and social consequences. Well, I have explained the strategies, psychology and underlying mechanics for pulling this off across countless tweets but you people say "it's too stressful", that it is 'mental gymnastics', that you will find a 'good woman', 'fall in love' and everything will somehow work itself out - even though most, if not all of the women you've been with have been trash. Good luck to everybody

You see how Ugo has been posting his wins back to back while his ex-wife has been posting Chike? Well this goes to show you how stvpidd women can be.

Men still don’t get it. They don’t get it. They’re trying to make points. They’re saying, “look! you people are wrong.” You can tweet occasionally, sure. You can debate with a girl you like to talk with. But your natural disposition towards these women shouldn’t be about debate.  To these woke women, you should be a high-handed asshole who thinks they have nothing to offer. Because they don’t. Berlusconi, Trump, Mourinho, Castro, Sinatra, Gianni Agnelli type of energy. And it’s not a ruse. You need to actually be playing with life so easily that you naturally emit that aspect of cool.  I once said something similar to one of my mutuals here, who was recently dragged. I said “I don’t doubt your intentions, I can’t totally say what you’re about either; but if you’re against hoe culture you shouldn’t be giving whores attention so easily. Why exchange words with them? Bear in mind that if you’re going to stay on your own lane they’d still come around to cry.” He said he gets me but expressed a desire to “expose them.” Not long after our convo, a guy trended for walking out on his “heated debated” with a bitch feminist; and people were taking sides. Like, why are you even going on such shows, bro? “Intellectual exchanges”? Really?! So, you don’t go, then what happens? Say you’re shamed for not wanting to join them in their debates and podcast dialogues, then what? Niggas like Kant and Bentham were making cases from their studies. You had to be worth something to be granted an audience. Who cares what a bitch says? Nobody is exchanging words with some miserable freak. If I might speak to someone, I’d decide when, how, and with whom. You shouldn’t knowingly sit down to exchange words with them. Let them be. But if they address you, you should be chuckling or ignoring. If they try to hurt you, you must hurt them as much as you can, and the men who rep them: come for everything they love until blood runs like tap water. Not out of malice but on principle. And express your cool—back again. But you can’t be playing on their own game. Most men don’t have the wit and ruthlessness to pull such. The brutes aren’t intelligent. The intelligent are naturally naive and cowardly. Both aren’t socially savvy and integrated enough to embody these contradictions. Shame.

Dating in your 30’s is crazy because you’re getting hit on by women in their 20’s and 40’s and they all ask for money.

This man wasn’t even the one that directly released those audios. They were leaked from court evidence in a divorce proceedings that she dragged him to herself. He has always tried to protect her as the mother of his children. While all she’s bent on doing is destroying him. Married to your enemy indeed.

The richest African business mogul alive was asked a simple question about who has helped Africa more, and his straightforward answer was: China. My humble self, along with many other like-minded and progressive Africans, has been saying this for quite some time now. Yet some people, thoroughly brainwashed by Western propaganda, still think otherwise. All these morons ever ask are ludicrous questions like, “If you were given a Chinese visa and a U.S. visa today, which one would you choose?” or they ask which company you would rather work for: a Chinese company or an American one. Their thinking never extends beyond personal advancement or securing another wage job where they exchange their time for a paycheck. It is never about how to leverage the economic progress in a country like China to help the community in a way that puts food in the mouths of people other than themselves and their immediate families. Meanwhile, many of us involved in trade, industry, manufacturing, or other productive ventures in this country, and even those who simply think beyond personal gain and genuinely desire the progress of Nigeria and Africa as a whole, understand the positive impact China has had on the continent. Of course, not everything is perfect. There are areas that require better organization and stronger regulation across several sectors. Nevertheless, it remains, by far, the most beneficial partnership Africa has had with any global power, and it would serve us well to nurture and strengthen that relationship.

On silent treatment...

Nigerian Billionaire Aliko Dangote Was Asked Who Is Helping Africa More Economically? China, The US, Or Europe. His Answer Was…

The fact that a lot of Women are on Chike’s side only confirms that he’s doing rubbish. Women never support Men because they’re naturally very selfish people. So as a rule of thumb, if a lot of Women are supporting your actions as a Man you’re doing rubbish.

@Richmandalion I am thankful that you don't feed me, or else I would have starved, because I no longer have your approval.

Micheal Jackson shared his truth before he passed. You can quite literally feel his soul,it’s rare nowadays.

I would never touch or hit a woman (except in self defense). But you see that silent treatment? I have 5 Professorial degrees in it. I will wear you out till you either take responsibility or you leave voluntarily. Take your “maturity” to the bank.

You just reminded me to address this. He was earning N160k a month from WWTBAM alone. This was 2004 and that was a whole lot of money. How many people earned N160k in 2004? This money does not include endorsements. That job gave him access, it brought him other gigs, he got lots of cash gifts because Nigerians are very generous people and he was our hero. That guy is rich.

This post stemmed from a conversation about Otedola and liquidity. People keep misunderstanding the wealthy and how they do things. One of the smartest things you can do as a rich person is to own a significant stake in a bank. That guarantees constant liquidity, as you can borrow from the bank against your assets and use the loan to buy more assets, which you can then borrow against again. Banks create money, and wealthy people use banks to create wealth. Yes, there are prudential guidelines and all that, but a closer relationship with a bank helps you understand that all assets are a means to an end, not an end in themselves. Plus, the bank knows you aren't going anywhere in a hurry, so you aren't a flight risk. A lot of rich Nigerians abused this in the past, but in this era of public markets, Otedola knows that the bank's stock will be more valuable if it is run well. He sold a power plant to double down on bank stock for a good reason, and it was a smart move. Tomorrow, he could also sell his stake in the bank for something bigger and better. The other angle is to build something that produces a lot of cash flow that banks love. Something like the refinery Dangote built or even his cement factory. You will always have ample leverage to do a lot of things. Dangote wasn't foolish to sell off his expensive cars and real estate to go all in. Owning a bank is still the ultimate wealth hack. My uncle told us many years ago that owning a stake in one guarantees you will be invited to the tables where decisions about the economy and our collective future are made. None of our Nigerian billionaires is stupid. Selfish, maybe, but not stupid.

*Caucasianson von der Richwhiteguyberg Mosquito Factory and Allied Plasmodium Gain Of Function Research Institute opens next door to poor people somewhere in Africa* Neighbours: *immediately come down with patented Super Malaria strain and Caucasianson von der Richwhiteguyberg Holding Company Incorporated threatens to sue them for intellectual property theft. Neighbours start demonstrating outside giant mosquito facility next door* Me (Well-paid mosquito factory PR manager and professional smiling black face): "When are you people going to stop the victim mentality and quit blaming foreign investors for the fact that YOU fell ill?" Neighbours: "But the mosquitoes -" Me: "Nonsense! Is it the mosquitoes that told you to have a weak immune system? Why don't you improve your diet and hold your government accountable for not giving you preventive anti-malarial medication? All you do is eat junk food and vote for useless local councillors who can't give you anti-malarials, then you fall sick and start blaming the biotech investors who brought FDI into our neighbourhood instead of taking responsibility for your own poor decisions!" Neighbours: "But it was the mosquito factory owner that funded the local councillor's election campaign-" Me: "He gave a contribution within the legal limit so no laws were broken!" Neighbours: "-and as soon as he won, he gave them permission to open the factory here. It sounds like instead of lobbying your bosses' puppet government for palliative measures to fix the problem that they created, we would be much better off without both your factory and the government your bosses imposed on us!" Me: "This is why Africa doesn't make progress! Whenever anybody comes to try to invest in you people, you want to destroy their investment with your stupid African socialism! The problem with socialism is that you always run out of somebody else's money! Instead of you to take responsibility and compete, you want to wallow in your victim mentality and blame the mosquito factory owner for your situation. You people are so pathetic..." *Factory owner sends brief email at 2.30AM*: "Following a review of our investment priorities for Q1, we have decided to halt operations at the Caucasianson von der Richwhiteguyberg Mosquito Factory and Allied Plasmodium Gain Of Function Research Institute until further notice. Per your employment contract, you will be paid end of the month for work done this month on a pro-rated basis. Thank you for your work and we wish you success in your future endeavours. Me: "Did I just become unemployed?" Super Mosquito: *bites me* Me: *comes down with Super Malaria* Neighbours: Factory Owner: Me: "shit" Me: *picks up placard*